tried both approaches got same result. i tried letting girls come to me for3 years but i nevereven gotten even a hug. been ucky to get conversations.then itook an activeapproach and got rejected 6times last year. so now im feeling defeated anddoont know what to do.onydted 1 month my whole lifeand im 21
2007-08-08 17:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by brandon o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should maybe reevaluate the type of girls you go after. Find girls that aren't shallow or too into themselves. You should also try changing your approach, because what you are trying now is obviously not working. Good luck!
2007-08-16 16:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gotta know for sure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOW, that hurts. Here are some basic tips that help
1. NO SEX JOKES (that is a red flag for felandrers)
2. Look at their faces (staring at their breasts or butts is another red flag)
3. Be polite and try to start intelligent conversation
4. Once you are thouroughly engaged in conversation you can politly compliment her appearence Ex: I really like your hair, are those highlights natural?" (No sexy compliments like, "that's quite a rack you've there")
5. After completeing tip four casually ask, "Would you like to meet me at (insert nice little cafe) for lunch tomorow?"
Also make sure you aren't a flake. WASH EVERYDAY. Don't talk about your star trek colection, and go to the gym everyday. :)
2007-08-09 00:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont chace the girls let them get you go out on the town for a night any way maybe your just waiting for that special one to come along buy your self some porns or some think keep u happy x x x
2007-08-16 14:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen Im more than three times your age and have no trouble you can be funny sincere honest faithful and still end up alone so dont stress boy go on a 21 holiday you will have as many girls as you like they go for the same reason as you so book up now
2007-08-13 14:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by raggy1852 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop trying and let things happen naturally, your still young plenty of time to find a girl, even if you get a date chances are it wont work the first time or even the second
2007-08-15 09:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe more spaces????? I guess you just haven't foudn the right way to a girls heart. Keep trying.
2007-08-09 00:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre asking girls that are too cute for you.
maybe you need to start at the bottom of the food chain and work your way up
2007-08-09 00:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you look like in real life... is your self esteem too low or something.. women can smell out a low self esteem.
2007-08-16 20:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by van 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your style man your hair mabye anything and do what ever Paige W says... gudluck
2007-08-15 08:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by yaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax love will come to you at it's own time that way it will be for real and to stay.
2007-08-15 19:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by anne o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋