We both like each other and want to go out on a date
2007-08-08 12:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to me it doesn't seem wrong especially considering I am turning 16 soon anyway which closes the gap a bit. But love is love.
2007-08-09 01:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by ??? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 44 year old man and find nothing wrong with you going out with a fifteen year old boy if the feelings are mutual about each other. I was 14 and was dating a girl 18, and I was a virgin and she was my 1st. Not one person thought anything about it and I think it made me mature much faster and better at that time and age! So I say go for it!!!
2007-08-08 19:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by BassDR 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut, only you can answer this.
However, I know of a couple who started off in that same manner of age difference and today they are more than happily married, they are both decent and wonderful people, they are proud parents of a new baby girl and while some questioned the age difference, ultimately they both knew what they felt and went for it!
I am not suggesting you want to be with this person forever (you might but not necessarily) and despite what society may dictate, do what is right for you.
2007-08-08 19:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by LiverGirl98 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends for now. In a couple years, when you're both legal s you can see if you're still into each other. I don't think a three year age difference matters much-I mean, look at married couples-they're years apart a lot of the time.
2007-08-08 19:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's illegal. Me and my ex started going out when i was 15 and she was 18. She was 2.5 yrs older, which i don't think is illegal. I think it's illegal if it's more than 3 yrs older.
And we were together for 3.5 yrs, we just broke up a few months ago. So yea, it's okay and it can work out
2007-08-08 19:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I see nothing wrong with it but the law sees it a different way. Just make sre that you stay well within your boundaries for your age.
2007-08-08 19:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's illegal, so lawfully, it is wrong. In my mind, it's okay, as long as everything with both partners in the relationship.
2007-08-08 19:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love is Love and you must follow your heart i mean its only 3 years difference just be carefull and make sure its ok with his parents you dont want him/you to get into trouble!
Gd Luck xx
2007-08-08 19:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by PrincessLaura 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you sound like a druggie.. and no not really.. a year older and younger is the most they should go for casual dating..
2007-08-08 19:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Technically its against the law, but personally i dont see anything wrong with it.
2007-08-08 19:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by just some girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋