im 15 and i havent kissed a boy?

Question

ok...im 15 and i havent kissed anyone...not one boy...theres 9 girls in my group of friends ALL of them have kissed boys...even the single ones with their exes...i havent had a boyfriend either...5 boys have said im ugly...it brings down my confidence a lot...but im just worried about the kissing situation...im 15 and i havent kissed anyone...my best friend had her first kiss last week [shes the same age as me] and we were in this together...i dont know what to do someone help...x

Answer 1

i know how u feel im 17 and i see people kissing and having relationships all around me media everywhere even some of my friends have someone(infact one of my friends keeps showing off that she has a bf she keeps saying that i found a boyfriend i found a boyfriend and ommmgg it's soo anoying i get reallly mad and annoyed i cant stand it but i dont tell her anything i try to ignore it i tell myself so what?!) and a lot of times i feel awkward and left out and i think im beautiful so why does noone like me i feel like i should have someone too and i get strong temptations to kiss someone it's crazy like even after i feel kind of embrassed and ashamed of myself i think did i go crazy or something what's all these crazy feelings im having??!!! but im slowly starting to learn that we all dont have to have someone as the same time as others maybe you will find someone in the future i know it's hard seeing others have stuff and you dont but be thankful for what you do have, even if it's not a boy cuz remember boys are not everything in life there are so many other things that you should concentrate on, education being the most important.. and one day you will meet your special someone whenever the time is right be patient and dont rush into stuff and dont act desperate or anything because it might be a turnoff for a guy that is noticing you but you dont realize it how do you know maybe someone has a crush on you but they are too shy to tell you so try to make some guy friends if you can i know it's hard but like start a conversation with them or anything you can to get involved more and who knows you might find a good male friend and you guys might eventually end being in a relationship but dont feel bad now there's lots of fish in the sea eventually YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE e-mail/message me if u want :) it's great to be single and it's better to wait and find someone that truly loves you, physically, mentally and emotionally than kissing and doing things with different guys u know what i mean?

Answer 2

I'm 15 too and i havent kissed any one yet and i had a bf for like 3 years and then he broke up with me and is going out with one of my "friends" but dont worry not having kissed someone is fine. Dont go looking for someone to kiss becasue it wont be the same as waiting for the right person i know i was jsut rambling on but i hope i was at least of some help! And by the way im sure your not ugly those guys are jsut jerks!

Answer 3

dont press the panic button yet. it doesnt matter if you havent kissed a boy yet, things will happen in ther own time. if youre looking for a boy, try joining a club or something where you can meet someone with the same interests.

if a boy says u are ugly, dont listen to them. they are just jerks. trust me, i have even been called a slut before!!! but the people who matter most to me dont think im one, and that is all that matters. if you want to improve your looks, try a new hairstyle or maybe some makeup. but dont ever change yourself just for a guy. never. because in the end, it is so not worth it.

p.s. guys like girls with confidence, so dont be so down about yourself. show some spunk!!!

Answer 4

It doesn't matter and is perfectly normal. Kissing someone isn't/shouldn't be considered 'cool' and it doesn't make you 'special'. Kissing doesn't mean anything in particular. Don't rush anything.

Personality,etc. is more important than one stupid kiss. You're fine the way you are :)

Why does any high schooler want to start a relationship so early anyway? You'll break up when college comes anyway. Boys shouldn't be one of the first things on your mind. There are so many other important matters in life...

Answer 5

Try not to sweat it b/c kissing could lead to other things that you're not ready for. Also remember, people can say that they've done all kinds of things but that doesn't make it true. People do alot not to be in the presumed "out crowd".

Finally, reaffirm to yourself that you are beautiful. Don't rely on what others say to define who you are. You are your own woman and I think that you're very beautiful. So just let that beauty shine and those guys just don't know what they are missing. If anything, it was reverse psychology...what do they know? They're BOYS anyway! (smile)

Answer 6

Don't worry about what 5 boys say. One is probably thinking it out loud and the others are following just to stay on good standing with the others.
You got some catching up to do. When the time's right, it'll happen. Relax.

Answer 7

Dont force yourself to get a first kiss, I'm in the same situation. When i get my first kiss I want it to be special. My sister didnt kiss untill she was 18 or 19 actually she didnt date untill she was out of school. I personaly dont like the boys in my grade so it's fairly easy to just wait. So dont push it, just let nature bring that kiss to you. lol

Answer 8

Don't feel bad, I'm 14 and i haven't been kissed either. ALL of my friends have even the ones that I babysit and they are 7 years old.... Don't rush it because chances are their first kisses weren't all that. So when you get your first kiss and if you wait for the right guy then you can brag about how perfect your first kiss was.

Answer 9

miss 15 and never kissed a boy, consider yourself lucky. i got pregnant when i was 15. I'm now 27 and i love my children but, i wish to God i would have waited. you have so much time to do all the things you want. keep your head up, their`s a lot more to life than boys.everything will come to you in time. kissing boys is not a competition it it will be whole lot better for you if you wait till your older to find the right one.
p.s. your not ugly.

Answer 10

It's no big deal. A lot of girls don't get kissed that soon. It just depends on you. Besides, you don't want to do it just to get it over with. You're always gonna remember your first kiss (and it's probably gonna be bad anyway) so why would you want it to be with someone you don't want to remember? Boys who call you ugly are immature. Don't care about them, because you are going to grow into yourself, and guys will be flocking to you. :)