Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

Before I propose to my gf do I have to get her parents blessings? It seems like such an old tradition.

2007-08-08 19:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 19:38:59 · 2 answers · asked by scorpan 1 in Friends

i can remember fitting inside a small swivel cabinet where my sister used to trap me, only now i realize its only about knee high so i was probably 2-3 years old..

2007-08-08 19:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by Francois de Tilly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering does anyone elses husband seem to think that they have it good (do nothing all day) while looking after a baby and cleaning the house and cooking dinner and paying bills, doing all the washing, taking out the bins, washing all the dishes, ( the list goes on....)? He doesnt say it to me but he jokes about it?
I love not working and looking after our baby I never wanna go back to work but I would still appreciate a pat ont he back for keeping the house immaculate and everything else in order. Does anyone else feel this way?

2007-08-08 19:35:58 · 17 answers · asked by Lucky Mummy to 2!!! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Missouri, Saint Joseph to be EXACT and really i think New York can be a new start for me, how do i break the ice to my family and friends, i'm going to have a job, and save up money [which pay should be 9.75 per hr, so i think i'm ok on the plane ticket] to live out there and off of until i find a job there, which hopefully wont be hard. i just dont want to upset anyone, but i really just need a break from them.

2007-08-08 19:31:25 · 1 answers · asked by fghtoffyurdemns 1 in Family

The guy is my boss...he is my dreamguy...unfortunately he is married....and he has a child.At the beginning i liked him, but that was all.I knew he is married.But three weeks ago he gave me a ride, and we talked...I feel we have a lot in common...i feel comfortable with him....Since than he gave me a few rides...and last time he asked me how come i don't have a boyfriend...I really need help....i'm falling in love....i now it's not right....and i hate myself for this...

2007-08-08 19:30:57 · 21 answers · asked by Rayna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i talked to my ex today and he said he wants me to be his friend. he said we've known each other for too long. so i guess being friends won't hurt nothin but i`m confused about things. he tells me all he cares about is me and that he misses me.i just dnt think i should take him back after he cheated on me.. if i do then he has got to earn my trust and thats goin to be a challenge for him!! i have took him back SO many times and gavin so many chances in the past when things like this has happened.. thinkin it would get better.. it jus got worse!!!!
i really love him & care bout him n i knw he feels the same bout me but i dnt understand why he jus doesnt think! i dnt wnt to let him go but maybe he dnt apreciate a good thing. Do you think i should be friends with him or just leave him alone all together and start fresh with somebody else?

2007-08-08 19:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was born to have kids. Seriously! Every ounce of my being is CHILDREN!!! I am young still but I know that someday i want to run little munchkins to practice, cook dinner, read bed times stories, wake up at 4 am with children screaming from nightmares, feel morning sickness. AHHH! I love every idea of it. and today.... I found out... my boyfriend (that i could truely see myself with cooking the dinners and cuddling with the children) absolutly doesn't want kids. EVER! He says he has to many things planed, goals, dreams. He said it would be to selfish to have kids and not give them the attention they deserve. I just really don't know what to do. I want to be with him I would love to be his wife... but.... there really isn't a compromise when it comes to kids.... Any help?

2007-08-08 19:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by Megan M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't even tell what it is, it runs SO faaast!! but it's black and it's about the size of my pinky nail, and I swear to god it looked like it ran and crawled under a dime!! I'm so grossed ouuut!!

2007-08-08 19:24:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m a married person recently (six month ago). Me n my partener both are some time feel that we are fighting without any reason just for our person angerness or ago. I want to control it. How can i control on my angerness as well our fight. I love her very much. Pls tell me

2007-08-08 19:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cheated on my girlfriend. No excuses, I messed up and regret it. Please don't bash me for cheating..that's not the question. After 5 months apart, we finally are getting back together. Yesterday she said that she told her parents. I'm really serious about this relationship and am considering marraige. Will the fact that her parents know that I made such a mistake, live with me forever? How important is my relationship with her parents?

2007-08-08 19:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl friend is a former Teacher. She told me thrice "God promise I love you." when she met me. I held her hand at least four times after asking her permission. She is the person who started sending very intimate SMS messages to me. I promised her that I will marry her immediately. I asked few questions to her mother just to confirm whether she loves me hundred percent. But her mother told that my behavior is not good and cancelled our marriage. Then my girl friend told me "Please don't send any mail to me henceforth.". She had told me "Let me see how many days you will take to understand my love for you.". I know hundred percent that she never loved me. She was faking about her love for me because she used to write many love SMS messages from her cell phone which has free SMS facility. I asked her twice to tell me that she has rejected me. But both the times she wrote to me that she has not rejected me. She never told me that she has accepted me. Is she trying to make me mad?

2007-08-08 19:19:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im just having one of those philosophical moments, and this thought popped into my head. How does it?

2007-08-08 19:10:52 · 13 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21yrs old and im dating with a guy who's not in my city. so we meet only 1nc or twice in a month. sometimes we meet at his place and we usually used to make out. last time when we were making out, he masterbated on me and i got his sperms on my body. is there a chance 2b pregnant?

2007-08-08 19:06:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 3 year old son is abusive to his 8 year old brother. We've tried everything that i could think of to make it come to an end but so far nothing has worked. The 8 year old knows that the 3 year old is smaller and he will not hit him. It is really becoming a problem and he is starting to lose his temper a little more now than before. I want this to end before the 8 year old really does blast off. Any suggestions?

2007-08-08 19:00:33 · 35 answers · asked by alittlebitvicious 2 in Family

LIke someone you're dating, old friends you've lost touch with, random people you just want to know more about (boyfriends ex) I tend to do this, i guess it's weird, but i also know i'm not the only person guilty of this.

2007-08-08 18:58:38 · 16 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife was cheating on me so i thought wouldn t it be good to cheat on her with a gay guy as revenge?if not what should i do?

2007-08-08 18:56:49 · 35 answers · asked by Tony lanada 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For almost 12yrs,I totally neglected him because I concentrated on helping my family.Aside from that,I was to proud to do what it pleases me because whenever we had a fight,he will always be the one to make amends with me? I always tell him that if you don't want me,you are free to go?
Unknowingly,he is already hurting that I treated him so badly and leave him for 3yrs?But God knows that I love him so much.Despite of my shortcomings,I've been a faithful wife to him.Please help me?

2007-08-08 18:55:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been married for a little over 3 years,but my husband and I separated almost 2 years now. Yea he cheated and got into the drugs. I know I know I procrastinated on the divorce. would have done it long time ago. I haven't seen him since and don't even know where he is at. Probably house to house and with no job.

I just really would like some help. How much would it cost? Do I go to city hall and just ask for papers? How long will it take? And how would he get notice of my divorce request if he's no where to be found because I have no clue where he is at. Just in the county,but yes I just hear he is a low life doing nothing now. Do I have to face the judge? we have no kids. It's just simple. Just need some help on how to do this. Should I get an attorney? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-08 18:54:51 · 8 answers · asked by stacey t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And what if anything did she do in return? Smile and please be honest.

2007-08-08 18:54:23 · 6 answers · asked by ms.sophisticate 7 in Marriage & Divorce

shes 1 year older than me the yr before we always saw eachother in middle scool but never talked then she went to hi skool nd i went to 8th then she got her sister to get my number then we started texting and taalking on the fone every single day we would text eachother good morning and text through skool and the day then we would talk on the fone all night... then pretty soon she told me she loved me then she would tell me every day and i would tell her back... sometimes she would just randomly tell me she loved me...then she started calling herself mrs diaz.... then one day she just stopped.. she stopped everything talking to me, answering my calls ...everything... im going to hi skool and i dont kno if i should jus ignor her or try an go out with her .... i kno its gay for a guy to be asking this but she ment hella to me

2007-08-08 18:47:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it is -- but as a single woman who is not married yet, I would just like to know what to expect...if I ever do find the right someone to spend the rest of my life with. Please enlighten me - thanks!

2007-08-08 18:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by ~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a guy tells you that you are a fatal attraction type of gir?the guy who said it is my fiance best friend

2007-08-08 18:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by shyshy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-08 18:43:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you engage in premarital sex, despite religious convictions, fears of pregnancies and unwanted responsibilities, possible abortion issues, and all the other painful consequences?

I'm not pro-premarital sex, neither am i against it. I'm just wondering what the majority of people think.

and if its not too intrusive, have you done it before marriage? =)

thanks guys.

2007-08-08 18:39:13 · 25 answers · asked by sparklene 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 18:38:31 · 6 answers · asked by ohbilly6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just had a conversation with my boyfriend we are not young or new to this in our 30's but this is a new one. He said when we talk I coddle him and treat him like (I am trying to comfort him when that just makes him not want to talk to me. For instance he says when he tells me about his day or when his flight was delayed or he did not sleep I tell him I am sorry hope his day gets better or hope tomorrow is easier and this is treating him like a child that he was just telling me about his day end of conversation. So what does he want me to say to him I care so I am concerned I have never been told this before what are your thoughts guys. If all he his telling me is about is day then how should I respond or just listen. What do you guys want?

2007-08-08 18:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by missinmysailor 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my job who has had a crush on me for about 1 and a half years and it is completelly obvious. this year though, people have actually come up to me and said it. He's not the greatest looking guy and he's really shy, but i kinda like him a little too. a lot of people think he is really ugly, but he is really nice. I'm afraid he might be too much of a pushover. should i just forget about him or wait for him to ask me out? Or should i just flirt until i'm ready?

2007-08-08 18:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by jzzybme 4 in Singles & Dating

I just had my vacation last April.My instinct told me that i have to go home and I should as him straight,why did it happen? We've been married for almost 12yrs,so I can't believe that he will just dumped me so easily? Just 2weeks ago,he said that he love me and after 7days,he told me that he can't wait any longer?I'm confused,pls tell me what to do?

2007-08-08 18:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I am handsome and i have a good body, wanna check my picture go to , myspace.com/txxxm but I don't know , whenever even i am in chatying girls takl with guys but they nevernotice me.

What is wrong with me? does it have to do something with luck?

2007-08-08 18:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating