I'm ready to have sexual beings with my boy friend of 4 years now and he's ready. since were both still virgins we've talked about it and know its time but we dont want to just have it all "niced" out like most girls and guys see it on tv we want it to be relaxed for us.
2007-08-08 16:58:18 · 21 answers · asked by Warrior Princess of England 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first time is never romantic no matter how hard you try to make it be.
2007-08-08 17:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you two want to keep being together? If that is the case, I can think of nothing nicer nor more romantic than the two of you pledging your love and devotion to each other in marriage vows. Then on your honeymoon you can give each other the very best offering. Pure virgins to each other. Have you any idea of how romantic this is or how rare? You have a better chance of winning the State Lottery than to find a couple who have been together for 4 years finally marrying and consummating their marriage vows as virgins. God bless you and keep being true and loyal to one another.
Cheers
Lisa
2007-08-09 00:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it come naturally when the time is right. You don't have to set up some big fancy setting with candlelight or flowers or any of that crap if you don't want to. Just let it happen, or pick a place and time where you're both comfortable.
2007-08-09 00:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by IJAF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, My husband and I were talking about our first time recently, we agreed ours is so special because we did not 'set a stage' for it, but made the special occasions in our life so it could happen naturally. Private, alone, romantic places. Use your imagination, have protection with you, and let the special time be spontaneous.
2007-08-09 00:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by cerisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i had this problem last year....oh by the way me no virgin no more =).....anyways...what u should do is go to watch a chick flick that has a few romantic senes
then start kissing him he will get ....(excited)
u and him we start rubbing each other ...but not to hard
then everything just falls into place
2007-08-09 00:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by lilwhiteboy93@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What till midnight when they are a full moon....go out in middle of some big open field.
lol saw this on a movie, looked pretty romantic âº
2007-08-09 00:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mustbe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere where you will have plenty of time be comfortable have some "good" things to each ---- light with something nice to drink fruit juice would be excellent --- some candles some soft music --- enjoy and have fun
2007-08-09 00:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do to much.it will only last a minute or 2 anyways. make it romantic like your 5th or 6th time when it starts to last long and get good.
2007-08-09 00:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually do it with some nice candles lite and some great hard-core on the tv in the background
2007-08-09 00:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by awesomeness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to feel natural. You don't want to do anything "forced" and uncomfortable. That goes for everything in life. Treat this as you would anything important in your life. And it should go clockward.
2007-08-09 00:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋