Are their any signs to tell if your parents have fallen out of love? iv been recently wondering this as my parents never show any effection together, no kissing no hugging, just shouting, arguing at each other and they talk. it seems like theres nothing there. When it comes to anniversaries, they give each other cards and my mom cooks dinner. but thats it. they dont even do any romantic things together, just get on with everyday life.
No day has pass where they havent had some kind of arguement and even so, they really dont know how to sort out a problem. its more like a frienship then a marriage.
Help me out
2007-09-22 04:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my mom nags my dad, my dad mouns about my mom nagging him.
The only thing that started this was my dad said when he was annoyed, that he wishes he could run away.
2007-09-22 05:01:24 · update #1
It doesn't sound good for your parents, sorry. If my son came to me and said i need to talk to you and dad together and said to us,what your doing is braking my heart the way the two of you treat each other. Don't you two love each other anymore because that's what it looks like to me. Please don't do this to our family don't break up I love you mom and dad and i couldn't bear it if you two wasn't together. If my son said that to me and my husband it would break our hearts and we would pay more attention to the things we said and did to each other. Just something for you to think about saying to your parents.
2007-09-22 05:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what I have seen, once you get married & settle in to kids jobs & everyday life with a mate, there is little time for much of anything else. To me & how I know my husband loves me & our life is we still laugh & play around. We don't go out alot(but we are both ok with that-we look forward to being home together more than anything else even if we are doing nothing) romance seems to fade somewhat in every day life-I mean its not like in the movies. But there should be some laughter & playing. Could be you just don't see it. Just because your parents don't act like newlyweds does not mean they are not in love. Real life sets in is everyday chores & responsibilites. Thats why movies end where they do, cuz it is boring after they get together finally.
It also is normal for couples to argue, about things but if that is all they do then it might be a sign that it is a rut for them or a sign of troubles ahead if they don't recognize the signs of their marriage problems.
Kids do not always see all aspects of their parents relationships. The best way to tell is to observe them when they are together with their friends and how they treat(& speak of) each other when they are in the couple"role".
From you additional notes it looks like they are in trouble. They may need outside help for this like counseling or to read so marriage help books like mentioned above. They both have to want to change things & want to be with each other for it to work.
Good luck!
2007-09-22 05:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a suggestion, by a book for your parents called The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Married people have ups and downs and sometimes need help to get back the feeling of love, it does not mean they don't love each other. This is a great book, not long and easy to read, you could even read it. Just leave it out and see if they pick it up.
2007-09-22 05:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Connie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-20 23:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really feel bad for this situation you are going through but there somethings that we dont know like was going on with a relationship u as part of the family i will talk to mon or dad to let them know you are not blind let them know how happy u are have them as a parents n you wanna keep it that way ..
2007-09-22 05:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Constant fighting is bad in a marriage, but the real time to worry will be when neither cares to fight or talk just indifference. At that point they don't care at all.
2007-09-22 05:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by lucidwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh, i'm sorry to hear that. well i don't want to sound negative but i think something has come between your parents that they both feel has broken them apart. it could be anything, i feel really sorry for you and if you need anyone to talk to i am here i listen to people and hope they feel better after talking to me i hope everything gets better between your parents i really do
2007-09-22 05:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mark The vampire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all they do is argue, they never get along, even when they argue, they hate being around each other, they threaten to leave.
2007-09-22 04:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by deidre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋