It's kind of a strange question, I'm not even sure why I'm asking, I guess I'm just curious if other people do this or if I should be wondering why he is...
So we're crazy about each other, there's no doubting that, we chat every nite but for some reason, whenever he wants to express his feelings (usually done by a heart icon) it's at the end of our conversation, when he's going offline and as soon as he posts it, he's offline.
I'm just wondering if he doesn't want to face me after this, or something else...
I'm not gonna doubt his feelings for me, just wondering why he's like that...We kinda just started out... Could that be a problem?
YES I do know him. I know his friends and I'm assured there's only me. We only recently started dating.
Read the WHOLE thing before posting I hate stupid answers, that come from not reading properly.
2007-08-08 17:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dated a guy like this once. I met him in person in a college class but we talked more online than on the phone. Even though we saw each other almost every day we did all of our serious conversations on aim. He was the same way about expressing his feelings, and often times he would be very strange about it the next day. With him, it was a committment issue. He was into me but not ready for a serious relationship. He taught me that if a guy cannot tell you how he feels about you to your face, it probably isn't going to go much further than it already has. He finally ended up freaking out on me and becoming really weird. I broke up with him and met my husband soon after :)
2007-08-08 17:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry!! I am sure he is just shy about fully expressing his emotions, most guys have trouble with that (and I am not doubting in anyway that he doesn't love you, just in case you thought I was !!). Or maybe its just like an ending, like when you are on the phone and the person on the other end says 'Good night, I love you' and hangs up! I am sure its nothing to worry about!! Have a great relationship, this guy sounds great!!
2007-08-08 17:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much - he's a guy, don't expect him to be a mushball all through the conversation...most people when they care about each other at the end of a conversation online make that the last thing they put up...relax.
2007-08-08 17:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be that he's embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it with you after that. He might just be saying "oh god. i don't want to know her reaction to this". Usually that's what happens. Guys tend to not want to talk about their feelings. I'm not sure why, it's just what guys do. Maybe since he knows that you can answer to it, and he can see your reaction, he doesn't want to know. He might not want to go into it all and talk to you about how he feels, it might be making him uncomfortable. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-08-08 17:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may think that you will laugh at him or not respond back my best friends bf was like that until she asked him about it
2007-08-08 17:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by socca_freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest he is not used to expressing his feelings and does not want to be rejected --- by doing that he is giving you time to digest what he is saying and (he hopes) keep talking to him ---- in time he will get bolder ---- best wishes
2007-08-08 17:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's shy and..thinks ur gonna think he's too emotional or sumthing.so he's afraid of the reply.....soo he loggs off right afterwards
one of my ex bf's did that.
2007-08-08 17:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shy, or is leaving to leave you thinking ;)
2007-08-08 17:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋