We got into a fight because I wanted to hangout with some friends after our date, (The night was over she was going to bed soon, she just doesn't like it when I make plans after ours)...Well instead of going to bed, Her Ex text messages her and she decides to go over to his apartment. They talk for awhile and then she makes out with him and then tells him she has to leave. I get a phone call at 5 in the morning saying she did something really bad and i need to come over. So I go over there and she says she is really sorry and it is the biggest mistake of her life. I had a lot of trust with her before this...We have been together for 2& half years and nothing like this has even came close...I dont think either of us have had 1 on 1 with the opposite sex since we began dating...When she told me I was just speechless and don't know what to do...We have a lot of plans coming up; cruise, concerts...Just bothers me cus it seems like she knew what she was doing....
2007-09-22 05:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by ID8647 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she knew what she was doing. She may have just been dissatisfied with you and was comparing you with her ex. I don't know that you can trust this girl, that is for you to decide. If she is going to be so upset and vulnerable that she will make out with her ex, she doesn't sound real stable to me. She is either unstable or she is a cheat and she doesn't sound like a cheat to me. She's not real sure that you love her, that much is evident. Did you know that? ♥
2007-09-22 05:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you understand the situation pretty good when you stated that it sounds like she knew what the heck she was doing. Trust is something that is hard to regain once we've lost it and if you are capable of trusting her again then the choice is yours. But these childish games do not sound like the makings of a very happy and secure relationship so take your time and think it over good before making any rash decisions. Sure you have plans already in place but the fact of live is that there will be others of your friends that you could go to these events with. If the cruise is far enough in advance then you may even have grieved the loss of this relationship by then and have found someone else to take this girls place. Someone who is not so insensitve as to play around behind your back if you do something that they don't agree with. Best of luck and remember that history often repeats itself.
2007-09-22 05:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow it sounds like your're in quite a tough spot. I've been with my gf for almost 3 years and nothing like this has ever happened. I would be just as dumbfounded as you. I mean what can you do? Obviously the trust factor has taken a huge blow, and without trust in a relationship, there really is nothing. And breaking up over a makeout session may seem like an extreme move, but what is she gonna do the next time that you decide to hang out with your friends after your plans? If i were you, i would consider letting her go because i just would never trust her again
2007-09-22 05:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by edgard e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sorry to hear about this, but to me it sounds like he's not happy, and he needs to works some things out, my best advice to you is to break up with him, give him some space, and see what happens, hey 2 and half years have been a nice run, but it might be over in his mind, and if it is, you can't change it, what you can do is back away and give him some space, he might need some time alone, sorry to hear about this Good Luck
2016-05-20 23:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she knew what she was doing and this girl is not to be trusted & sounds like she is still hung up on her ex...i would have a hard time believing that all they did and i also doubt it was never happened before. if this is how she behaves while fighting with you she sounds very inmmature.
2007-09-22 05:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her ex probably slipped her the tube steak as well. i wouldn't trust her when she said that all they did was make out especially that late.
2007-09-22 06:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by tour0817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have sex with an ex and get even
2007-09-22 05:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes she knew what she was doing.I think i would get rid of her. It seem kind of odd to me.
2007-09-22 05:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by skunk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋