Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

my name is mckylie vanessa sanders my older brother is blake micheal sanders and younger sister is ivy anne sanders

2007-09-22 08:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by mckylie 1 in Family

my bf and i both know our relationship is over but neither of us wants to break up. wat should we do?

2007-09-22 08:20:50 · 2 answers · asked by shoefanatic 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 shes 35 and single, but she doesnt act like my mum, but like my cool sister that I never had, I hang with her a lot, but I abssolutlely hate the attention she receves, due to her wearing tight jeans, miniskirts, showing cleavage etc. My mates are always over down my house, they chat her up, flirt, annoy me like 'your mums hot,'looks like pornstar' and all that, my friends arentnly ones, its men too, like in town when i go somewhere with her I see old and young men checking her out and she enjoys it, but not me i feel uncomfortable about guys thinking about my mum as a 'sex goddess.' Recently shes started dating and I dont want this, I never needed a father before and I dont need one now, its fine when its just me and her, so I will feel really awkward when she starts to bring someone to the house and bedroom and if she settles with a man older or younger than her and maybe even have more kids with him and forgetting about me Or even just being 'humped and dumped and hurt.

2007-09-22 08:20:18 · 34 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

my brother blake is 10 i am 8 my sister ivy is 5 blake he is so annoying if you watch life with derek he is like derek i am like casey and ivy is like lizzie if you have a older or younger brother tell me what he does to you

2007-09-22 08:19:40 · 4 answers · asked by mckylie 1 in Family

2007-09-22 08:12:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an 18 year old freshmen who wants to date this 21 year old girl, who I'm friends with. Is there anything wrong with the age difference?

2007-09-22 08:07:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-22 08:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My divorce was finalized a little more than a year ago and part of the divorce decree included a child support order and a wage garnishment order for my daughter. The child support order was issued by the state of Indiana. Since the order and wage garnishment was ordered my employer has been taking my child support payments out of my check every week so I know that my child support is being paid and has been paid since the order started a year ago. I just received a letter from my state's (not Indiana) child welfare division saying that I owed more than $5,000 in child support and that I should be making payments to them. How can they do this when I have been paying my child support to the state of Indiana where my daughter and the order is at. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-22 07:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by justcatch13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and him first started talking on msn a week ago. Then everyday we would have a convo that would last hours. He finally asked me out yesturday and ever since we have NOTHING to talk about. Please help!!! What should we do? Do yo have any conversation starters?

2007-09-22 07:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really shy, would you like someone who was outgoing and talked to you (even when you guys hardly knew each other) or someone who was shy too, so they wouldnt really initiate conversation??

2007-09-22 07:46:43 · 2 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-22 07:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been asked to do a reading in the chapel at my friends wedding. She doesn't want a bible reading and I have found some poems that I could read as a last resort if I can't find anything else - but I just thought I'd ask you lot to see if you had any ideas for me... I could write something I guess.. but I'm not very inspired at the moment... please help!

2007-09-22 07:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by Pagan Pip 4 in Weddings

I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs. and the most romantic thing that he's ever done for me was to take me on a picnic in central park, bought me a dress and a dinner in the city all for my birthday. But I wish that he would be more romantic for me more often. Im not asking for him to go all out everytime! I just like the little sweet things too and something big once in a while. He wants to be more romantic but he feels as though he doesn't know how. Any ideas to help???

2007-09-22 07:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by *Gigi* 2 in Singles & Dating

My enemies are more clever and smart than me. I need to defeat them in bounds of words. How can I do so? How can I develop that ability within me? Plz tell or I will loose my life's battle.

2007-09-22 07:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think my parents wont let me have a career that easily...
because they are thinking that im too young...
but i think my age 13 isn't that young...
but anyway how can i convince them?

2007-09-22 07:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Family

I have been dating my boyfriend for around four months. I broke up with him two weeks ago due to communication problems we were having (He didn't call often and thus, didn't seem to be putting much into our longdistance relationship), only to get back together with him. He said he'd change, and I've talked to him almost everyday either on IM or text since getting back together. The other day, he didn't call and I freaked out, which is very out of character for me. I apologized profusely afterwards for being so crazy and psychotic because honestly, I don't even need to talk to him everyday. I think I am afraid that he isn't really going to change, like he said he would, and then I'll have to break up with him. How can I stop being so controlling and clingy? I hate myself like this, especially since I told myself I would never become one of "those" girlfriends. Advice?

2007-09-22 07:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by laconversacion 1 in Singles & Dating

Can me and my fiance get married after we get the license cleared by ourselves? Can it just be her, I, and the pastor? We don't want anyone else there but us 2. However, in a few years we will have time and fiances for the big ceremony? What advice can you offer me?

2007-09-22 07:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by Wisdom Is Key 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-22 07:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband recieved a phone call from his ex-lover at 1:30am and she know that we is married and not to call him past 9pm. Now what I want to know would I be wrong if I called her back and curse her out or should I just let it go and dont do nothing. Can you tell me what should I do.

2007-09-22 07:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ms B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't say ALL but from my experience, no matter how nice, professional, conservative I am, they tend to hit on me aggressively with sexual comments and when I ignore or talk back they become really rude...

...how do I prevent this behavior? I'm really annoyed...

2007-09-22 07:12:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like a boy in my school and i dont know if he does like me?his been in my school for 4 days now and i just like him but other gals are dying for him too.wat should i do stay back or go for it plz help.

2007-09-22 07:12:00 · 1 answers · asked by freebabes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been friends with misty since we were in the 6th grade. we are juniors now, and last year she started dating some guy named dale. As soon as they started dating she dropped weight, but i know for a fact there was no eating disorder. She also stopped caring about hanging out with me, and she stopped caring about her future. She used to want to go into marine biology, but dale thinks its a bad idea, so she doesnt want to anymore. Now her goals are to marry him and live "happily ever after"
they have only been dating for 6 months. Im not jealous, ive been dating my boyfriend for a few years now, but the thing is dale treats misty like she is inferior, and it racks my every last nerve.
his dad beats him, so i understand why she is clingy to him, but the clingyness is excessive, and she is blind to the way that he talks crap about her behind her back, saying she is really mean to him.
we go to diff schools, and she ignores me when we see eachother. what can i do?

2007-09-22 07:07:58 · 14 answers · asked by Kat-Jay 3 in Friends

I went to a wedding last Saturday and songs like The Chicken Dance, YMCA, Cha Cha Slide, Macarena, and such were played and it seems they were more fun to dance to than any others! Another good one is Old Time Rock and Roll. Can anyone else tell me some others that are good and really get you up and moving around and having a fun time?

2007-09-22 07:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Weddings

Check this out, you dont have to read this if you dont want, but I just broke up with this girl who was basically the love of my life, we were going to move out start a life etc... blah blah blah. Well when I fell in love with her she was the best person in the world, but a year and some months later this chic changed BAD. She disrespected me, my family my friends and everything else. She would call me the cruelest sh*t and tell me the cruelest sh*t, she would even smack the fu*k out of me, but for some reason I always saw the old her and not the person she became. No doubt though I loved her so damn much and gave her every damn bit part of me, she still told me she loved me but it was weird letting her go last night. So was she really overboard or should I give her yet another chance? Women how do you act with your men, what is the furthest you will go?

2007-09-22 07:05:27 · 2 answers · asked by fast_or_slow127 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfirend is almost twise my age and is just geting divorced. he has 3 kids. he said i would be needing to change my life, due to his children he cannot change much about his.... i am still young and have not experienced any of my early years.. he is making it clear that he is making a commitment to me and would need me to make one FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.... our relationship is amazing and we love one another verymuch. i would love to spend my life with him but am wondering if loosing everything (job, friends....etc)is worth what i will gain.... all opinions welcome...

2007-09-22 07:01:39 · 19 answers · asked by beautiful stranger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are looking for something scenic, with beach access, and not too ultra modern looking. Maybe even something historical would be ideal, but not a must. Thanks!

2007-09-22 07:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by redraccoon 1 in Weddings

i have a feeling that my husband is unfaithfull to me. how do i know well he doesn't were his ring anymore he doen't want to make love anymore and he treat me like crab. i am planning to follow him on monday do see with who he is. my questions what should i do?

2007-09-22 06:54:42 · 19 answers · asked by geminis,lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left work yesterday and went out with "coworkers". The last time I heard from him was 3:30 p.m. So basically he was not heard from for 12 hours. So what do you make of that? It sounds fishy to me.

2007-09-22 06:46:59 · 54 answers · asked by lou_lou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about 'making' someone love you because that's almost impossible. But, what can you do to increase the chances of someone who already likes you to fall in love with you?

2007-09-22 06:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I hurt his feelings because he really liked me alot, and I said some pretty harsh things to him, about him being too young, not being ready for an older woman , etc. however I miss him, and would like to make up...so do you think he will listen to what I have to say ? or will he be to heartbroken to respond, should I not bother, or give it a shot ? Younger guys give me some advice.....

2007-09-22 06:44:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce