Am i being selfish?!?
My boyfriend of 18 months has two jobs. The first is 7am - 4 pm and the second at a bar ( 3-4 shifts a week) from 6pm - 12am. He only got the second job when he first got with me. Am i being selfish because he isn't spending as much time with me? And the time he is home all he wants to do is watch tv and relax. So i'm left to do everything everything around the house. I feel guilty that he has to work all the time so i do everything. Should i say something or just go along with it?!? I have a full time job and i don't rely on him financially. We both pay equal amounts in house hold expences etc.
2007-09-13 13:53:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, he should be expected to clean up after himself and with other chores around the house. A detail to add to your question is what type of job? Should he have a reason to be tired? O/T : Something to help with his energy would be to make sure he has a healthy well balanced diet. Sounds like he eats both lunch and dinner on the job/ fast food.
2007-09-13 14:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he really need the money and have to work two jobs? If not then i'd ask him why he is doing it? cause if he doesn't need to work to jobs then he could spend more time with you and you would need to let him know that and tell him how you feel about it ! But if he really needs to work 2 jobs to pay his bills and things then you should just not worry about it and spend the time you do have at home together ! Like just sit down and watch TV with him and talk together, he is tired and you can't expect much more time then that cause he has two jobs and no time left , just at home ! So be with him when he is at home ! sure you may not like watching tv like him but that is how some men rest after work ! you can do house work when he's not home and he's working ! when hes there be with him , watch tv or just sit beside him !!
2007-09-13 21:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually your being selfish and unappreciated about the fact your man has two jobs and is handling his and your business, but my question is why does he have two jobs? For money problem or does he just want to stay away from you.?
2007-09-13 21:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by travlove36 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋