Why is it that all guys want skinny girls. No one wants big girls. I bet most of the bigger girls are a lot nicer and are better gf than the skinny ones.
2007-08-08 12:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by its me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys need to look past the size and actually view the person. When you limit yourself to a certain person you get limited results. I am a curvaceous woman and I love it and I have men around me and was involved with a man who loved them also. You mainly have to accept yourself first rather than worry about someone else and what size they are. Sometimes it is all about confidence. Personality and they way that person makes you feel matters not their size. If everyone went by size you know how many guys would go without being laid on this earth. LOL.
Good Luck!
Charlie
2007-08-08 13:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys want skinny girls. A lot of girls want guys with a muscular body. I'm a skinny guy, but most girls seem to like bigger guys, even though many of them are total jerks. Of course you shouldn't change for other people, but there is nothing wrong with making yourself more attractive. I started working out and improving myself, because I'm pretty sure what ever girl I end up with would appreciate me taking the time to look good for her. Now I'm not saying to starve yourself or anything like that, or change who you are. In the end though, there is going to be someone who loves you for who you are, but if your not going to put any effort in to looking good, then make sure you standards aren't too high in the physical department, might be harsh to say, but it's reality, no sense in lying to you.
2007-08-08 20:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by kvmairforce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys want skinny girls. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and I am about 145 (not too big, not too little). We were very happy and he told me I was gorgeous and captivating for about 7 of those months.
Our love life has stalled recently so I thought, "I did put on a couple pounds recently - could that be it?"
Then just yesterday I found out that he has been emailing and arranging to meet two different women for sex, both of whom are well over 200 lbs, judging by their pictures I found with the emails.
So, there you go.
2007-08-08 20:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by not_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones in highschool are worried about their image. Later on the guys tend to seek a more realistic girlfriend as they mature. Being skinny or whatever isnt always an advantage when it comes to a married life. I like a intelectial chick, one that can really challenge me with creative insites to life.
Dont give up hope, there is always a chance around the next corner
2007-08-08 20:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Black guys like big girls... seriously, my buddy like them a little larger...
Girls, when dating, are like cars. Guys love being seen in a Ferrari, but a Ford will do the same thing, right? Wrong. Fords don't stroke the ego as much...
Mostly though, it's a cultural thing. In some cultures skinny girls are shunned... believe it. In Western culture, we are made to believe that the skinny girl is the healthy one, better for passing on the genetic codes... Don't ask about Heroin Chic... never did understand that one.
2007-08-08 20:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jay L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a malicious image that has been planted into every guys and girls mind: Pretty girls = Skinny girls. Unfortunately that leaves a lot of girls left as UGLY. But it is so not true that big girls are ugly. A lot of them are pretty, but society has made them ugly, and unfortunately guys are too stupid to realize that they are.
2007-08-08 20:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Call me K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want a skinny girl, they don't look healthy. I prefer a woman with some curves and I won't turn down a woman who is overweight. What I look for in a woman comes from inside, not their appearance.
2007-08-08 20:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by The Curmudgeon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shallow. I know. But you can't really blame a guy. That's just what they're attracted to, they can't help it, they can't change it. I was fortunate to have a nice looking girlfriend that is nice. She might be a little controlling, but I don't mind it.
2007-08-08 20:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Samson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is not true because all guys do not want skinny girls ,.skinny is yuck
2007-08-08 20:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by nvrrong 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a big girl. im not like gigantic but im def not skinny either. i think im sweet and caring to guys!!
2007-08-08 20:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋