A guy who likes me wont stop telling me and my freinds. I think ive told him a thousand times that i dont like him but he always dosnt listen then trys to make me feel guilty that im notgoing out with him. Were not talking now but i still want to be JUST FREINDS but he dosnt. WHST SHOLD I DO? please help me
2007-08-08 16:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by Bethany B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave him alone. Have ur friends talk to him. If it gets to far just tell him, the only guilt u will have after that is the guilt of not doing it b4!!! Or if it just gets to annoying ask him on a date then dump him!!!
2007-08-08 16:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him again that you don't like him and that the way he's taking things, isn't going to get him anywhere. DO NOT be mean or else it'll bite you back. Be nice and tell him that there are other people and he should be taking so much time on something that'll never be. Then if he persists, which may happen, tell him one last time that if he keeps if up that you'll stop being friends with him. Because if you don't like him and he keeps bothering you when you've told him to stop, what kind of friend is he?
I guess in this situation, you have to make him feel guilty. Or ask him to understand how you feel. Maybe he'll finally get it.
2007-08-08 16:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by That_one_dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me earlier this summer. I liked a girl but she didn't like me. We dated for 2 weeks and then she just stopped returning my calls. If anything, don't be like her though. That's the easy way out. If you do decide to do that, however, you may oneday be on the other side of the situation. YOU may like a guy and HE won't like YOU. That'll suck. BAD...and you'll remember how you handled this poor fella today. It sucks for him too right now. My advice, if you really don't have an interest in him, is to keep telling the guy no. Oneday, he WILL get tired of asking. Don't let it bother you or your friends, there's too many guys out there. Just be glad that you're so attractive as you are!!!
2007-08-08 17:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you wouldnt mind being friends, but if he cant accept that, tell him you will not be able to have any type of relationship w/ him. He is not being much of a friend making you feel guilty. Tell him you dont appreciate his games. If he doesnt stop, you have to stop talking to him. I mean ignore him.....You cant be friends w/ someone who doesnt respect your boundaries and wishes. And make sure your friends dont talk to him about you. That will just encourage him. He sounds like he is on the verge of having an obsession, not good.
2007-08-08 16:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 14:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to f*** off, you dont want that **** around you all the time, i did the same thing once, i had been friends with this girl for years i heard she was single so i thought, well i may aswell tell her that i like her, i did and she freaked and didnt talk to me for about a month, now ive been seeing her for about a year, but thats beside the point, you gotta just cut him out of your life completely until he gets over it and you can go back to being friends with him
2007-08-08 16:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation, but he just won't ever get it that you and him can't date, and he probably never will. I'm not so sure that you and him can be friends because he will always wanna date you if you and him is still friends and all, but just tell him be like Look, you and I are just friends and that's all that we are gonna be so take it or leave it.
2007-08-08 16:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you I don't think its possible, or even a smart thing to do, to try to continue being friends. He sounds like he is a little to obsessive.
2007-08-08 16:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Devin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him, why you want to be his friend. either you leave him or think from your mind if there is any place for him. if yes, accept him or leave him. Both things can't go together.
2007-08-08 16:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL OUT DEAR,, THAT HAPPENS TO MEN TOO WERE SOME BLOB FAT BUNS CHICK WITH PIMPLES AND IS UNEMPLOYED WANTS TO DATE ME, EWWWWWWW GROSS,,,, LOL ANSWER, GO GET THEM SOMEONE ELSE TO SEE, END OF PROBLEM,, AND BE CHRISTIAN ABOUT IT,,
2007-08-08 16:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋