Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

I hope you know you hurt me. Not just once but all the time. Not because your being a parent but because your only a half time parent. I wanna be your little girl so bad. but its like you dont even want me as your child. Why do I have to call you to talk to you? Your the parent! Call me dad! I love you and you dont even care. Treat me like your little princess, that dosent mean you have to buy me crap. That means stop messing with different ladys and take care of your kids. Them ladys will come and go. But Angus, Macie, And Me we will be the ones to take care of you when your old. That is, if we could be a part of your busy life. I want to beleave you care but the more i think about it, its like you dont. And I know I may come off a little rude and jelous but I just thought scence were your kids we could come first. And if you ever read this I hope you understand that I didnt post this just to make a fool out of you. I posted this hoping you will read this and ask your self why I cant tell you in person. Dad the reason I cant tell you in person is because I dont have the guts. Im afrade you will get upset and deny the way i feel. I know I cant make you change your ways. Im just begging you to understand. I love you and I want to be a big part of your life. I dont want live my life only seeing you 15 times out the year. Gosh you live 15 minutes away, so why dont you want to spend time with me? And if you think about it Macie gets it worst because you only seen her once out of this whole year so far. If you want my advice just ask because I want to tell you what you need to do in order to make us all happy. Understand that I became to relize that you will never be in my life all the time, you done walked out too many times for me to still have hope. But its not too late for you to prove me wrong. I love you.

2007-08-08 18:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Katie-bug 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

let me know y'all

2007-08-08 18:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, the other day my mom gave me this speech about how important it is for parents to raise their children to be an individual and learn to stand on their own two feet. She knows I am different and unique and I see everything in a completely different perspective. Such as, I asked her if I could get my nose pierced, she said if I brought home As and Bs this next school year. Well I come to find that this verbal agreement we had made, she was not going to follow her part. So then today I ask her if I can get my Traguses pierced. She said no, because her answers was because I am too beautiful. I told her that wasn't enough reason to say no. My best friend has had a couple of talks with my mom and has basically said in a nutshell that when I turn 18 and am out of the house I am going crazy. Which I have no doubt I will.
It's a piercing, I will care for it. And it will close up. I think its stupid, do you.
By the way I'm 16.

2007-08-08 18:30:28 · 19 answers · asked by smexibiotch3 2 in Family

When my second husband and I got married, him and my two kids, boy and girl, got along great. It's now 6 years later and now he has nothing good to say about either of them. They are now (daughter) 20 and (son) 24. They don't live with us. We don't pay their bills. I just don't understand. It has started causing alot of problems between him and I. PLEASE HELP!!

2007-08-08 18:28:01 · 18 answers · asked by kittymeow63 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and i had never done this before ( i had never even been in that part of the movie rental place before ) but he suggested it so that we could see some diff moves or just get aroused faster. So we watched it together and mid movie i felt very bad for those girls so i couldnt watch anymore and according to him i killed his mood. I thought this experience would be something fun but instead it took a wrong turn and i felt really bad for watching it and then disgusted because after i left the room he kept watching.... i regret renting it especially becuase i started getting jeolous of what the porn stars had that i didnt. How would you feel and whats your take on my story !??!

2007-08-08 18:25:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 and had a casual fling with my gf's divorced mother (about 50) while my gf was at the office. She seducted me by various intimate physical acts. When I resisted she insulted me by saying I was not a man, and if I was a real man, I must prove it. She now wants me to do it more often and threatens to tell everything to my gf if I don't obey. We've done it twice, but the last time with my gf was a disaster. I could not satisfy her at all. She is angry because she suspects I'm seeing someone else, but she does not know I've done it with her own mother.
I'm very worried and anxious. Should I confess? Please help how I must face this situation.

2007-08-08 18:24:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and I really really like him!!! I met his sister today and come to find out I slept with her husband about 3 months ago. I didn't know he was married. I feel awful and guilty, ans ashamed. I really like this guy that I'm with, but I don't know what to do now that I know i slept with his brother in law. Should I play it cool or what??? Please don't be harsh with your answers...

2007-08-08 18:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by jo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you guys told me she wants me to prove it to her but how??????????

2007-08-08 18:20:35 · 15 answers · asked by tama_drummer_7 1 in Singles & Dating

a. plays video games
b. is pretty dang athletic
c. is funny
d. watches sports, wrestling
e. loves to camp in a tent

please anwer to each ei;

a.yes
b. no
c. no
..........and so on


these are under the circumstances that you like everything else about the girl, basically

2007-08-08 18:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so some needed some clarification. When I met my husband he said he was in the middle of a divorce. We dated and I tried to leave several times stating that I did not think it was right until everything was finalized. He would harass me and beg me to come back. Later I found out that he was lying the whole time and was still married, but by that time I was already pregnant (it was his idea, not mine). Anyhow, now I am finding that he has lied about so much more. He has screwed the whole city, and then some. After I found out that he was married the whole time I cried, every single day that I was pregnant. I am not that kind of person. Anyhow he got divorced, and we got married but I did it for my daughter, I have trouble trusting someone who lied and cheated on me during the 1st year and a half of our relationship. I know some will say I was stupid, but he came up with lies I thought no human could tell, about his father on his death bed, and so on. Please help.

2007-08-08 18:18:20 · 11 answers · asked by Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

since my sister passed away in january my whole family has let it go but i just cant. every day i still cry over it, only my friends have seen me cry though, non of my relatives have so they dont even know i was ever sad about it. i think about my little sister every day and i cant find closer, please help. every day its like im hiding behind my smiles and positive attitude

2007-08-08 18:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by BRASiL 01 5 in Family

2007-08-08 18:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to ignore the rude comments the people around me say and i'm trying to not care what people think and just be myself. But i can't do that because i alway's worry i won't make any friends if i do that or no one will like me. Please Help!!

2007-08-08 18:11:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I may end up regretting it in the end, but we have decided to give this marriage one more try. One of our biggest problems is communication. My husband expects me to know what he's thinking and will literally get mad if I'm not. Whenever we have a disagreement I try to get to the root of the problem, and my goal is to talk it out - not sweep it under the rug. My husband gets tense and frustrated and acts mean toward me because he doesn't want to be bothered with talking it out. He just wants the problem to go away. I have tried all sorts of things to communicate with him such as sending e-mails and typing letters. I have even suggested that we talk to a counselor and he refuses to do that. When I try to sit him down and talk gentle, he still resents me. He will also become angry and give me the silent treatment. I guess that's his form of punishment. I am at a total loss because it upsets him when I say ANYTHING pertaining to an "issue". There are so many things not being addressed.

2007-08-08 18:11:30 · 19 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i know that you guys always get questions about guys but this one i REALLY need an answer to, im stuck. ok so.....i really like this guy, he is sweet,funny,nice,caring, and he comes to me with his problems. he is very open with me. and he includes me in everything he does. but.....he's my brothers best friend. im 95% sure that he likes me back, he always helps me when i cry and he tells me im perfect, and when my brother is mean to me - he comes over and says that i dont have to worry bout anything and he says he is my best friend. he is PERFECT. but i dont know if he likes me, i can even be sick, and he still comes near me and takes care of me. do u think he likes me?

2007-08-08 18:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin works for a car dealership & so does he. Anyway, today he approached her with his intentions. Only, she's a teen and he's 50 yrs. old & totally not her speed. She says she told him he had NO chance of getting with her but she doesn't wanta hurt his feelings so what should she do?

2007-08-08 18:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by Da B 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 18:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

And you made him promise not to talk to her...would this be enough for you(the two of them not communicating)or would you want a divorce?


Nothing's happened between them but you're sure there's feelings there.So you told him to stop communicating withher..you don't even want him mentioning her..He oblige..but would this resolve it for you?

2007-08-08 18:03:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we don't fight or argue much we hardly talk either, my spouse has no clue, I don't love them, they're so controlling and can be frightening at times, so can't express myself to them... I'm still in love with an ex love have been for many years, we really didn't have a closure, the ex has no idea I feel this way, the ex is not married, what am I to do?

2007-08-08 17:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by Greeneyes 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I vented out my feelings to one of my best friends which isent something i do alot but ido it sometimes. This time though alot of really personal things were said about the past and present and alot of my feelings were expressed. She didnt say much, it was just me. Well for some reason i just feel like crap. I thought venting out was supposed to feel good, like a weight lifted off your chest. I just dont feel that way. I feel almost sick to my stomach and definatly worse. why would i feel this way? Alot of the things i said were stuff that i was uncomfortable about but i thought it was better to talk about things.

2007-08-08 17:58:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like what do you want to...etc I hate! If I ask him I want his opinion..otherwise I wouldn't ask him. Whatever I do he won't get angry..or say anything...

2007-08-08 17:57:23 · 3 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating

Know someone that is choosing a friend over their spouse. This friend could be temporary, the spouse is commited.

2007-08-08 17:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by denim_31356 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a guy tell you his life story while naked?
How many times he's been in rehab
How much he sacrificed for his sister
How his dad wants nothing to do with him
How his professor pissed him off in college
etc

I didn't ask any questions to prompt him to talk about the above subjects. This was said shortly after a sexaul act I will not disclose on yahoo answers. But I benefitted:)
Anywho what do you think motivated him to babble like this when we were so far from a "relationship"?

2007-08-08 17:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son 19 just moved out on his own, and i am kindof happy for him. He graduated from HS, has a good paying job, and is going to take online courses for college. I helped him built trust in himself since he did not believe in himself since my divorce from his dad years ago, and made him belive that he is not the looser his father thinks he is. I was hard on him most of his life, so he could be the best man he can be once he is on his own two feet. He now is happy to be out on his own and I am happy for him. I should feel sad that he has moved out today, but I am not. maybe a little, but more happy for him so he can really learn what it is like to stand on your own two feet. Is it wrong of me not to feel the empty nest snydrome? He has not been the most responsible kid with having ADHD, but I think that this will help him to learn responsibility. Am I feeling the right way as a mom? I am sure that it will hit me once I come back into his room tomorrow and see it empty.

2007-08-08 17:46:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-08 17:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Enoch F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i'm just wondering if you had a girlfriend who was very understanding,loving,simple (she doesn't really ask for much like gifts and stuff) she treats your parents with alot of love and respect so really she's very loving and her heart is always open too you. But you know she loves you more than you love her and you knew in the past you hurt her so much and once you both broke up you realized she did alot just to make you happy sacrifice her own happiness just to make you happy and she asked you one day "what do you think about my love" and let's say you said " i don't love you enought to deserve you" and she said "why would you think that" and you said it's a feeling and i feel like i don't give you enough love to you. now that you both are back together what will you try and prove to her?

2007-08-08 17:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Red K 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently ran into my best friend Cody a couple days ago. I told him that I am falling in love with him. I miss him so much.
I first fell in love with him in 9th grade. He's all I want in a guy.
He's sweet,caring,honest,fun,loving,supportive. Looks dont bother me. Its what is on the inside. I'd do anything to be with Cody. What do I do?

2007-08-08 17:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

k basicly we started school last week. but this week boys started asking me out. Ive had like 3 guys coming up and saying they like me and yesterday i also got asked out and same today, by a different person. I need help. The one who asked me out today is really cute! hes taller, muscular, and Japanese or Chinese. should i go out with him? It would nice to have him as a bf not only cause hes cute but also cause it would stop everyone asking me out! anyway...help???? advice? dont tell me to de-pretty myself! :P

2007-08-08 17:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 17:39:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I still have no idea how to find my birth father. I've tried some of the things i was told that would be helpful like joining Classmates.com to try to find him, and nothing, no answers at all.. anyone have any ideas on how to find him, all i know is that his initials are probably JP and i have a picture of him, so any way you can tell me how to find him that's be great. i cant ask my family, they like hate him for some reason, but i'm also begining to wonder if he even knows i exist.. i have been wanting to find him for a long time, and i've been trying, but nothing seems to be working.. so yea, any help/advice you can give me, i'd greatly appreciate it.

2007-08-08 17:38:43 · 12 answers · asked by Reacy 1 in Family