Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

aside from the obvious answer of love, what else would you consider getting married for?
wouldnt you prefer freedom?
doing what you want, when you want, with who you want and never having to confer with anyone?

2007-09-13 15:15:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently graduated High School and not off to college just yet. We used to be close but now it seems that my dad is ignoring me. I cant get my drivers license because I cant get my 60 hours behind the wheel. The reason for it is because he makes up excuses to not go with me. And he blames me. I have been rejected many times when looking for a job but I can always count on him to nag me and call me a loser. I come to him for advice now and then but "conveniently" he has to leave at that moment to do something for my sister. He spends more time with my sister in a day then he does with me in two weeks. I know I should grow up but I feel bad when my dad only talks to me when he wants chores done and to nag me. The guy does almost nothing for me nowadays, no presents on christmas or birthdays, no lifts to anywhere (even if im willing to drive). He hasn't hugged more or said that he cares about me in almost a year. Have I really lost my dad?

2007-09-13 15:15:50 · 3 answers · asked by leafshadow 2 in Family

for medical reasons. I don't know how to feel about this. I always wondered why she wouldn't undress for me. What should I do?

2007-09-13 15:12:27 · 34 answers · asked by TheNightStalker 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the term for the love of a friend in Italian? Me and my 2 friends want to get a tattoo with that word but can't remember what it is. I know it started with a "A" but thats about it.

2007-09-13 15:11:21 · 3 answers · asked by Rae Rae 1 in Friends

I dont want a minister or anyone like that! who do I get? Can anyone do it?

2007-09-13 15:09:03 · 24 answers · asked by shannonforpeace 2 in Weddings

I know I have problems & issues. Yet no family or friends know. Instead I put on this act and try to appear normal.
The sane thing to do would be to confide in someone I know. But I don't. I don't want to worry them, have them judge me, talk about me or simply think I'm nuts.
Why do others come here for advice instead of going to people they know?

2007-09-13 15:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by candy'sroom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In the sense that the issues you have in one relationship are the same issues and challenges you have in all relationships?

2007-09-13 15:03:28 · 20 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

try and look for someone else because of my face or would you just deal with me without too much eye contact or with eye contact with no problem,keep it real because when ever woman needs help they usually catch an attitude if i help them http://www.flickr.com/photos/10002474@N06/1326903113/

2007-09-13 15:02:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

either you were giving for the wrong reasons or what you give is not being received??It is being denied its being dishonered???

2007-09-13 14:58:37 · 12 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

someone.

2007-09-13 14:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

Good luck

2007-09-13 14:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by vault 5 in Family

Why?, because every country has different Rules when it come to marriage, divorce, seperation and child maintenance, so come on everyone make it easier for us to answer your question.

2007-09-13 14:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Live_For_Today 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't mean after you've slept with a hooker or a ....nannny....but with your lover or spouse?

2007-09-13 14:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Danu 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 14:48:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend just told me that she was raped while she was on a trip abroad in Spain a month or two ago.

I just need to know what I need to do to be her support, is there anything I should do? What can I do?

Please, any advice.

2007-09-13 14:47:55 · 30 answers · asked by Jack C 3 in Friends

My mother has not spoken to me in three weeks because I am allowing my father (her ex husband) to be involved in my newborns life. After three weeks of nasty voicemails she called me today and stated she wanted her name off of my birth certificate when I stated I didnt think that was possiable she went on a rampage. She stated she was going to burn my house down and let my son and I burn to death so my son and I can see what hell feels like. I'm 21 and my sons 11 weeks. The only thing I have done to her is talk to my father and she is now threatning to kill my son and I. I'm terrified of her. I wanted to file a restraining order against her but my husband thought that may add fuel to the fire. I'm so confused and scared for my sons and my safety. Any advice? Thanks!

2007-09-13 14:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-13 14:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by Martin Evilmind 4 in Singles & Dating

this is my husband's e-mail
anyways i was at the pool and this lady began cuzing at me. she was sitting at the edge of the jaquzee when one of my kids jump in to and splash water at her, obviously accidentaly, well she turned around and ask to tell my son to not do that again cause it splash water on her and her book, so I did but in a second I hear her tell the person she was on the phone with, "Im going to slap one of this m---fckrs if they splash water on me again." I pretend not to hear but she started getting louder and then turned around and told me so. so then well I said you should probably move that way you wont get wet. to what she started saying it was public. and started using bad language. she leaves the pool and then for some reason I anwer back to all her crap and she comes around and spits at me. It really didn't get on me. I feel like a coward like maybe I should had fought. or did I do the right thing? I feel mad to my self

2007-09-13 14:35:10 · 17 answers · asked by memo.online69 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like my girl friend says yes, my parents say no, and like, I want to do it. It's like my body, right ? I'm like 17, I know what I want. Know what I mean ?

2007-09-13 14:34:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my older sister is a few years older then me. She is amost 17 and she always asks me all these personal qustions wich I rather not metion, but you probably know what I am talking about. I tell her to stop and I'm not talking about it and she keeps pushing. It makes me very uncomterbul (sp?) and I mean VERY! And she knows that I tell her to to please recpect my privacy but she won' t listen. What should I do? Somtimes I feel so violated I start crying.

I am about 4 years younger if that helps

2007-09-13 14:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

My sister's friend, Claire has been married for 19 years with two teen children with, as she descirbes it, a great husband, an engineer. However, Claire has met another man named David. David, an orthopedic spine surgeon, met Claire and realized that he loves Claire. David said that he loves Claire and Claire realizes that she has feelings for David. Claire loves her husband, but she also loves David at the same time...she is really confused. David, having one son, is getting a divorce from his wife because, David thinks/realizes that Claire is his sole mate after 16 years of marriage to his first wife. However, Claire, never hearing the words "I love you" from her own husband feels as if she has a connection with David. Claire does not know what to do! She does not want to hurt her husband, yet she loves David. She want to talk to someone to express her feelings, but she is lost...Can, PLEASE, anyone help her? She is in desperate need. THank you

2007-09-13 14:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by imagination_inevitable 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college. she is in college herself. she text me every day, we talk on aim alot. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? how can i make the move knowing that she might not want a relationship at the moment but i want her to know that i would to be her bf. thanks again. K

2007-09-13 14:24:53 · 1 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a woman. On many levels she is wonderful. She is very beautiful and we have had some great times together. I am good to her - I help her out financially and treat her well. We live together. She is good to me sometimes. It sounds petty but she is crap at housework and initially i didnt mind but lately i am becoming pissed off with having to clean up all the time. We have great sex but often she is not in the mood etc but i know she watches porn and masturbates sometimes. This didnt obther me initially but now it kind of does. We have spoken lately about a long term future. I honestly think she wants it - marriage kids etc but I wonder if it can work. I suppose it comes down to the fact that i feel as though i give 110% to us and she gives a lot less. I do love her though and would miss her terribly. How do you know whether or not things can work out longterm and when it is time to quit. Advice appreciated. P.

2007-09-13 14:24:06 · 1 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i tellif a gril likes me

2007-09-13 14:22:53 · 1 answers · asked by A friend 4 in Singles & Dating

help...please...
Question Details: I'm going to lose it...the pressures...the strain...i'm ready to run away and become a homeless, baglady...and i'm not kidding. there are moments when i want to die and drive off a cliff, but i don't want to leave behind a devastated family. :(

i just started a job as a teacher, but i hate it. we need the paycheck desperately and the medical benefits so i can get help and meds, but i can't make it until then. it's not good to be depressed as a new, first year elementary school teacher.

if i walk away, i walk away from hope, but i can't cling to it...i don't want to go back...the thought puts me over the edge. i'm taking tomorrow off (i'm getting the stomach flu passed on by my daughter.)

i feel as though i let everyone down (and incurred loans to pay for the education) but no amount of positive talk is getting me through this. i am crying all the time. not in front of the kids, of course. my own kids are young adults with depression problems, too. they can't work either. help

2007-09-13 14:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by hope03 5 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this beautiful girl at my school well to me she is and i like her im thinkin about telling her but i dont know what to do im a wreck i can't get her out of my mind shes driving me crazy lol, but should i tell her?.... im not the most finest or cutest but im not ugly either but still.....do you think i have a chance with a girl like that?

2007-09-13 14:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by isiah j 2 in Singles & Dating

good ones wouldn't hurt either. it could be for a guy or girl. i like to say them to make people laugh. thats just the way i roll...lol

2007-09-13 14:17:37 · 17 answers · asked by imurheaven22 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest....because my husband thinks I'm crazy because he tells me he is going to get gas, (gas station is less than 5 mins away) and I don't hear from him for over 2 hours. He went to the library, but I thought he was dead. Am I crazy?

2007-09-13 14:16:49 · 27 answers · asked by Tasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 14:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by John9864 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him and want to marry him. I am 20. I know the age difference is big, but I can't imagine living w/out him. He makes me feel special and I feel myself around him. I also feel like he is the only one who understands me.

2007-09-13 14:11:58 · 23 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating