Why did my ex boyfriend not say anything to the guys that were hitting on me in front of him ( I ignored them) while we were at the bar... and THEN bring up the fact that guy x was hitting on me, "Oh that guy would be so jealous right now" WHILE we were having sex.
He did this several times and when I asked him why he did this he admitted that it was a stupid thing to say. Why do you think he did this?
2007-08-08 17:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will choose to ignore the Jesus freaks like Downtown that answer questions with questions. Imagine someone having a problem with who two people that he doesn't know having sex. It's sick
2007-08-09 14:48:51 · update #1
Because he's the man. I mean those other guys were hitting on you........you ignored them...........you left with him...........and then he got to have sex with you. It was a real turn on for him for the other guys to think you're hot and then he gets to go home with you. He was probably hoping that you would tell him how hot he was. Then, when you asked him about it, he was embarrassed so he played the dumb card.
2007-08-08 17:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Susan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could also be respecting your ability to be independent. cuz women like that too, at least most do. most humans get jealous and act right away. he didn't. he prolly thought you'd get hot thinking about being wanted by other guys and he got off knowing you still picked him. you were a the A-Rod of free agents and you picked his team. the other responses are possible as well. if you want him to fight your battles for you then you need to tell him. if he won't do that for you then you're gonna have a fight with every bf about this.
2007-08-08 17:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was glad he was the one that was there with you. I think it was ment as a compliment and it was his true thought at the time. He should of just thought a little more before it came out of his mouth.
2007-08-08 17:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not going to agree with everyone else and say that was a "compliment." i don't think it's a compliment at all...having sex should be just about you two. him saying what he said would make me think that he was just being with me so that someone else wouldn't.
that was rude, selfish, and childish of him...and i'm assuming this is one of the reasons why homeboy is your EX.
2007-08-10 02:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either it was getting him off to think that the guy would be jealous or he wanted to hear ur reaction or both.
2007-08-08 21:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's acting like your his trophy, and he was getting off on you and talking at the same time.
2007-08-08 17:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rising Son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you engaging in sexual intercourse with someone that you are not married to?
2007-08-09 13:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
boosting his ego
2007-08-15 22:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a threeway fantasy....
2007-08-08 17:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by antoniac123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋