why does a man be unfaithfull?

Question

i have a feeling that my husband is unfaithfull to me. how do i know well he doesn't were his ring anymore he doen't want to make love anymore and he treat me like crab. i am planning to follow him on monday do see with who he is. my questions what should i do?

Answer 1

Women are blessed with someone called " intuition", trust me it never fails. If you have a feeling, I call it intuition. Meaning u sense it , its natural.. unexplainable. U probably have no proof, but as I said its intuition. My ex and I were dating for over 1 yr. I called him one day and I said " ur cheating on me huh" he didnt say anything, all he could say was " how you know, who told u ". Most men actually show evidence- attitude change, less time at home, excuses of being home late, some cheat just because. Men cheat because they feel superior, they feel wanted. You stated that he doesnt want to make love anymore. DING DING DING - hes cheating no doubt. I would say ask him, I wouldnt advise you to follow him around. Simply ask him, and watch his eye contact and body language . If he cant keep eye contact he's lying. If you feel he is lying , then I would say take matters into ur own hands. If I felt my husband was cheating, I would file for a divorce. Different strokes for different folks.

Answer 2

I don't think you should wack off anything or snoop, it doesn't help you....even if you "catch" him what is going to stop him from it doing it again? He is hurting you otherwise, outside of "cheating" then perhaps you should express that, him being with another woman/women may hurt but it is NOT the end of the world, your marriage/ and or relationship. There is more to the relationship than "fidelity", I really could care less what anyone thinks about my opinions/beliefs but I hate to see people suffer and feel like their husband doesn't love them because he is or was or will be with another woman, thats BS. I think everyone involved in a relationship has to decide how much they are willing to invest into it, and stick to it, as long as he is not abusive, you should also refrain from using abusive/hurtful LANGUAGE....and Behaviour....If you love someone it is difficult to say that leaving them would be the "best" option. There is no padlock on the "pee pee"
Take care of yourself...Pandora wasn't forced to open the box, she wanted to open it.

Answer 3

Marriages are work. I've been with my wife a long time, through many ups and downs. It's not always easy, and there have been times when we almost gave up. We got through it, talked heart to heart, listened, and worked on the things we needed to fix. I've never cheated and I'm pretty sure my wife hasn't either. You must sit your husband down for a heart ot heart talk, face to face, no distractions. Turn off the phone and make sure the kids are out of the house to find out what's really going on. DO NOT YELL!!! Just be calm when approaching the conversation.

Answer 4

You should always go with your feelings, I used to doubt mine, my hubby would be dismissive with me, I would get in bed with him butt naked and he would act like he didn't notice. I would call his cell, then the job, he rarely would take my calls. Finally I got suspicious and one night in particular I waited till he fell asleep, I took his cell went into another room and checked. There were text, phone msg, back and forth between him and some female. The next day I decided to go back and check his old cell bills there was nothing but incoming and outgoing calls, text between the 2 of them. I also realized his bill jumped from about $70 to $300 in a 2 month period. I called and confronted this female because he denied everything. She was the one who told me something was going on. So don't be quick to doubt what you feel there is usually something there. Definitely follow his *** take down addresses, license plate numbers, check cell bills even from a few months ago. If he is calling or texting this person the number will show up many times. Investigate but be discreet until you have concrete evidence...

Answer 5

there are many reasons why both men and women are unfaithful.Sometimes its because they might not get any at home or there marriage is not good any more,maybe they are fighting a lot.Some times a marriage gets boring and they feel a need for something different or more exciting.there are people who let their spouse have girlfriends or boyfriends as they don't want to have sex anymore for various reasons.Ive seen two families like this and they even had kids with the other person,its all kinda crazy to me but whatever works for that couple is their business.My favorite saying applies"To each their own".

Answer 6

I hate belabor a point but questions like this really tick me off.... why do women cheat??? Men are not the only ones that are capable of being unfaithful.... just as many women cheat as men... the reasons are as varied as the number of people that cheat... I guess the base reason for all are the same though.... they don't respect the vows they have taken... You should call Cheaters and let them do the dirty work for you.

Answer 7

A man is unfaithful becuz their pigs...Screw the following y give him the benefit of the doubt just leave him cuz after what u just said, u really are looking to get hurt if u follow him, or better yet go out n have some fun urself that way whatever he's doin u r 2...gl

Answer 8

when you get the feeling that there is something wrong, there really is something wrong...that is called intuition. the question you have to ask yourself is..ok, you will snoop then what? if you find out that he does cheat, it will just confirm what you are thinking. if you cannot prove that he is, will it excuse his not wearing ring, not making love and treating you like crap?

Answer 9

does it matter? doesn't sound like your happy anyway- so get a divorce and find some one to love you. there are a lot of reasons for a man or woman to cheat- not saying that its right, its just life. might be you or it might be him- again does it really matter? good luck

Answer 10

in the event that they're in contact with a woman already i could think of its an fairly stable reason to renounce being untrue. yet you are able to not field ALL adult adult males right into a million catogory , we as women human beings dont like it while adult adult males are harm by using their considerable different's and then suddenly we are all B****es , so which you extremely shouldnt do it to the adult adult males. not all adult adult males are able to cheating , some are and thats their own indeficiency , my husband cheated on me yet i've got not got faith that each and all and sundry adult adult males would desire to be punished for his stupid , reckless , disrespectful act in the direction of our marriage.