I'm trying to ignore the rude comments the people around me say and i'm trying to not care what people think and just be myself. But i can't do that because i alway's worry i won't make any friends if i do that or no one will like me. Please Help!!
2007-08-08 18:11:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The question is why make friends with people who don't want to be friends with you. If you change yourself to be accepted by them, then it is for all of the wrong reasons, and they would be fake friends.
Love yourself for who you are, and love the people who love you for who you are.
2007-08-08 18:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jake S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur first problem is that u actually worry about making friends.
to make friends u have to be yourself. or else those friends would just be friends with someone who isnt u. and u should ignore the rude comments people make. theyre not worth ur time and a reaction is all that they want.
2007-08-09 01:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by JOOOLAY ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are are around the wrong crowd. Church is a wonderful place to find the right kind of friends. I hope you believe in God. Sounds like this funky crowd you are hanging around need God in their lives. I would sure pray for them. I realize there is alot of peer pressure in school, but go talk to the couselor now.
2007-08-09 01:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by bgdizzyjlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can seek advice and listen to people, but what to do with those advices is your decision. You can not obviously do everything everyone says! So be your self and be confident and learn to identify positive advices and move forward always. Good Luck!!
2007-08-09 01:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, here let me break it down. All these people answer 'be yourself". Thats BS. it easier said than done. When people say rude things about you, dont be afraid to say something back. other people respect that
2007-08-09 01:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Judge me by my music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself, and don't worry about what anyone says. You do not have to live up to their standards anyway.
2007-08-09 01:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell people to gft
they cant judge you
if they have nothing better to do other than make fun of you .they have no life at all
tell them to go shopping with there fake friends or something
2007-08-09 01:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by someebeooddyyy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice;
Screw them.
It sounds cheesy, but be yourself and open to meeting new people.
If that doesnt work, whop up ;D
2007-08-09 01:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋