Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

We got into a fight because I wanted to hangout with some friends after our date, (The night was over she was going to bed soon, she just doesn't like it when I make plans after ours)...Well instead of going to bed, Her Ex text messages her and she decides to go over to his apartment. They talk for awhile and then she makes out with him and then tells him she has to leave. I get a phone call at 5 in the morning saying she did something really bad and i need to come over. So I go over there and she says she is really sorry and it is the biggest mistake of her life. I had a lot of trust with her before this...We have been together for 2& half years and nothing like this has even came close...I dont think either of us have had 1 on 1 with the opposite sex since we began dating...When she told me I was just speechless and don't know what to do...We have a lot of plans coming up; cruise, concerts...Just bothers me cus it seems like she knew what she was doing....

2007-09-22 05:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by ID8647 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-22 05:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by Drop Dead, Samantha 2 in Friends

wife for fake marriage:139/5'8''/28-35, brunette,educated,
sexy citizen; for man 167/5'11''/39, graduated,blond,european

2007-09-22 05:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by oleh z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-22 05:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron I 1 in Friends

What I was wondering is are you still a virgin!? If not how old were you when you lost it, if not do you intend to do "it" before you get married or wait!?

2007-09-22 05:02:09 · 42 answers · asked by wendi t 3 in Singles & Dating

An older (by 2 years), more popular girl had a HUGE crush on you?

2007-09-22 05:01:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 21 years old, he doesnt have a job, he doesnt go to college, he just hang out with friends and drinks and smoke and all that. i broke up with him and told him he needs to get a job and stop frinking and smoking in order for us to get back together,. he said he promise me he'll do all that cuz he doesnt want to lose me. but he said he wants me to be with him while he changes, should i tell him no when you change i'll get back with you or get back with him now?

2007-09-22 04:59:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Had a one night stand with a nice guy last week, he entered my phone number on his cel before i left his place, then after 10 hours, he called and said he wanted to make sure i got home safe. We talked on the phone for about 5 minutes. Do you think he likes me?

2007-09-22 04:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by gch 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years and my 8 year old daughter can't stand to be in the same room together. My boyfriend and I still live seperate. He has bluntly told me that he will not be in the same room as my daughter. He cites her smart attitude. My daughter's father lives in the same town so she's with him every weekend. If indeed, my boyfriend and I go further: moving in, marriage, etc., how will I be able to handle any occurances without getting either one upset. Their fallout stemmed after my daughter yelled at boyfriend and said she hated him. He has never forgotten. Help....any advice.

2007-09-22 04:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by Curious Person 2 in Family

Are their any signs to tell if your parents have fallen out of love? iv been recently wondering this as my parents never show any effection together, no kissing no hugging, just shouting, arguing at each other and they talk. it seems like theres nothing there. When it comes to anniversaries, they give each other cards and my mom cooks dinner. but thats it. they dont even do any romantic things together, just get on with everyday life.

No day has pass where they havent had some kind of arguement and even so, they really dont know how to sort out a problem. its more like a frienship then a marriage.

Help me out

2007-09-22 04:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I had a date picked out to pledge our wedding vows. After a minor health crisis (his)...and at a time when I couldn't take any time off work, my "friend" decided to take some time off work "to keep him company". It was only a few days later that I found out that the 2 of them were an item and that he had told her that he had a plan to "dump me". I still love him with all my heart.....but after 2 weeks her "facebook" profile now says that she is "engaged". I don't know what to think of all of this.....Any suggestions??? As much as I want to hate him...I can't.....but I feel so hurt and betrayed (by both of them)....and I can't stand to even look at her. I have seen them together and she always has the most smug look on her face....What do I do now????

2007-09-22 04:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by big bird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for the wording for a wedding ceremony. The part where the minister would do. Help!!!!

2007-09-22 04:48:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My female co workers from the jail are trying to get me to go on a cruise with them it's only a 2 day cruise. But I feel like I have other responsabilities since I have 3 kids ages 10, 7, and 4. I feel that they need me here. Am I wrong for not wanting to go or should I go and let my hair down alittle and not feel so guilty for leaving them. Keep in mind the only time my kids are away from me is when there in school or I'm working.

2007-09-22 04:46:50 · 1 answers · asked by ~~Just me~~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

In many christian home today, courtship or relationship between the opposite sex is considered as a sin if not taboo. To them marriage is hanourable and so on.

But from experience (history & events) lack of courtship and relationship before marriage has resulted in early divoirce in many marriages especially those contracted at the alter. The couples involved complained that they did not understand each other very well before marriage and as a result the only solution to his/her problem is divoirce. What is your view.

2007-09-22 04:46:38 · 19 answers · asked by felix4aho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my ex like 2 weeks ago, and neither of us are really ready to be back together now... at least what she says is "not anytime in the far future" ... so i dont know what to do. she pretty much left me for another guy that has been chasing her for over a year.

obviously love doesn just go away, and i realize that i dont even WANT to be with this girl, but how do i stop thinking about what she may be doing? I always wonder what her and this guy are doing and i get myself all upset...

2007-09-22 04:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....TY....

2007-09-22 04:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by ing3r im m3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-22 04:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know why but my dad is really pissed at the moment and he's yelling at me and eveything. Mom went to a confrence. I'm trying to fix a stupid computer problem and he's annoying me and throwing an all out hissy fit. Making me very mad because i already have 5 reports due monday that im trying to get them done while fixing the bug and he's won't stop making me get up and down. I'm so mad im ready to faint and my head already has a migrane.

What do I do?

2007-09-22 04:39:45 · 15 answers · asked by I <3 My Hamster Smokey! 6 in Family

2007-09-22 04:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a 4mm size gap between my 2 front teeth.
otherwise i'm pretty and skinny and tan.

2007-09-22 04:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by omg b 1 in Singles & Dating

y? what does it mean?

2007-09-22 04:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-22 04:32:25 · 2 answers · asked by adslhen_06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have seen this girl about for around 2 weeks and I really like her, we haven't really spoke, from Monday to Wednesday we kept staring at each other in the eye but since Wednesday she stopped, I know that eye contact can be the signs that someone fancies you, I am trying to keep looking at her so she knows that I fancy her, I want to go talk to her but I don't know what to say, I don't really want to just go over and say Hi because there won't be much else to say, if anyone can come up with a good line to talk to her with, 10 points are on their way to you!

2007-09-22 04:30:06 · 8 answers · asked by Hoodoo 3 in Singles & Dating

without admitting that they do it with guns?
For the hardnuts, sure there are other ways to kill, but they are not as easy and as cowardly as pointing a gun FROM A DISTANCE. As someone else pointed out, most murders are done in an emotional outburst when a gun is handy.

2007-09-22 04:29:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends and I are really frustrated with each other.My friend and her bf are sort of the cause of all of this though.We invite her to the football games to sit with us.And she does till her bf comes over.Then they sit with us for like 5 more minutes, but she just talks 2 him.Then they go walk off on their own doing God knows what.She doesn't even tell us that she's going she just ditches us.So then me and my other friends are stuck wondering where she is, and we call her, but she doesn't ever hear her phone cuz she is very hard of hearing sometimes.I dont understand y both of them can't hang with us.I think he is trying to hide something.I tried to talk 2 him alone last night to try and straighten this mess out, but people kept coming over and interrupting and Im more confused then I was b4.He says we always get to hang with her and they need their time, but thats only partially true.I only hav a few classes with her and its rare all of us friends get 2 hang with each other.Watsup??

2007-09-22 04:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by Thunder♥ 3 in Friends

2007-09-22 04:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by hugskisses4707 3 in Singles & Dating

hey ladies, umm.i really like a guy but i have no clue if he like me..i flirt with him alot and i think hes flirting with me back, but if he likes me how should i ask him out.. So how do i know if the guy likes me and if so, how do i ask him out if he doent ask me out.. i think he's say. lol

2007-09-22 04:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a couple people, online and in "real life", that constantly says one thing about others in private, yet the complete opposite in public. For example, they will complain in private about how pathetic and what idiots certain people are, yet publicly they talk about what wonderful friends they are. Or privately telling someone that they hate and dispise their spouse, while publicly gushing about how they are so much in love and that the spouse is their soulmate, etc... I can certainly understand someone venting now and then. However, when its simple venting, at some point in time they would also speak positively. That is not the case I am speaking of. So how much of that inconsistancy would it take before you felt you could not trust them?

2007-09-22 04:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by Jerry K 2 in Friends

we were college roommates 25 years ago. she married while in college had kids, they married. we stayed in touch seeing each other from time to time. went to her kids weddings. exchanged xmas cards and suddenly she stopped about 4-5 years ago, so I stopped. Met someone who knew the family and said her brother (married & kids, veternarian) fell on hard times and committed suicide. How should I approach, get int touch with her? I feel so badly.

2007-09-22 04:19:39 · 3 answers · asked by inkster7 3 in Friends

ok my gf is getting me a new guitar for my birthday and i ask her what she wanted for he birthday, her bday is the 29 of this month i mean i have an idea of what she wants she wants a bass drum. do you think i should get it for her and just suprise her with it or should i just take her to the movies like she asked for? i mean i have alot of money and her bass cost 499$ and my guitar cost 399$

2007-09-22 04:13:53 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating