Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

I wonder sometimes when people put questions here whether somehow they word the question to get the answer they want. I really want and need objective perspectives and ideas about what is going on with me. Here goes...

I have been married for 13 years. Our marriage has been fairly typical I guess, ups and downs, problems and joys. My hubby is kind, helpful, good with the kids....but he has proven himself to be a liar, setting up secret bank accounts and email accounts and lying point blank o my face as though I was an idiot when I found him looking at various things on the internet. When we have sex, it gets results lets say, but I always have to instigate it and it isn't especially exciting and I feel like I have to tell him what to do EVERY time which after 13 years is starting to bug me. I'm at a point where I don't even care what he is looking at on the internet or who he is chatting with, but why lie to me about it like a little kid...I know he does it. For a long time o

2007-08-08 13:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by Nati 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what does this mean?!

2007-08-08 13:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by [mike hunt] 4 in Friends

But I just can't brake it off with him, because, besides the sex and all, he's the guy I've always wanted, but with out the sex part. So you can say... he's like my best friend. What do you think???

2007-08-08 13:32:58 · 79 answers · asked by 979 v 1 in Singles & Dating

To get his attention and keep it? I just want more attention from him...even though he gives me a lot already....

2007-08-08 13:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do I get aroused so easily? When I'm out with my boyfriend, I can understand why I get aroused when we kiss. However, I can get aroused from him holding or stroking my hand or him holding my waist. The last time we went out, I had to go to the restroom several times because of this. Why is this happening? Is it because I'm a virgin? Or because I'm nervous? What can I do to not become aroused so easily? Yes, I'm an adult. Thanks.

2007-08-08 13:26:57 · 23 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

well i have been talking to this guy at night and we would talk really " dirty " to eachother. One night i had this weird feeling, but it felt, well, good. I dont really know what it was and i never had that feeling before. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
I THINK I NEED SEX

2007-08-08 13:26:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a boy out. How would I do it and how would it be easiest?

2007-08-08 13:21:54 · 5 answers · asked by sakuralovestarar 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...im 15 and i havent kissed anyone...not one boy...theres 9 girls in my group of friends ALL of them have kissed boys...even the single ones with their exes...i havent had a boyfriend either...5 boys have said im ugly...it brings down my confidence a lot...but im just worried about the kissing situation...im 15 and i havent kissed anyone...my best friend had her first kiss last week [shes the same age as me] and we were in this together...i dont know what to do someone help...x

2007-08-08 13:20:14 · 30 answers · asked by standard_p 1 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE. O.

2007-08-08 13:18:50 · 21 answers · asked by buggy 2 in Singles & Dating

- when going for a movie do nice flat shoes go with the occasion.
-am just curious do guys like it when ladies luk taller than them when going out because of our high heels shoes
-Am talking a bout average height heels not too tall
-How do my fellow ladies feel about height and guys of same height

2007-08-08 13:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by laka1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 13:16:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sad depressed might hurt my self i don't know yet... and need a friend

2007-08-08 13:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by tj 1 in Friends

I was at a clubs in Brazil and one in Mexico. The people down their in my opinion were ready to engage at anytime. It certainly would be shut down here in the states! I saw things that made me very excited, but at the same time wonder where am I..... what do you think?

2007-08-08 13:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Cadillac Jones 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This female I've been liking for 2 years now has a boyfriend. Right when I work up the courage to get closer with her she goes out with this dude out of nowhere.

I was cool with him and he's a cool dude. But, recently he's been changing. Listening to hardcore music has made him look different and sound different.

She doesn't like it and she even told me. Now... how do I take her from him. I was thinking about killing the boyfriend, but that may be too extreme. Also, she doesn't want to leave him for "me." She need a better reason, as if his changing isn't enough.

Your thoughts?

2007-08-08 13:13:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, my name is danielle and ill be 13 in 3 days. heres my problem. I did one of the stupidest things in the world..... i didnt bring family first.

A few days ago i went to the movies with my BFF and my cousin. My cousin and i got into a fight about that dancing game DDR how we are better than eachother and stupid stuff. She got pissed ran away and i told her fine! find your own ride! which was one of the stupidest things i could have done. She told my dad and my dad started yelling at me for doing that stupid thing, he was yelling so hard i cried fro an hour! i went upstairs an called my cousina nd told her how sorry i was and we were friends again. The bad part is my family is going on vacation in exactly one week and my dad said my punishment will be not to go on vacation, he even told my brother to cancel my reservation! what do i do!?!?! i cant call him because my dad will start screaming and make me cry. I also have a feeling he wont come to see me on my birthday! Please help!

2007-08-08 13:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Daniii 2 in Family

Look, I know I like this girl as a girlfriend or friend, I knew her in school and we seemed to be mild aquaintances, no that school is over, how can I ask her out or get her attention when the only place I see her is my work at a grocery store, in which she buys healthy food and athletic stuff, (I'm athletic also). She came in the other day and we only looked at eachother because her mom was with, I know a girl as a friend who is friends with her family and I'm sure could mediate between us, but I don't want to look like a pus**, she is a nice enough girl that I'm sure she would turn in down with a smile, but I still worry about the repercussions of putting myself out there with her..... How can I make those moments we see eachother more productive? How can I ask her out? Call Her? not at work in front of other of course, but how?

2007-08-08 13:07:36 · 10 answers · asked by ginsberg68 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 13:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by megml389 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that all guys want skinny girls. No one wants big girls. I bet most of the bigger girls are a lot nicer and are better gf than the skinny ones.

2007-08-08 12:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by its me 2 in Singles & Dating

"youre amazing"
"youre perfect"
"you mean the world to me"
"i would do anything for you"
"i love you so much"
"youre so sweet"
and i get wakeup calls saying
"good morning sunshine."
"have a wonderful day baby"
"i hope you are fast asleep, but i have the chance to say hi now"
[[because hes really busy]]
is he just telling me what i want to hear?
because its working...

2007-08-08 12:57:31 · 6 answers · asked by jen 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf has told me on different ocasions after foolin around in this car & once at the movies... but i feel stupid askin him so i havnt but i just want 2 know wat it is...

2007-08-08 12:55:49 · 29 answers · asked by mass19 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is having a b-day party and i have NO idea what to get her- she isnt really a girly girl but she isnt really a sporty girl either-please help! I am goin to give best answer to the first person who answers- well if it is a good answer and it helps me but please help me!!!!!!

2007-08-08 12:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We both like each other and want to go out on a date

2007-08-08 12:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if there's a name for it (i'm sure there is)

I guess i'm asking more for guys - if you felt that this girl was the most beautiful girl inside and out and she COULD BE the one and you felt that due to BIG changes in your adult life, being with her isn't the right time, would you let her go?

or if you felt like you weren't good enough for her and you don't want her to wait for something to happen, would you let her go?

let her go to the point that if another man makes her happy, you'd rather see that than disappoint her in having her wait for you...

people say it's true love, when you are not selfish of the other person and all you care about is THEIR happiness, even if it doesn't seem like it

What kind of love is this? and if you really loved her, would you let her go?

2007-08-08 12:46:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 14 and me and my boyfriend were at the movies.

We were making out and a little girl was starring at us. She kept turning around and looking.I stoped kissing because it was a lil innapropraite.

He keeps kissing my neck and touching me when she is looking. lol he even ASKED the kid to turn back around

Why couldnt he stop kissing me for a few minutes. I mean a five year old should NOT see that. lol

Am I wrong for stoping or what??

2007-08-08 12:46:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime i see a couple that looks all in love i get all. Sometimes i wish i could have a bf like that. I want to date someone but i have confused feelings right now. Sometime i feel like i wish i could still have my bf who is now my ex still holding me tight and kissing me. Its going to be a new school year and everything. Go any advice on this??

2007-08-08 12:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes a year older than me though...

2007-08-08 12:43:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about a year ago, my best guy frend tol me that he was falling in love with me. it came to me as a shock bt i had to tell him the truth da i didnt feel the same way. that even tho he felt lyk that ntn was gon to change btwn us. =) he den later on went to a different school as me, n we didnt tak as much as we use to. i started going out with dis guy.(we have been togetha for a year) and things were ok. wen until my best guy fren started coming bak into my life. he already moved on and started asking me advice bout girls n how to get with his crush and so.... but i noticed that i started geting real jealous. i didnt want him talkn to any girls. i have been thinking about him so much that my bf isnt even on my mind anymore. i cant sleep at nite becuz he keeps me awake!! help me plz!! advice me on wat to!! i cant tell him, n if i do i ratha tell him in person. but wat about my bf?? help!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-08 12:41:58 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Singles & Dating

and i want 2 be outgoing around every one.....and espesially guys cuz im 13 and only had 1 boyfriend

2007-08-08 12:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a guy friend at work (we are teenagers) and he always seems to enjoy my company..like he will go out of his way to talk to me a lot and tries to get my attention a lot. he's really nice and gives me hugs sometimes. one time i felt like flirting and so i pretended to tickle him..now everytime i pass by he pokes me or taps my arm...does he like me or not? should i make a move or wait on him? honest answers thanks

2007-08-08 12:37:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am getting married next Saturday (ahhh!!) and i am wondering whether or not i should make a speech...? What do you think? Has anyone been to a wedding that have had a bride make a speech?

2007-08-08 12:37:10 · 16 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings