shes 1 year older than me the yr before we always saw eachother in middle scool but never talked then she went to hi skool nd i went to 8th then she got her sister to get my number then we started texting and taalking on the fone every single day we would text eachother good morning and text through skool and the day then we would talk on the fone all night... then pretty soon she told me she loved me then she would tell me every day and i would tell her back... sometimes she would just randomly tell me she loved me...then she started calling herself mrs diaz.... then one day she just stopped.. she stopped everything talking to me, answering my calls ...everything... im going to hi skool and i dont kno if i should jus ignor her or try an go out with her .... i kno its gay for a guy to be asking this but she ment hella to me
2007-08-08 18:47:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's not a gay question. i had a similar problem to yours. she was my first love, and it hurt like hell. there's tons of chicks out there so hook up with a new one as soon as possible. when you find another girl to go out with, be sure to do lots of hand holding and stuff like that when you see the older girl. one more thing, chicks love for guys to become their little puppy dogs. they like to think everybody wants them. especially old boyfriends. don't let her look at you as a puppy dog, when you see her , don't speak to everytime you see her. don't even make eye contact with her. make her think you didn't even notice her. that will eat her up
2007-08-08 19:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by joeybadcock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you are sure she received your messages (her phones not broken?) then the message she is sending is loud and clear: She doesn't want to talk to you. You cannot talk to her if she doesn't want to talk to you. You could send her a letter to tell her how you are feeling. You should think about that before doing it. If you decide you want to send a letter, write in and keep it for a few days, then read it again, and if you still feel like sending it, go ahead.
When you get to high school just be friendly to her and lots of other people. She may or may not be interested in being more involved with you again later. It will be best if you don't push her now.
2007-08-09 01:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people aren't going to agree with me but still I'm going to say it. Ignore her. She is ignoring you and if you persue her she will know you are just sitting there waiting for her. Go a few days without calling and there is a chance that she will wonder what's up and call YOU. Never ever beg or go after someone who is obviously trying to distance themselves from you. If she is gone, she is gone, no matter how painful that is to you. But always remember that you are worth too much to waste your time on someone who won't even return a phone call or let you know what's up. Send her packing. She may just run right back...but if she doesn't you are better off.
2007-08-09 01:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know guys r right in saying they dnt know how womens minds work... i mean i dnt even know how i think and im a girl... in my opinion i think u should talk to her now and then dont ignore her completely... maybe she thought she was being to pushy so she thought she should slow down... i dunno i think it might be best just to ask her wats up... i dnt mean this in any offensive way but there is a chance she might not feel comfortable dating a younger guy.... the dude i like is younger than me and i dunno i guess it just feels odd not for me but because ''society'' says its wierd so maybe someones been messin wiv her mind if u get my drift... best thing would be to just ask her wat happened (b4 u say anything im aware its not as easy as 'just ask' but hey! its the only way to get an answer...
2007-08-09 02:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably getting ahead of herself and burned out the spark she had for you. You had nothing to do with it.
2007-08-09 01:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by ArachnidDemon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww booo! hush okay babz!
she probablly heard something about you
ie) your a whore,your a player etc!
hush okay! try texting her saying "whats wrong,I love you and want to help ,its hurting me not knowing if your hurting" soundsz a lil gushhy! but truss it'lll WORK!
hope i helped!
2007-08-09 01:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by BARBIEDOLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's moved on without you now you move on without her. You're too young to flip over a girl yet.
2007-08-09 01:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Da B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats weird. but just try talkin to her being a friend at first like nothin happend before that and if she still likes you just let her no you like her but dont tell her just leave her hints that you like her
2007-08-09 01:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Riley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a wayyy long question i didnt read it but... you seem to young to get into a relationship. when you go to college... if ur a normal man like me... your just gonna do it and get drunk. having a gf is a waste of time unelss ur rdy to get married
2007-08-09 01:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Harezichi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have been used,concentrate on your studies.
2007-08-09 01:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by anand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋