Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

2007-08-08 17:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by hanna 2 in Singles & Dating

should i continue to be picky searching for the right guy, or not be as picky and see if i change my mind as to what i'm looking for?
it's difficult!! i'm tooo picky!!.....i think

2007-08-08 17:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this may sound confusing so i'm gonna make it as clear as possible. I have two friends. One guy who we'll call D and one girl who we'll call G. So Me and G are friends through church and me and D are just regular friends. Well D used to go to my church a long time ago. On facebook, G recognized D from church back in middle school and started commenting eachother. I then read that they were handing eachothers numbers out and have been texting eachother. The thing is...I like G, and maybe want a relationship. (she's a year younger than I, while D is the same grade as me)D said he is gonna start becoming more involved with my youth group this year, which means that G and D will see eachother more often and become closer. I don't want G starting to like D...so my question is, what should I do? Is this even a big deal?

If you need me to clarify, just ask and i'll try to add any needed info.

2007-08-08 17:31:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I've sort of gone over this before but I want to know what you would do in my situation if it was your guy.

My boyfriend likes hanging out with a certain group of friends alot. Sometimes he even cuts our time short to go and see them. For me it just bugs the hell out of me. I mean normally it would be kind of ok because friendships are good to have. The problem is that one of those friends is in love with my boyfriend and he knows it. He knows it bugs me but is still friends with her. And they are always talking to each other and making plans to do stuff. Like he didn't even tell me but I found out that he is going to spend a whole day with her to celebrate her birthday and to celebrate his her family is going to take him out to dinner and stuff. So I basically don't even really get to see him on his birthday. I think part of it is because I am always here so he thinks he can just hang out with me whenever or something. I dunno really. But what would you do if you were me?

2007-08-08 17:30:04 · 23 answers · asked by victoria 2 in Singles & Dating

My g/f got a bunch of adult toys online and i feel angry for some reason. We stopped doing it a couple years ago, b/c she has disgusting rape fantasies and it was just disturbing to me! She wanted me to tie her up and do it hard! She was severely abused as a child. Other than that, she is sweetheart.

I dont' know why these toys bother me and why I just don't want to have sex with her. She told me she can't enjoy pleasure and has to pretend she is another girl.

My guy friends told me I should just enjoy it and kinky is in, what do you think. Remember she saved my life in past so I don't want to be too mean.

2007-08-08 17:25:58 · 1 answers · asked by Jack Bent 4 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if you do.. cause my closest/ Best friend as a girl i last seen her about 3 yrs ago but we do talk on messanger and thats it but when we do talk we have really nothing to talk about... I have a better relationship/ friendship with my best guy friend so what should I do..... and i dont have any other friends becides the two of them only .... i dont know what to do ... I dont want my cousin as my Maid of honor cause we not that close the last time i see her was fathers day and before that was two yrs before that I dont kn ow what to do

2007-08-08 17:24:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my friend claims 2 b in love with a girl he met in a chatroom and exchanged im's with..i talked 2 her and she seems 2 like him but he said 2 me that there isn't much of a chance of him going 2 her country this year!!!

2007-08-08 17:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by jonathan c 1 in Singles & Dating

what is it? is it when you have s e x but the male doesnt enter the female organ???

2007-08-08 17:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by leesh!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-08 17:20:37 · 4 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Singles & Dating

Beofre intercourse i get really nervous and kind of like tense up.
I was wondering if there was anything i could think about or not think about when we're about to........you know?
Could i be afraid of intimacy?

2007-08-08 17:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by what? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 17:14:44 · 1 answers · asked by Big P 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im still in HS but i just wanna hear from your perspective...so guys please answer!

2007-08-08 17:11:49 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 17:11:49 · 49 answers · asked by Ariel 128 5 in Friends

2007-08-08 17:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by replexgirl 6 in Singles & Dating

yeeeeep,why?
(:

2007-08-08 17:06:23 · 18 answers · asked by cobrastarshipx3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 17:06:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tried both approaches got same result. i tried letting girls come to me for3 years but i nevereven gotten even a hug. been ucky to get conversations.then itook an activeapproach and got rejected 6times last year. so now im feeling defeated anddoont know what to do.onydted 1 month my whole lifeand im 21

2007-08-08 17:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by brandon o 2 in Singles & Dating

It's kind of a strange question, I'm not even sure why I'm asking, I guess I'm just curious if other people do this or if I should be wondering why he is...

So we're crazy about each other, there's no doubting that, we chat every nite but for some reason, whenever he wants to express his feelings (usually done by a heart icon) it's at the end of our conversation, when he's going offline and as soon as he posts it, he's offline.
I'm just wondering if he doesn't want to face me after this, or something else...
I'm not gonna doubt his feelings for me, just wondering why he's like that...We kinda just started out... Could that be a problem?

YES I do know him. I know his friends and I'm assured there's only me. We only recently started dating.
Read the WHOLE thing before posting I hate stupid answers, that come from not reading properly.

2007-08-08 17:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

Why did my ex boyfriend not say anything to the guys that were hitting on me in front of him ( I ignored them) while we were at the bar... and THEN bring up the fact that guy x was hitting on me, "Oh that guy would be so jealous right now" WHILE we were having sex.
He did this several times and when I asked him why he did this he admitted that it was a stupid thing to say. Why do you think he did this?

2007-08-08 17:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a guy that says he doesn't deserve to be happy. So he pushed me away. About 3 months ago he said I smothered him. Then he later told me he felt deep feelings for me and it scared him. Then now he has done the same thing. But this time he won't even talk to me. I have left him cards and letters but he will not call or anything.What can I do ? I am so in love with him, but he has broken my heart. And he has been dating a woman that he dated before me, but he told me he had feelings for her too but it went deeper wiyh me. So why is he doing this to me and himself?

2007-08-08 17:00:25 · 1 answers · asked by vadarlin07 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is pregnant. And I think she's evil. I mean moodswings that could get a figure skater dizzy...

2007-08-08 16:58:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm ready to have sexual beings with my boy friend of 4 years now and he's ready. since were both still virgins we've talked about it and know its time but we dont want to just have it all "niced" out like most girls and guys see it on tv we want it to be relaxed for us.

2007-08-08 16:58:18 · 21 answers · asked by Warrior Princess of England 1 in Singles & Dating

ok seriously, which is preferred...bare, hair, or barely there...? this may seem obscene, sorry, but I need an answer...Never had any complaints, but I've heard men actually talking about other women...anyways, tell me what you think..PLEASE

2007-08-08 16:57:37 · 5 answers · asked by tuckertin 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard before that getting your identification, social security card, and other things is hard to change into your married name... is this true???? Does it cost? i live in louisiana.. so if anyone knows for sure... let me know pls


P.S. I'm getting married July 2008 and I just wanted to know


it will be greatly appreciated!

2007-08-08 16:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by MrsRichard TTC 2012 2 in Weddings

do girls like guys who know how to talk 2 them or know how to treat woman like they wanted to be treated or both?

2007-08-08 16:52:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister divorced nearly five years ago. She since went to college, finished her degree, got a good full time job, has two kids one grown and one in her teens, and is 39. She has alot going for her in her life, but seems to continuously make bad choices in men. She keeps dating loser after loser. The guy she is seeing now is unemployed, lives with his mother, has poor hygiene, and isn't remotely good looking. If he were to walk up to her while she was out drinking, she'd tell him to get lost, but for some reason she can't seem to do that sober. She has sent her daughter to live with her father so she doesn't have to "deal with" the fighting, and so she has more personal freedom. How do I tell her that she's making bad choices in men and that she is better than the men she is choosing? She asks me where she can find a man like my husband and how do I tell her that she won't find one like my husband because she likes dirty guys apparently?

2007-08-08 16:47:06 · 11 answers · asked by Family 5 in Singles & Dating

A guy who likes me wont stop telling me and my freinds. I think ive told him a thousand times that i dont like him but he always dosnt listen then trys to make me feel guilty that im notgoing out with him. Were not talking now but i still want to be JUST FREINDS but he dosnt. WHST SHOLD I DO? please help me

2007-08-08 16:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by Bethany B 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so i just did my first year of highschool, and like a lot of people it took me a while to feel comfortable, by the end of the year i had found a great group of people, who i was still slightly shy with but warming up to. My problem is since summer came none of us were able to see each other for a long time and now that everyones back (and i accidently blew off a invite) they don't seem too impressed, it's time i came out of that shell a little and really gave them a good reason to be friends with me.. but that still doesn't mean it would be easy.
I've had anxiety issues my whole life, which is no excuse but it doesn't help.. I'm really looking for suggestions on how to crack out of that shell a little and show my friends they really can depend on me.
I have a couple really good friends outside of school, who i got along well with so its not like this is something new..

2007-08-08 16:44:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you look for in a girl?

2007-08-08 16:42:26 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, i just got out of a long relationship and i found out she cheated on me four times and we broke up of course for that reason. But now im ready to meet a nice honest girl but i dont know how im way to shy to go up to anyone. Any advice for a nice shy guy?

2007-08-08 16:39:50 · 2 answers · asked by alan_hornet 1 in Singles & Dating