Okay so i just did my first year of highschool, and like a lot of people it took me a while to feel comfortable, by the end of the year i had found a great group of people, who i was still slightly shy with but warming up to. My problem is since summer came none of us were able to see each other for a long time and now that everyones back (and i accidently blew off a invite) they don't seem too impressed, it's time i came out of that shell a little and really gave them a good reason to be friends with me.. but that still doesn't mean it would be easy.
I've had anxiety issues my whole life, which is no excuse but it doesn't help.. I'm really looking for suggestions on how to crack out of that shell a little and show my friends they really can depend on me.
I have a couple really good friends outside of school, who i got along well with so its not like this is something new..
2007-08-08 16:44:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Relax, its highschool. You've got good friends outside right? Don't worry to much about these ones inside. Really only thing you can do is be honest, tell them sorry I missed you guys during the summer had did everyone do? Darn should of ran into you gorge! O Kat you sly dog missed you!! Bob you son of a gun how did the summer go? Get them talking if there not excited then you be excited, realize it doesn't matter if you impresses these guys are not ITS HIGHSCHOOL! There stuck with you, relationships are so dynamic at this point theres no telling were you guys will be 1 months, shoot 1 day from now. So just be honest let them know you missed them, be personal, just pick up were you left off!! Also could be issues outside of them and there relationship, could be!
2007-08-09 08:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋