for medical reasons. I don't know how to feel about this. I always wondered why she wouldn't undress for me. What should I do?
2007-09-13 15:12:27 · 34 answers · asked by TheNightStalker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats to do? Why do you have to do anything? You said she wears them for medical reasons, enough said. Man up! What if it was you who had to wear diapers for medical reasons, what should your girlfriend do? Whatever you think your girlfriend should do if you were in diapers, thats what you should do.
2007-09-13 15:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by grace95838 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not her fault, i really bet she hates it more than you do. My sister in law had a problem growing up to she wet the bed till and the age of 19. It was sooo embaressing for her. None of her friends knew. The only reason i knew is because i had been around since she was little her brother was alot older than her. Dont make a big deal of it. Put yourself in her shoes what would you want her to do if u were in those diapers.
2007-09-13 15:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful about how you respond to this situation. If you care about her then be understanding and sensitive. Let her know that it doesn't change how you feel about her, and if you have any questions ask her if she wouldn't mind talking about it. Other than that, just continue to be yourself, unless it really y does disturb you that she wears diapers. Then you should tell her so that she knows where she stands with you, and you can find someone that suits you better.
2007-09-13 15:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you certain it's for medical reasons? There are people who have fetishes for that stuff, a fairly large community.
Be a little suspicious. Is she wearing a full blown diaper when a simple Tena pad will do? (bladder incontinence)
2007-09-13 15:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually women over 60 has this problem and it's normal so tell your friends in the old folks home what happen for a good laugh.
so how did you find out? did you try to go for the gold and ended up in diaper heaven?
well in any case look on the bright side. if your taking road trips then you can have her drive all the way since she's bathroom proof........so enjoy and have fun with that until her uterus break or you......
2007-09-13 15:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you just had to trot this little fact out in front of everybody here, did you? There are all kinds of things to deal with if you really care about someone. A guy at work got over the flu just in time to nurse his wife and kids through it. I wrapped a mattress in plastic because you never know when a pregnant wife will break water. Duh! If you care about her, it's all part of the package.
2007-09-14 17:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it something you can deal with or not? It is entirely up to you if you can look past a medical problem. Something she cannot help doesn't define who she is. She was the same person before you knew this.
2007-09-13 15:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is cliche at this point, but if you like her. It shouldn't matter. It might take some getting used to, but it wouldn't be such a big deal after a while.
2007-09-13 15:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wearing them for a medical reason, try to be more understanding. I am sure it is hard enough on her as it is.
2007-09-13 15:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by That one 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
wow, i feel for her. Do u still love her? i think you should stay with her, she cant help it if its a medical problem right. good luck to both of u
2007-09-13 15:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Esperanza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋