2007-08-08 17:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by replexgirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't really the time that is a factor so in so much as it is how a girl feels about herself. Guys are pretty intuitive and can sense weakness in females and often try to exploit this for their own sexual needs.
On the other hand, if a women/girl has good self esteem and is not dependent upon men to feel good about herself, she will get respect from men. There is nothing sexier than a women who will sleep with you right away out of mutual attraction and desire. But when it happens because she wants to feel that she is attractive or wanted or even just because knowing a guy is willing to sleep with her makes her confident, this is an easy way not to get a call back.
Let me not understate that men do like a challenge too. The thrill of the chase is very sexy and makes a man really feel like one. A guy just really wants to know that he can get there. How long it takes isn;t all that important.
2007-08-08 17:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does time have anything to do with respect? If he doesn't respect you now, waiting a preset length of time isn't going to change that. The biggest mistake women make isn't jumping in the sack five minutes after meeting a guy. The biggest mistake is not respecting themselves. How can a guy respect a woman if she doesn't respect herself? Once she does that, then she can decide what is right for herself.
2007-08-08 19:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you're with a guy who doesn't respect you in the first place, then get out of that relationship. A true man fully respects all women, and therefor respect is not a good basis for sex appeal. A good basis for when to have sex is after you say your vows.... OR... if you both find yourself to be mature enough to handle the possible consequences. That list goes on an on. Once you both talk about such things and are fully aware of everything that could happen and are DEEPLY in love, then it is acceptable to sleep with them. Not everyone believs in no sex before marriage, so there have to be other acceptable circumstances. I hope this helps.
2007-08-08 17:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by krazyraider0516 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the woman overall, you can't really place a specific time. Of course, if after one or two dates shes jumping right into bed with the guy...it kind of gives an "easy" vibe. I have more respect for woman who take the time to get to respect the man for who he is, or gets to know who he truly is instead of just jumping in for the ride. My wording sucks, but I hope you know what i'm saying.
2007-08-08 17:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
A few hours. We've been married for 13 years.
2007-08-08 17:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by acydskull 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5 minutes --- seriously --- but then i dont care if we dont have sex until we are married if i am with a lady i care for (ive only been married once) --- have fun
2007-08-08 17:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you get married. Before that time is fornication, and God speaks clearly on that.
2007-08-08 17:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
3 drinks?
2007-08-08 17:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
six months is good
2007-08-08 17:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
20yrs.
2007-08-08 17:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by luap 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋