Girls please.?

Question

hey ladies, umm.i really like a guy but i have no clue if he like me..i flirt with him alot and i think hes flirting with me back, but if he likes me how should i ask him out.. So how do i know if the guy likes me and if so, how do i ask him out if he doent ask me out.. i think he's say. lol

Answer 1

You will never know for sure unless you invite him do have dinner at your house, or go to the park and walk with you. Personally, I want a man who can stand up and tell me he likes me. I know there are shy men too. Tell him you like him and want to be friends and get to know him better.

Answer 2

I think guys like it if girls make the first move. You should tell him your feelings and ask him if he feels the same way. If he does, then plan a date =)
If not, then be proud that you were able to make such a bold move and now you no longer have to waste your time guessing if he likes you.

Good luck!

Answer 3

first thing: it doesn't matter, now, if he likes you or not. the best way to get a guy that you are not shure if he likes you, is just to become friends. don't flirt a lot, just talk to him like he's just a friend!! make him feel important. guys always like to know that they are doing a good job. so when he does something nice, tell him!!! but don't obsess about telling him he's doing a good job, tell him maby, once a day. -and don't make a big deal about it. one more thing- don't make big moves let him. your job is to set a setting that makes him comfortable to make big moves!! good luck!!

Answer 4

He might be shy, he might be anti-social out of school, there's a lot of reasons why he hasn't asked you out already.
Just say something like "hey you wanna hang out sometime?"
and if he says no, he'll surely give you an excuse why not.
but he might say yes :)

Answer 5

Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Talk a lot. Does he seem happy to see you?
Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, he may be shy.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
Smile. A big smile in return is a good sign.
See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
Notice the way he treats you, does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you. Also if you call his name... note if his head snaps around right away or does it turn gradually?
If the guy wants to talk to you all the time there is a good chance that he will like you!
If he starts acting nicer when you're around him then he probably has a thing for you.
He'll say yes to all the things you ask him to do.
He'll treat you differently than other girls. See how he acts with other girls compared to how he treats you.
Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you. Watch out, though, because if the topic is something serious like a death or whatnot, he may just want to know for no aparrent reason.



Tips.....If he looks directly at you when he asks you a question, this normally means that he likes you, and is trying to tell you something with his eyes. He may also talk softer to you than to others, to give a feeling of sensitivity.
But watch out with what you say back to him at times. If he says something perverted ; and you answer back with a yes ; but you're kidding, he may not know that, so make sure you're clear when you say important things like that !
if he looks at you when you say something even not to him, he may like you.


Warnings......Beware of friendly, outgoing guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way." Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character.
Sometimes, a guy will confuse you. He'll flirt with you all year, constantly, every day, smiling, flashing you the peace sign, talking to you, everything, and when you ask him out he'll say no, but when school starts again he'll flirt three times as much, and if you ask him out, he may say no again. Boys are impossible to figure out until it's too late.


Hope I was a help! ♥♥

Answer 6

ask him on a group date first just all of a sudden and not planned

Answer 7

Just go for it and ask him, first find out if he is gay or not then if hes not and your not go for it!

Answer 8

umm confusing much? well all i have to say is this is something everyone goes through i guess before something just figure out if he likes you thats all

Answer 9

if u really like dat guy just go & say him dat like u him dont hesitate all the best

Answer 10

just go up to him and ask if he'd like to see a movie with you.