This female I've been liking for 2 years now has a boyfriend. Right when I work up the courage to get closer with her she goes out with this dude out of nowhere.
I was cool with him and he's a cool dude. But, recently he's been changing. Listening to hardcore music has made him look different and sound different.
She doesn't like it and she even told me. Now... how do I take her from him. I was thinking about killing the boyfriend, but that may be too extreme. Also, she doesn't want to leave him for "me." She need a better reason, as if his changing isn't enough.
Your thoughts?
2007-08-08 13:13:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was thinking about it. It'd be much easier to kill him. Should I do that?
2007-08-08 13:17:29 · update #1
OK! Fine guys! No killing! I'm liking these ideas, people!
2007-08-08 13:19:34 · update #2
shoot the guy she go`s out with :)
2007-08-08 13:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Logan C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First tell her how you feel about her not her boyfriend. Do you know for sure she won't leave him for you? There is a good chance she will if her boyfriend is changing like that. You can't take her from him. Give her time and space so don't call her 24/7 and don't talk about her boyfriend. she will come back but, let her come to you.
P.S. It's not worth going to jail for no need to kill him, she will definitely hate you if you kill her boyfriend.
2007-08-08 20:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can choose who she wants to be with. even though she said that she doesn't like how he changed, she might still be helping him go back to his regular self or still hoping. you shouldn't steal a girl from a man and DEFINITELY don't kill! may be too extreme? you shouldn't even think about it! imagine if you would die tomorrow just cuz this guy liked your girlfriend. no offense, its pretty much your fault that you should have told her before! many guys dont listen when people say, "tell her now because she wont wait forever". they think that she'll wait for a little bit longer and blah blah blah but this happens! no girl is gonna wait for a guy because soon she'll realize, if he's making you wait this long and he's breaking your heart then he's obviously not worth your tears
2007-08-08 20:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the same way you get your girl is the same way you will lose her. Now with that being said you really need to keep in mind what you want done to you in this similar situation. I am not saying that there is anything wrong with you wanting to be with her.
However you also have to respect your friend. Not to mention you have to be sure she even wants to leave him. Granted she is saying this now but it may be because she is angry with him over his current mood change. She has to figure out what she wants and until then you need to leave her alone.
Have you ever heard of "Poison Ivy?" I mean for you to even be considering to end a man's life over a women who doesn't even really want seems quite stupid on your point. She obviously doesn't want to leave him if she is still indeed with him. So with that being said she is just making a fool out of you.
Good Luck!
Charlie
2007-08-08 20:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CHANGE! It is so wrong for someone to like a person who is 'not them'
If you are a teenager, those relationships dont last forever. I no its agonizing, but wait, and they may break up. If that happens, wait a couple of days and say 'i'm really sorry you nd your boyfriend are over. But in a good way, for me at least, its kind of a good thing. I really like you, and I was wondering if you would go out with me.'
Good luck!
2007-08-08 20:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by ::More♫Reasons5:: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just think first before doing a step, maybe the girl really love her bf, the nicest way to do is to advice the girl, take her for a friendly date..make it romantic & show your feelings through actions so that you are able to get her feelings, & I assure you she's going to miss you for the time that she's being alone & maybe she's going to call you to talk with her, & that's your time to say what you want...Make a good way!
2007-08-08 20:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you could do is continue to be there for her. You don't wanna steal her from her man, cause then she'll end up regretting it and running back to him behind your back.
Just be her friend, be the person she can always run to and talk to, confide in, and you know- someone she can always be comfortable with. And soon enough........something will *spark.
2007-08-08 20:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you back. All you can do is to continue to be her friend. Do not say bad things about this guy to her. Let her badmouth him all she likes, but don't you do it. Continue to be supportive and be there for her. She'll eventually get fed up and you'll be next in line.
Killing is bad. She'll never love you then!
2007-08-08 20:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Rule 1. When stealing a rival boyfriend you will NEVER discuss him with her. You must pretend like he doesn't exist.
I don't know how to describe this. All my relationships seem to stem from me stealing another guy's girlfriend. You have to have the predator attitude and take what's yours.
Just remember.. girls love assholes! It's true.
2007-08-08 20:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by DeletedBlahBlah1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jagoff you need some metal help, why would you even think of murder, don't you know that you will get life in jail and never see that chick again. Maybe you should just wait till she breaks up with him. Get some help weirdo!
2007-08-08 20:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Warren G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her to do anything. If she doesn't like him she will probably break it off with him.
Just keep her as a close friend and that way when she dumps him you'll be there for her.
2007-08-08 20:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by Kitkat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋