Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

if you could kick anyone in the teeth who would it be and why?

2007-08-08 21:48:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jesse N 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you could go back and re-live a day and every after it knowing what you know now, what day would you start from and why?

2007-08-08 21:37:06 · 12 answers · asked by Awkward Silence Master 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres a guy who i was head over heals with in preschool then jr. high and now! he goes to a different school then me so its hard to see. So how do i ask him to do something with me?

2007-08-08 21:33:47 · 14 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex (8 years married, 5 months divorced) and I have been having a lot of contact lately. She is in a relationship and I am not. She text messages me 75+ per day. I call her and she keeps me on the phone for hours.She says that "I have changed" all the time. She says the she loves me but is not "in love" with me. I asked her to let me go but she says she can't. She says her life sucks but that she loves her boyfriend. She never talks about her boyfriend. Why does she seek my attention instead of her boyfriends? Is she just trying to get over me? What does she want?

2007-08-08 21:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by James 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a fight with a very good friend of mine for some 8 months now, and she is leaving soon for good. How do i make it better before she leaves...I have done nothing wrong, and Im always the one to say sorry...but this time I don't care..I just dont want her walking away forever, and never knowing what I think...I want to write a letter that she can read on the plane...I dont want any direct contact with her, because it has been so long, I dont know what either of our reactions will be...any ideas on what to say?? Im in a bind...any help would be grately appreciated

2007-08-08 21:16:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-08 21:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by serene_arunia 1 in Singles & Dating

what was your first kiss like?
&how long were yall dating?

2007-08-08 21:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by Courtney Kayy. 2 in Singles & Dating

Im really keen on a girl, and I know she would love to have sex with me, but I have got herpes, and if I tell her she will probably run a mile, how can I break it to her gently, and still have sex with her? (with a condom)

2007-08-08 21:13:58 · 11 answers · asked by Ronnix1960 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a $100 spending limit. Im 20 and he is 22 and i know he likes when i get him new clothes but i can only spend 100 so any tips would really help??? he has all the games he would ever want so no to that i bought him an iPod for Val. day so i dont know what should i buy him????

2007-08-08 21:11:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-08 21:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by Supereepers 1 in Family

the finest guys ever, this is where i feel money comes into play?

2007-08-08 21:07:20 · 6 answers · asked by PRESIDENTIAL™ 2 in Singles & Dating

u were everything to me and will always be ....when we were one..everynight i woke up i thought about u and still do..when i woke up to your text messages saying i love you gave me the best feeling in the world. i have said im sorry plenty of times and i know that u wont forgive me for ending our relationship but i made the biggest mistake of my life.And wish i could stop me from doing that. Bein with you have changed my life and everytime i was down thinking of u brang me back up from my knees. I Hope your life goes perfect becuase girl you deserve every second of it believe me.If i could h ave gave you the world i would have but i couldnt and im so so sorry and i hope we can be together some time.its 3 in the morning and i stay up every night thinking of how and why i messed up in our reletionship and why i did it. Braking up with you was the biggest mistake i could have done. But I Just hope you still feel the same way.Every moment we shared i cherished and will always cherish forevr .If we never work things out in the future there will always be a place in my heart for you and that spot will never leave me.The way i felt for you i could not explain and im sorry, but u gave me the strenght i need to move on everyday and u lifted me always . i luv ur smilee ur laugh ur personality. I love Every thing about you
and i know that If u felt the same way everything would be perfect but i cannot tell u this because it would kill me if u didnt feel the same way so i know u will never read this since u are not up dear. But I love you so much and i always will no matter what happens...




You Were Everything and ....Always Will Be 2 Me

2007-08-08 20:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by tino_456 1 in Singles & Dating

It all started when my sister called some pysch line and said that my guy friendship was bisexual/and dating some puerto rican lady.I have been sexually involved with him for 8 1/2 years.I care a great deal about him.but he thinks I don't show it when we make out.He tells me he knows when I 'M not into it.also we have been in arguments when I asked was he messing around he said no.so for a bout a month we've been in to arguments.how can I save my friendship.He has done a lot for me.but I'm under major stress with my 3 1/2 autistic son and my job attendance.I 'm not eating or sleeping well.body aches and pains at 33 yearsold.my guy fiend is 48 going on 49 and he's healthy as ever.Help any advice.

2007-08-08 20:42:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do not be racist, although this question of mine feels racist.

They're 3 girls, a Blonde, 19 years old, a Black girl, 19 years old. a Mexican, 19 years old.

The blonde is 5'7 tall and weighs 120 pounds.

The black girl is 5'7 and weigh 115 pounds.

The Mexican is 5'1 and weigh 95 pounds.

The Good: The blonde is highly educated, great at English and Math.

The Black is great at is great at Math and dances really good.

The Mexican sings great and is very friendly.

The BAD: The Blonde likes to feel she's better than everyone at everything. She likes to be the boss.

The Black girl spells and pronounces words like kids learning to talk. She uses constant expletives ( Bad words)

The Mexican is easily hypnotize, and frequently finds herself making serious mistakes.

Which one of these ladies would you choose?

2007-08-08 20:40:36 · 13 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey I'm trying to book my honeymoon for next May and I'm quite taken with the idea of going to Cyprus. Because we are flying out on a Monday the flights are limited and so we can't get a package deal. I wondered if anyone else has tailor made their holiday to Cyprus and how they chose the hotel...could you recommend an ideal area of Cyprus/hotel/where to avoid etc? I have never been and have no idea about the country etc. Thank you!!

2007-08-08 20:24:02 · 5 answers · asked by lor x 1 in Weddings

I'm a 27 yr. old female w/two kids and those just aren't my type of things.

2007-08-08 20:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by tweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out my husband called his female colleague babe in one of his sms. When i questioned him. He said nothing happened. He said he just gave her a lift to work sometimes. I have her email and hp no. but I dun know how I can find out more about their relationship cause I know he will not tell. He also said she got boyfriend working overseas and getting married soon. I asked him how old is she. He said dun know but think should be around 30 not young. I do not believe what he said. I am troubled over this. I wish I know what to do. He lied to me about his credit card spending also and I think he will continue to do whatever he wants unless I got proof and gave up totally. He told me he never had sex with other woman except me. Do you believe? He also addicted to porn. had video, pictures in PC, hp, camera, album. You named it he had it. He also got joined webcam chat. I am so sad...I gave him everything, even willing to give my life for him. What can I do to save this relationship?

2007-08-08 20:19:02 · 15 answers · asked by bee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 20:17:55 · 6 answers · asked by americanpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't believe in long distance relationship. you can't see each other and you can't be there for the person in hard times! If one of them is ill, how can the other take care! Don't make any sense to me! What do you think! Put your comments in!
Welcome those that agree and disagree!
I don't do thumbs down! (((Hugs to everyone))))

2007-08-08 20:12:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladied, This is the scenario. I work in a high-volume warehouse type place. There are 25 people that I work with, I am the only American, all the other people are spanish. There is one lady there that I am interested in. In the 6 months that I have worked there we have said maybe 20 words to each other. She is in a bad relationship which is all but over. She does speak pretty good English and I often catch her staring at me and as soon as I look at her she turns away. I feel that there is definitely a connection between us. My question is I am planning a "safe" bus trip to Atlantic City for the day next week and I want to ask her. If you were in this situation would you go with a co-worker that was pretty much a stranger but you felt like you had a connection with that person. Dont forget we see each other every day sometimes 8 to 12 hours a day. Also, we are both late 30's. Thanks, I value the answers on this site.

2007-08-08 20:07:31 · 4 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Singles & Dating

She is very close to my husband and is getting married for the 2nd time here soon. She had not planned to have anyone in the family in the wedding really and now I heard that she is having my husband, her other brother walk the horse that she is riding to the wedding. My bro in law's wife is maid of honor. I am upset because I am her sister in law too, and am married to her "favorite" brother. Should I be upset? It seems like me, and her step dad are the only people excluded from the wedding. But her SD might be in it I dunno. Why do you think she is doing this?

2007-08-08 20:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by kkecs07 1 in Weddings

ok so me & my boyfriend haven't ben talking 4 a wile....i was scared he was cheating on me but i know know he is going through something i have found out he has hearing problems & he is going 2 lose his hearing all together with in 5 years...i want 2 b there 4 him but at the same time idk if i can handle something this big i love him but don't want 2 c him upset....i know most hearing loss can b fixed but i can i make him c that...

2007-08-08 20:05:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm going to watch a movie,what should i wear.

2007-08-08 20:04:16 · 20 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

right im having a dilema because im not sure what this freind of mine wants jsut a freindship or a relationship. she has a boyfreind so im not at all making any moves on her but he seems to like her more than she likes him. she flirts with me alot when he aint around. and yesterday i didnt say goodbye when i left the pub because i really had to go and she ran down the road and gave me a massive hug and a kiss and asked me to come out later because she likes spending time with me and finds me fun ??

o and the second time when i said goodbye to her after leaving at 11pm (left ehr with ehr boyfreind) she gave me a big hug infront of her boyfreind and said call me i want to see you again soon??

seriously what the f u c k is going on

2007-08-08 19:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by GG 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known my boyfriend for 8 years. We're very close, best friends. Anyhow, we can't keep a good conversation going without it involving sexual talk. My boyfriends hasn't always been like this, he claims it's just a stage. We've both got jobs, so we're not kids. I don't want sex to be the only thing that keeps us together... should i eliminate sexual activity from our relationship for a week and see if he's telling the truth about liking me even if we don't do sexual stuff. We believe is sex after marriage, but we do sexual stuff. Can i get any suggestions, opinions...?

2007-08-08 19:52:27 · 7 answers · asked by nerdftw2 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is 10 and has ADHD. She is on medication but she is still pretty bad..I am watching her all the time and I need to know how to deal with her. She does not listen at all, crys, screams at the top of her lungs.....

2007-08-08 19:52:07 · 9 answers · asked by RAW DIVA™ 5 in Family

I am very close with mother and tell her everything about my life. Lately, I feel like I've been disappointing her and she usually complains about my behavior and attitude. The funny, and good, thing is that whenever she is mad at me, we end up sorting things out after a short while. But today she got very angry with me and said that I am ungrateful and that she feels like she has made me this way and that I am a problem. When I tried to talk to her in order to make her understand my actions, she told me to stop making excuses. She tells me that I'm ruining her life. Even though we've argued previously before I have never felt this bad and she always tries to understand me. I love her so much and really want to sort things out but I'm afraid that she isn't going to believe me. I don't know what to do and how to talk to her. Can you please give me some advice on how to approach her and more importantly how to avoid getting her angry?

2007-08-08 19:47:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex and I share joint custody of our 3 kids. Shortly after our divorce was final in April 07 my wife and kids moved in with her boyfriend and his 2 kids. My son is 7 and the only male of the 5 kids. Last weekend my son said to me that the bf is mean to him and does not like him. He tells me this every time he is with me. Each time I ask him why he feels this way and he always says "he yells at me". This time when I asked, my son said the bf hit him in the head causing him to bang his head on a door knob. The next day I called my ex. She confirmed what my son said and that she was not there at the time. She also said the bf has spank my son twice. I was livid. Then my ex tried to minimize the bf's actions. I told her this guy never lays a hand on any of our kid's again for any reason. I have never met this guy and worry that this could happen again with horrific results. What should I do to make sure my kids are safe and never abused by this guy. I'm very concern for there safety.

2007-08-08 19:47:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 19:39:45 · 1 answers · asked by lexus t 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for 7 years. We're VERY close. We're not little 13 years olds, we have jobs. Anyhow... i'm starting to get worried about our relationship, we can't really keep a good conversation going without it having to do with sexual activity or sex. I love him so much, but he's at this stage where that's all he really wants to do or talk about. He thinks it's a stage. I don't want to finally have sex with him and after a while him getting bored with me and having this want of experimenting with other woman. He wasn't always crazy about sex, just to let you know. We're best friends, and he means a lot. Should i see if he really would stay with my if i eliminated sexual activity by not having anything to do with it for a week, or what? We believe in sex after marriage, but we do sexual stuff. Can i get any suggestions, advice, opinions? Thanks.

2007-08-08 19:39:29 · 1 answers · asked by nerdftw2 1 in Singles & Dating