My friends and I are really frustrated with each other.My friend and her bf are sort of the cause of all of this though.We invite her to the football games to sit with us.And she does till her bf comes over.Then they sit with us for like 5 more minutes, but she just talks 2 him.Then they go walk off on their own doing God knows what.She doesn't even tell us that she's going she just ditches us.So then me and my other friends are stuck wondering where she is, and we call her, but she doesn't ever hear her phone cuz she is very hard of hearing sometimes.I dont understand y both of them can't hang with us.I think he is trying to hide something.I tried to talk 2 him alone last night to try and straighten this mess out, but people kept coming over and interrupting and Im more confused then I was b4.He says we always get to hang with her and they need their time, but thats only partially true.I only hav a few classes with her and its rare all of us friends get 2 hang with each other.Watsup??
2007-09-22 04:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by Thunder♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I respect the fact that they want their privacy.Trust me, if I got a bf, I know I would want to hang with him.But I don't understand why HE can't sit with us.I invite him to sit with us all the time, even when his gf isn't there.It almost seems like he's avoiding us.He totally ignored me 2 nights ago when I asked him to sit with us for the school's pre-homecoming activities.
2007-09-22 04:45:35 · update #1
I 4got 2 mention that her bf is flipping out over the fact that some guy called him and her "love birds"or "lovers" or something like that.I call them that all the time.I'm just trying to b funny.And my friend thinks it is.But they both got mad when some guy said it, and he was just trying to b funny 2.He is flipping out over nothing.He wants to practically kill him.WHAT IS UP!?
2007-09-22 04:54:26 · update #2
I also 4got 2 add the fact that another friend asked me in a VERY rude way if I even cared about the other friend, the one with the bf.I just swore at her and hung up.Did she have any right to say that I didn't care?She said and I'm using a direct quote without using any names of course,"Do you even care about her?"
2007-09-23 07:24:00 · update #3
One day you will have the boyfriend, and believe me you will be w/ him too! This is nothing to ruin a friendship over! If someone doesn't sit by me I don't get mad, especially when I have other friends around me. I'm guessing you girls are about 14, wait til high school, this happens all the time. Boyfriends will always be more important than your friends.
2007-09-22 04:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Peng-you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to work..work..work it out!
Listen to this song! It'll help!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qAB5t-_O8ks
It'll give you a way of working things out somehow. And also make you sing and dance with it!
Hope I was a help! And hope things work out! â¥
2007-09-22 11:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if iwere you i would just ignore them period. your firends should also that way you are not involved either. takecare.
2007-09-30 00:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it.stop stressing. its a bunch of bs.
2007-09-22 11:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by aliceyumm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋