my wife was cheating on me so i thought wouldn t it be good to cheat on her with a gay guy as revenge?if not what should i do?
2007-08-08 18:56:49 · 35 answers · asked by Tony lanada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u guys r right that wood be dumb and gay
2007-08-08 19:06:03 · update #1
your a sick ******* evidently your a **** using her as camouflage to cover up your true orientation
2007-08-08 18:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are actually considering this as an act of revenge, then you probably are really gay yourself. If that's true, it may have something to do with the quality of your relationship with your wife and why she had an affair.
If you really aren't gay this is a very strange absurd idea you have. Maybe it's your odd thinking that led to your wife's affair. I think that talking to her about the state of your marriage and seeing a counselor would be a better idea.
Also, it is not fair to other human beings to USE them for your revenge for anything. They are not your toys. They are actual real people. So don't have an affair with anyone for revenge.
2007-08-08 19:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. not at all. if you still love her which i assumer you do i think you should have a serious talk about it. or consider some marraige counseling. but i dont understand why you would want to cheat on her with a gay guy instead of a woman? yeah you should probably get some counseling. because revenge really isnt going to do anything.
2007-08-08 19:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Katie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your using this as an excuse to explore your own sexuality.
Not that I condone any revenge at all, but if you really wanted to get back at her, cheating with a guy offers her no competition with which to hurt her ego.
I think you might need to face the fact that you want to be gay.
2007-08-08 19:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No revenge is good revenge u just end up as low as the people that hurt u. be totally happy by exploring the other fish in the sea.
2007-08-08 19:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cheekypoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was your wife cheating on you with a woman?As far as cheating on your wife with a gay guy or woman won't solve the problem; it will only worsen. Seek counseling. If the marriage isn't working, divorce.
2007-08-08 19:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by mac3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are weird! I can't help but wonder what made your wife stray??? You better hit some counselling together. What is revenge gonna do, fix the problem? I don't think so. Grow up, both of you.
2007-08-08 19:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a D****e bag question is that? People are asking about how to fix stuff and get along. And you post a question about revenge. Get out of the basement sometime eh?
2007-08-08 18:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have an escort show up to your house 30 minutes before your wife gets home and have her pretend that she's you date...then leave with her right when your wife pulls up...tell the escort to leave and go out with your friends drinking. your wife will be going crazy the whole time you're out. i'm not too fond of your gay guy idea, unless you're into that. or a better idea is to just start cheating on her like crazy with a bunch of different chicks.
2007-08-08 19:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be judgmental, but isn't that rather childish? I am sorry that you wife is cheating on you, but revenge will only worsen matters for you as well as she. Forgiveness is more freeing.
2007-08-08 19:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Deb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A straight guy wouldn't do it. The revenge would be to move on having success and fun.
2007-08-08 19:01:04 · answer #11 · answered by Freedom Rules!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋