okay, my mom and i might go to the mall today, but shes kind of embarassing. shell follow me into the dressing room at stores like american eagle and hollister!!! and she tries to be cool, so if i say something condesending to her intentions shell say something that she thinks makes her sound big and in charge but inturn it embarasses me. like if i say 'umm mom why are u in here' shell be like 'well it doesnt matter you havent got n e thing i havent seen already' really loud so people hear her.
like i dont even want to go to the mall with her, but there i s this cute bag at abercrombie that i wanted to look at. so i showed it to her [this was after we both had a disagreement] to be nice and she was all 'blh blah blah im not buying school stuff now blah blah'
so ne wayyyy lol. how do u handle going to the mall with your wannabe cool mother??
2007-08-08 04:23:05 · 6 answers · asked by Natalia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Invite a friend to come along.....suggest she lets you shop alone with friend and set up a time to meet for snacks..coffee or such after you are done. Let her know you appreciate her input but would like your friend to accompany you too. Be respectful and firm and she will eventually get the hint.
2007-08-08 04:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ut oh, I was just shopping with my daughter (she's 12) yesterday and I might have done some of the same things. I did say no to a couple of purchases; we were there to buy school clothes. That's because I only have so much money to spend.
About the dressing room, she probably just wants to make sure stuff fits and all that. But she doesn't have to go into the cubicle while you change. I wait outside the dressing room but I do ask my daughter to come out with the clothes on so I can see too.
2007-08-08 04:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by TaDa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just understand your mom. There are mom's who are really over protective or they think they know all about you because she's your mom. You talk to your mom and tell her what you really feel. If you are on the right age at least little by little she'll give her trust to you. You also show that you can be trusted so that she will allow you to do on own sometimes.
2007-08-08 04:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's aren't' suppose to be cool. They are here to love you and feed you and keep you on a straight path in life. Go to the mall with your mom and enjoy yourself. You are lucky to have a mom that wants to take you to the mall.
2007-08-08 04:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by vaden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to use her "indoor voice"?
moms can be annoying, but they do love us...
2007-08-08 04:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋