Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

2007-08-08 04:47:36 · 6 answers · asked by ee-texan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just want 2 know difference between love & attraction.... i am girl who feels that now its time 2 study & do sumthing for my family.....but suddenly my heart has started beating for sumone, i want 2 concentrate on my studies as i m in hsc now but these has put me in dilemma, i just want 2 avoid such feelings for anyone right now as it may be immature behaviour but i dont know my heart is not ready 2 accept this due to which i loose my concentation in studies....& if i try to forget him.thts not possible as i see him everyday....plssssss give solutions to come out of it

2007-08-08 04:43:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dreamt that I kissed this guy that I work with who has a big crush on me, and I felt really guilty but I was scared to tell my bf. Why did I dream this? I love my bf and would never do that! I'm leaving for school soon and wont see him for a while and he's worries I will see someone while I'm gone...why did I dream that now??

2007-08-08 04:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but as a keepsake. Just don't know how many invitations to order.

2007-08-08 04:41:33 · 23 answers · asked by tateroola 2 in Weddings

And they have been talking a lot for a few days, now according to her:
this is the last thing im goin to mention bout him but he has txtd me over the last 3 days sayin he loves me at some point in the day im scared.

What should I tell her? I have been quite blunt to my needy friend and told her to cut off contact.

2007-08-08 04:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this really cute and popular guy who was always flirting with me; and I thought he was interested in me; but then I saw him at a party and I tried to get his attention, but he just brushed me off and then spend the whole night with another girl and they hooked up and I was really hurt because I thought he liked me. I asked my friend why he was leading me on and she said it's because guys are just flirtacious. So how do I know when a guy is just flirting or if he really likes me?

2007-08-08 04:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Singles & Dating

i have this niece of mine she is 11 and i'm 14. every time is makes rude comments about me. she puts me down all the time. she says she hates me on my face. she doesn't respect me as her aunt. i argue with her all the time about something realy small. pple call me a baby cuz i'm arguing with an 11 yr old. .how do i let things like that go without hurting her?

2007-08-08 04:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by gabriel g 1 in Family

When ever she wants to rent movies, she uses this. If late fees are there when we want to get something, we pay. I am more than a little upset that she is still on his account. What do you think?

2007-08-08 04:36:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 04:36:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tellme waht to do in order to have good clients, also would like to know how much sex per day is advisable

2007-08-08 04:35:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She works hard for the money too!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7RRYXU1Rfrw

What do you do?

2007-08-08 04:31:13 · 13 answers · asked by :-( Red Robin - The Doormat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is basically a big slob. He sleeps at work. When he comes home he sits on the couch and drinks beer. Sometimes he goes out to a local bar and drinks there. He seems to love my mom but he takes her for granted for example he forgot her birthday and gave her his own bowling ball as a gift(it had his name on it)
He sometimes chokes me when I aggrevate him, he isn't very involved in my sister Lisa's life at all, and sometimes he even forget's my baby sisters name altogther. Our neighbor is a religious guy who seems to be a much better father and it makes me want more. Should we leave him?

2007-08-08 04:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by snoopy22564 4 in Family

My cousin is coming to stay with my family and I and so my mom said I have to "include him in my social events". She's harshly making me but the problem is he's a total dork. Pocket protector-yeah, tucked in shirt-totally, khaki pants that go higher than normal-you got it. See what I mean? And it doesn't stop there, he even acts like a dork. I mean, if we wanted to go to the movies he'd want to go to the bookstore. I just can't cope with him for a whole week. It'd ruin me. What do I do?

2007-08-08 04:29:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I confronted him about something I heard he said about me. He denied it. I ended it. Will he try to salvage it if he felt I was being mean? Guys/ladies what do you think? What should I do? Serious answers please!

2007-08-08 04:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Singles & Dating

My birth mother died about 3 years ago. I know she has a lot of money in insurance but she re-married (step dad)about 5 years ago. Now, my step dad has married again. Do I get half of the insurance money at all? Or will the money get divided into 3 parts: 1 for me, 1 for the step dad, and one for the step dads wife? I'm only 16 so its hard for me to get a lawyer. Please help me.

2007-08-08 04:25:46 · 16 answers · asked by Troubled 3 in Family

2007-08-08 04:25:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated my brothers best friend for a few years,I caught him cheating on me so i left him.Shortly after I ran into a mutual friend of both of theirs and he was so sweet by listening and understanding,he drove me home that night and held me till i slept,he was nervous about breaking the'guy code'.I really liked him and he really liked me,but the timing was terrible.I saw him again a couple months after that night and he told me i was'killing him'my x was also there and freaking out that we liked eachother.A year went by and i finally called him and told him he was'eating me alive'he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone,but he continued to tell me im the most beautiful girl alive.I let it go and im trying to move on but i still think about him.Maybe one day he will come around??

2007-08-08 04:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, my mom and i might go to the mall today, but shes kind of embarassing. shell follow me into the dressing room at stores like american eagle and hollister!!! and she tries to be cool, so if i say something condesending to her intentions shell say something that she thinks makes her sound big and in charge but inturn it embarasses me. like if i say 'umm mom why are u in here' shell be like 'well it doesnt matter you havent got n e thing i havent seen already' really loud so people hear her.

like i dont even want to go to the mall with her, but there i s this cute bag at abercrombie that i wanted to look at. so i showed it to her [this was after we both had a disagreement] to be nice and she was all 'blh blah blah im not buying school stuff now blah blah'


so ne wayyyy lol. how do u handle going to the mall with your wannabe cool mother??

2007-08-08 04:23:05 · 6 answers · asked by Natalia 2 in Family

The reason I want to move out is because I can't stand my dad anymore. He doesn't support me at all(emotially) and all he does is give negatives comments about me. He tells to his friends and some other relatives. It is really pissing me off. I remember once he told me that he doesn't care for me anymore and he said I could do whatever I want. He only calls my mum to complain everything about me, he even tells lies.My dad is married to another woman but they don't live together yet.
I'm just 20 years old, currently I don't have any job.But this friend I have said he could get me an appartment and would pay for the expenses. Of course I'm looking for a job.
Another thing, my dad and I can't really communicate. He gets angry when I contradict him. Lately, I haven't talked to him.

2007-08-08 04:22:57 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ChinaDoll♥ 2 in Family

I'm deeply hurt and heartbroken. I need to feel better but I don't know how.

2007-08-08 04:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both work full time, have two kids, dogs, cats and outside interests. She says she is too tired for sex. To be honest, so am I at times. Any ideas (from ladies, please).

2007-08-08 04:20:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is a sec. wedding for her I don't really know him well. The first wedding I gave alot to her gift wise and money wise. I don't feel overly close to her anymore or her kids. She has never gone out of her way for me ever. I'm looking for maybe a small token to give to her but not sure what. They rent a house so any thing for the house is useless. They have been living together for 3years with 4 kids.

2007-08-08 04:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by Tree70 4 in Weddings

My husband & I are unhappy together however we have been married for four years & have children & will not get divorced because we have a deep connection & an unexplainable love for each other. We have tried to work on things, marriage counseling, etc. He has cheated on me many times. One time he even brought the girl home & had sex with her in front of me against my will. He has been abusive in the past & that is why I couldn't "do anything about it." He has not been physically harmful to me in a year, however with less physical abuse came more cheating & never being home on his part. He has even proposed to me that he openly have other girls he has sex with, but that he would never leave me for them or love them. We constantly fight about cheating and it has led me to become obsessed with "snooping" on him & constantly trying to figure out what he is doing. Would my life be easier if I just "allowed" him to have sex only with other females, because I love him so much?

2007-08-08 04:18:28 · 34 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 04:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married a year and a few months. As soon as we got married things changed. Before- we went to church together, got along great After-he doesn't want to wake up for church he blows up over the tiniest of things. For example, I am trying to save money to buy us our first home so I have been trying to unplug things that aren't in use. I unplugged his phone charger....there wasn't even a phone attached and he go sooo mad it almost got physical. Anytime I do something like that he tells me how I don't know what I'm talking about. Also, I have one more semester of college and work part-time so it is harder for me to be dedicated to the house work, but when I do clean or cook he says it isn't good enough and that I ain't good for nothing and he don't know why he married me. Anytime I even open my mouth to talk he makes me feel like I am stupid and what I say doesn't matter. I've told him how I feel but he doesn't seem to change.

2007-08-08 04:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by hambone1985 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 04:13:19 · 33 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just dumped me because he doesnt want to end up getting married young. What happens to guys when they dump a girl? Do they get upset? How much do they think about how their ex-girlfriend? How are they differenet than girls?

Thank YOU!

2007-08-08 04:10:26 · 12 answers · asked by laurenelizabeth_x0 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband use to make me so angry telling me he wasn't afraid to die anymore because he had a son. It scared me bad, because i feel that I needed him more than ever. Husbands, never tell your wife with postpartum depression, that they would be better off without you.

2007-08-08 04:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by crymeariver 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has cheated on me with several women sometimes with more than one at the same time.Some people say something was lacking in our marriage and I always blamed myself but I have found letters from other women complaining about things that I also complained about?
Does that mean then that he's the one with the problem?

2007-08-08 04:02:35 · 22 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 04:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating