Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

Ok i no i am askin a lot of questions u do not have to answer. Anyway my little sister is 12 and i already said i have full custody. I am 24 and pregnant. my mom died 4 years ago. and my dad is in jail 4 killin her. But getting back to the subject. My lil sis is starting to like boys and she has a bf. She is goin to the movies with him alone and i alredy told her she can kiss him. shoot i had my first kiss when i was 10. Again she is only 12, what r some boundaries i should set for her?

2007-09-13 14:11:33 · 9 answers · asked by Madison h 1 in Family

well my friend is really mean.she hates Mexicans, Armenians she also says that people are fat ugly and stupid to their face. like she yells it out. but she thinks everyone likes her but they say some really mean things behind her back. she clingy so do you think her friends will tell her off? and now karma is comming to her. because last year she was skinny and today he has a bit of a tummy.(its getting there). she also talks behind everyones backs.


SO WHAT KIND OF PERSON DO YOU THINK SHE IS??
JUST TELL ME SO MAYBE I'LL CONSIDER GETTING ANOTHER FRIEND.

2007-09-13 14:09:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

yesterday day she told everybody I knew that I still wet the bed ( which I don't! ) and it spread around school. If I give her an atomic wedgie infront of everyone she'll feel what its like to be embarrassed infront of a bunch of people also.

2007-09-13 14:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by driftking56@verizon.net 1 in Family

ok its like this . I like him and i think he likes me . he stares at me and then when i look he looks away he talks to me at lunch and before school and after school he walks me to my car . i ask him if he liked anyone and he didnt answer me so is he just a good friend or does he like me ? if you answerd my last question its about the same guy . he seems really nice person but he is a senior in high school and im only a freshman. do you think there is to much of an age diffrence sence he has been held back twice so he is like 19 or 20 or some thing like that ?

2007-09-13 14:07:37 · 33 answers · asked by anna 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy that is 1 year older than me and I wanna go out with him soon... What do people actually do in "dating"? What's the difference between "going out" and "dating"?
1) Should I ask him first or should I wait?
2) Is going out with a guy that is12 at 11 okay?

2007-09-13 14:06:21 · 2 answers · asked by no 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and just can't stop thinking about getting married. we both have talked about marriage now it's just a matter of time til we have the money and we will. He's got to save the money for my ring then he will propose, but I just can't seem to get it off my mind. No matter what i do. I love him so much and just can't wait to start our lives together officially. and live together, wake up to him in the mornings. I mean we practically already act like it, he doesn't stay the night but comes home from work and showers and eats here and we buy groceries together. The only thing he doesn't do is stay the night. so what's my problem? Please help me!

2007-09-13 14:05:37 · 16 answers · asked by supergrl328 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college. she is in college herself. she text me every day, we talk on aim alot. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? thanks again. K

2007-09-13 14:05:10 · 4 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

do you believe love at first sight?

2007-09-13 14:04:50 · 5 answers · asked by George 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 14:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by Hector A 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a brother that doesn't like me. He feels I'm not good enough. Now that my husband has confided in his brother on some issues we've been having in our marriage, my brother-in-law won't allow me to see his precious daughter (my neice) anymore, nor am I invited to their home. His brother doesn't think our marriage will last, nor does he want it to. He feels if he keeps me at bay, I will just go away. My husband is simply allowing his brother to call the shots while he plays the middleman and stays neutral, but when its just the two of us, he acknowledges to me that his brother is treating me unfairly and he knows I'm hurting...yet he still goes to his brother's house for dinners while I stay at our home alone. He says defending me with his brother will only make his brother dislike me more and create more problems. He feels I should give it time without "make waves" and just hope that his brother will come around. It has been 9 months so far. Is this acceptable

2007-09-13 14:02:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 14:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just taking a poll!

No other information, just the question. Please don't ask;

"Is the neighbor my friend or enemy?"
"Is the neighbor low or high income?"
"Did they win with my numbers?"
Ect.

Just doing this for a class! Thanks! :)

2007-09-13 13:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know there is an exception to every rule and that there are good guys out there but...is sex really that important to you guys? I mean...in some cases do you intentionally get really close to a girl to just sleep with her and then that's it? You just disappear? Why? When it hurts us so bad!

2007-09-13 13:58:02 · 6 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Singles & Dating

i hang out with famiy is that cool yes or no

2007-09-13 13:55:57 · 6 answers · asked by sean a 1 in Family

My wife accused me of having sex with my 22 Y/O daughter which was not true, My daughter is her step daughter and she has always been jealous of her and my relationship. This was reported to the police and I voluntarily took a polygraph test at my expense to prove with 99% accurateness's that this was not the case. I think my wife deliberately lied because of her jealously toward my daughter and I. Also this could have ruined my reputation as well as my business if anyone would have even thought the lie was true. I feel like she was trying to destroy me in every way possible. I don't know why, maybe because I have a high paying business and make as much in a couple of hours as she does in a week. Who knows? All I know is that this is eating at me very badly and I have a lot of anger built up inside of me because of this. My daughter is also angry! What would you do if your spouse falsely accused you of having sex with one of your children? How could anyone ever put this behind them?

2007-09-13 13:55:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends and i hanged out and went to some stores. all these guys were looking at ok-looking white girls and ignored gorgeous people with darker skin tones.

it bothers me, even though i'm a guy. if i were those guys, i would definetely look at those pretty girls, not the other ones.

2007-09-13 13:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by urox555 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, I have a 6pm curfew, and MY MOM is constantly mad at me. I get straight As, Ive taken 6 APs, I'm in National Honor Society and I'm President of a 200 member club - I haven't done ANYTHING wrong. and she's so controlling.

This morning, I woke up and she started SCREAMING at me about her friend's daughter about getting a 2360/2400 on her SAT. and I was going out the same day, until she CUT my curfew into HALF and now I have to come back by 3 PM. I'm So MAD - it's a three day weekend and I CANT GO OUT for long and I haven't gone out in 2 months. I feel like i'm in jail..

Whenever I try to rebel, it makes things worse.

what do i do!!!!!!!

2007-09-13 13:54:53 · 2 answers · asked by roseanne t 1 in Family

Am i being selfish?!?
My boyfriend of 18 months has two jobs. The first is 7am - 4 pm and the second at a bar ( 3-4 shifts a week) from 6pm - 12am. He only got the second job when he first got with me. Am i being selfish because he isn't spending as much time with me? And the time he is home all he wants to do is watch tv and relax. So i'm left to do everything everything around the house. I feel guilty that he has to work all the time so i do everything. Should i say something or just go along with it?!? I have a full time job and i don't rely on him financially. We both pay equal amounts in house hold expences etc.

2007-09-13 13:53:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currenlty living at home with my parents in Illinois, and he is up in Michigan finishing school. He got into some trouble awhile back (which was not that big) and his probabation lady today told him that he could not leave the state of michigan at all for the next two years...not even for our wedding which has been planned for April of 2008. My family thinkes he's a nice guy just may not be marriage material due to his past...if I tell thim this..it will only make it worse...what do i do!!

2007-09-13 13:52:42 · 29 answers · asked by bethv_84 2 in Weddings

when was your first time, whom was it with, do you regret it, how old were you?

2007-09-13 13:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or do you just lay back and take all you can without giving ?

2007-09-13 13:48:43 · 19 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

all the teenagers that comit crimes, do you think it is their fault they get in trouble or would you blame the parents?

2007-09-13 13:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by adra 1 in Family

So, my husband and I just got married. Right now, we're in the middle of "wedded bliss", but I'm not naive - I know it won't always be this good. I was wondering if any of you could tell me: What was the toughest part for you after you got married? What things did you and your husband/wife fight about? What was the hardest to adjust to? I'm just wondering. I want to have an idea about the challenges that we'll face later on in our married life. Thanks for your help.

2007-09-13 13:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by SimplyMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We had 4 sons and divorced in 1983. I recieved one check from him and after that I never recieved any more. He claims he finally got all the back support paid off. I was on food stamps and aid for depencent children for afew years then they went to live with him and then a couple of years later returned to me. So I don't know if the state got it and took it to pay for what I was getting from them or if they were suppose to give me part of it or what but I never recieved any of it from them. I lived in the state of Tennessee so where would I be able to find out about if I am owed any of it from the state? He lived and still lives in the state of Alabama.

2007-09-13 13:45:06 · 16 answers · asked by justme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 13:44:31 · 9 answers · asked by dingy 2 in Friends

I have been seeing a girl for several months. The problem is I don't know her real name. She only answers to "Walter" or "Uber Empress." No no no...she's all woman, I don't get the Walter thing either. That's why I'm so confused. I really love this girl, but I don't know her name. What should I do?

2007-09-13 13:42:11 · 16 answers · asked by So Cal Johnny 4 in Singles & Dating

He is from Michigan and I am from Illinois...and at first he was all about getting married in my hometown, but now he is telling me he wants to get married in Michigan instead, but I told him it was up to him and it was to be in Illinois where I wanted. It caused a big fight and now he is saying I'm being unfair....Am I? Is it wrong for me to NOT want to get married in michigan?

2007-09-13 13:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by bethv_84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 13:37:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother got married and his new wife (who is my sister-in-law) has a sister. What is this sister in relation to me? Is she my sister-in-law too? I have no idea.
Because if she is my brother's sister-in-law and her sister is my sister-in-law than she should be my sister-in-law too. We get along so well. And my brother's mother-in-law who is her mother said to me that both of her doughters are my sister-in-law's. Was she right? it's probably the same sibling but differint parent way of being siblings.

2007-09-13 13:35:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of three years decided to move on with his life. We have been in a long distance relationship for a year. He did not tell me he is moving on; however, he is giving some hints. I have been asking (begging) for the truth and reasons. He does not want to tell me. I am upset and heart broken. I am wriing this letter for him. What do you think?

P.S. English is my second langauge.


Hi Hun,

I am sorry to annoy you again. I just want to say "Good Bye" My dream is over and it's time for me to wake up.

I do not angry at you at all. Actually, I want to thank you for everything. Well, I am now going to focus on the future ( work and school). Hopefully, I find someone I really like and be able to open up to him :)

I wish you all the best also. You are a great person. I am sure you will be successful one day. Keep up the good work Hun :)

Thank you,

Me

...................

Thank you so much for your kindness.

2007-09-13 13:34:55 · 18 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce