I confronted him about something I heard he said about me. He denied it. I ended it. Will he try to salvage it if he felt I was being mean? Guys/ladies what do you think? What should I do? Serious answers please!
2007-08-08 04:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily, I don't know the complete history here. Have you accused him of things before that he may or may not have done? Is he notorious for lying to you, things of that sort? Because it seems to me that you don't break up after the first little tiff or argument. All i can say is reconsider your source and don't expect him to come crawling back whether he said it or not. Most men have a certain sense of pride that Will not let them come back to you tail between legs or to confront you about the situation. Given he did say it his pride says to him don't admit you were wrong. Given he didon't say it his pride tells him don't go back because going back means an admission of guilt anyways. This is how most guys will think. Like I said I don't have the full story so there isn't much to go on but my ultimate suggestion would be to. Go see him discuss the situation with him a little more in depth and dn't be too hasty to just end it when something like this happens. good luck.
2007-08-08 04:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Holloway 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I say bad judgment on your part. Never assume anything with proof. I do need more details on exactly what was said to somewhat determine the extent of the damage. If you love him, you should believe him first and check the quality of the information. Ending it prematurely wasn't a good move without proof. You, not him, should try to salvage the relationship because you rushed to a quick judgment. Unless he is lying about denying it, the first move should be made by you. He is telling the truth then expect him to maintain silence and uphold the truth.
2007-08-08 04:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to tell based on this information if he'll try to get back with you or not. Has it happened before?
I don't think I would have quit him just because you heard that he said something about you. I would be very upset by this, but not angry to the point of dumping him. But then again, I don't know the entire situation.
2007-08-08 04:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you confronted him about something and you didn't believe him when he responded, you either don't trust him in the first place, or you're quick to jump the gun and not listen to HIS side of the story.
Why would he want to salvage a relationship if you don't trust him? Without trust, there is chaos, i'd think?
take care.
2007-08-08 04:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you didn't even give him a chance.
You can't believe everything you hear.
Even if he did say it, you need to discuss why.
I'm thinking your relationship couldn't have meant that much to you if you weren't even willing to discuss this.
So I'm sure he's probably thinking the same thing.
If he truly didn't say it, I would imagine he's not going to be calling you because he's going to be so pissed that you didn't even give him a chance.
I'm sure this is really making him reconsider his feelings and your relationship.
You were really not being fair.
2007-08-08 04:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You confronted him, he told you it wasn't true, and you dumped him..... Now that's rational behavior. you either have no trust in him or you were just looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship. I think you need to mature emotionally a little bit. JMO
2007-08-08 04:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it.. Is he really worth it? I'm sure there are other guys out there.
He might come back, he might not.. but don't be surprised if he doesn't.
2007-08-08 04:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who you believe, him or your source. Search yourself and pray about it...ask for guidance and it will be given to you.
2007-08-08 04:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by jim c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no id u didnt keep trying to force it out of him it should be over
2007-08-08 04:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were a little harsh on him. Maybe you shouldn't believe what you hear.
2007-08-08 04:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by WHO-DEY!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋