Is this true love?

Question

My girl friend is a former Teacher. She told me thrice "God promise I love you." when she met me. I held her hand at least four times after asking her permission. She is the person who started sending very intimate SMS messages to me. I promised her that I will marry her immediately. I asked few questions to her mother just to confirm whether she loves me hundred percent. But her mother told that my behavior is not good and cancelled our marriage. Then my girl friend told me "Please don't send any mail to me henceforth.". She had told me "Let me see how many days you will take to understand my love for you.". I know hundred percent that she never loved me. She was faking about her love for me because she used to write many love SMS messages from her cell phone which has free SMS facility. I asked her twice to tell me that she has rejected me. But both the times she wrote to me that she has not rejected me. She never told me that she has accepted me. Is she trying to make me mad?

I had promised her that I will marry her immediately and without putting any condition. She is the one who kept delaying. She is the one who told me that she has lost all her patience because she is not getting married to any one. Her mother told me that she belongs to some famous family in some village. We are a middle-class family. In the end my girl friend told me that she will live as a spinster through out her life. I know hundred percent that she is lying. She is a former Teacher and she should have guided me properly. I am just a graduate and I am not a Teacher.

They saw "I just can't believe my eyes.". It was the same situation for me. She was good in every way. She herself taught me that we must not believe what we see and what we her. So, I tested whether she truly loved me or not? I am nine years older than her. She told me that our age difference does not matter for her. My condition for her is that I will marry her first and then I will listen to what she is saying. I told her that I never believed even a single word which she told me or wrote to me. To prove my love for her I am ready to marry her immediately. But now she is telling that her mummy, her daddy and here relatives are not agreeing. "True love will always find a way.". I believe in this proverb. I somehow feel that this girl is taking advantage of my good nature. She told me that many boys had rejected to marry her. So I feel that she wants to take revenge on all men. That is why she has hurt me like this. I used to read her letters daily many times.

Then I realized that I could go mad by reading her fake letters. The link between this girl and me was our cell phones. But this girl changed her cell phone number after her mummy cancelled our marriage. This girl had told me that she will block my e-mail address. But when I write e-mail to her I think that she receives my e-mail letters but she never replies. She had told me "Let me see how many days you will take to understand my love for you.". When her mummy and daddy have cancelled our marriage I feel it is foolish to even think that this girl loves me now. In my mind it is bothering whether I have done good thing or bad thing. I had given her all freedom and all my love but why did she betray my love for her? When she changed her cell phone number it means that she has cut off the vital link of our relationship. Then why did she tell me that it will be very difficult for me to forget her?

She had told me that Love cannot be proved like Mathematics. How better to prove to her about my love for her than marrying her immediately and without putting any condition to her? Now I feel that she might be married to some other man. What happened in front of my own eyes I not able to understand. I firmly believe that we must always think with our mind and feel with our heart.

After her mummy cancelled our marriage she told me that I must not meet her or try to find out her contact details. I obeyed her as I was always obeying her. She had told me that she is a strange and different kind of girl and that I must not compare her with common girls. I told okay fine. But she has behaved just like a common girl. I think that she has spurned my love for her. She is earning sufficiently but I never asked any money from her. She is having the means to meet me. I don't want to go and meet her now because she will hundred percent create a scene in public. I had told her that she has complained to her mother about me and that is why her mother scolded me. But she is telling that she never complained about me to her parents or her relatives. It is simply astounding. Such a thing has never occurred in my life till now. I think that since this is the first time that I have fallen in love with any girl in my life I am feeling so much for her. I believe that time will heal.

She had told me that I must not look at any other female other than her. She told that she is not blindly in love with me. In this day and in this age I was thinking that if a girl loves me blindly then I will consider as my good fortune. In my mind I thought that this girl might be loving me. So I agreed to marry her immediately. Somehow I feel that she has taken her revenge over me just because I loved her. Is this true love of this girl? She is undoubtedly brilliant in her academics and that is why I loved her deeply. She seems to be confusing me. I am not able to prove that she is trying to confuse me.

What hurts me most is that she being a village girl has tricked me even though I was brought up in a big city. It is very humiliating to think that I got cheated by a village girl. Till now I was having everything in my mind. Some people say that if we speak about our sorrow to others then our sorrow will become lighter to bear for us. I have told what ever happened in front of my own eyes. But I just can't make head or tail out of the entire incident.

She had told that she will block my e-mail address but she has not blocked it. I think that she expects me to write e-mail to her daily just for her pleasure and pastime. Till recently daily I was writing e-mail letters to her even though her mummy had cancelled our marriage. I think that she has kept her e-mail open so that I must fall in her trap once again. Definitely she knows my weakness. I don't want to hurt her or harm her because I have loved her. But why is she playing with my weakness knowing fully well that I love her and I am ready to do any thing for her. They say "Vanity thy name is woman.". Is this her vanity that she is displaying? If she hates me then she can block my e-mail address? This is very confusing for me. I narrated this incident to my friend and he told me that a true lady will always fight for her love. But this girl has taken sides with her mummy and daddy and she has left me in the middle of the ocean. A village boy would have definitely gone mad.

She is a former Teacher and she has the best academic record. Now she calls herself as a Software Professional. She says that nobody was able to make her to talk even though they had kept a bet to make her talk. I don't know what magic I did to her. She talked with me many times. She had agreed to marry me. Suddenly because of her mother's words she tells me that she has to stop her relationship with me immediately. Then why has she kept her e-mail open. I feel that she is extremely brilliant but why must she spoil the mind of an innocent boy like me?

Answer 1

She doesn't want you and her family doesn't want you. She is just enjoying the attention and making a fool of you. You have become a stalker. STOP NOW. Get away from her NOW. Forget about her and get on with your life. There is another girl waiting for you just around the corner but you wont see her until you get this other girl out of your mind for good..

Answer 2

You are a fool. Forget her and move along. You're nothing but a fall back option for her, and you will only be hurt, whether you marry her or not.

Get out NOW. Change your mobile number and block her emails. There are better girls for you. In my opinion, she is not even worth the time you spent in writing your question.

Answer 3

hi

Answer 4

You are mad!! How can one make you mad!!? Be a male and act like a male. Do not go behind. Make others to follow. Success guaranteed.

Answer 5

You are a prime candidate for a restraining order

Answer 6

not really sounds like a crush on a student and teacher in my opion?

Answer 7

Arranged marriage is better for you.

Answer 8

your a trippa