Why would a guy tell you his life story while naked?
How many times he's been in rehab
How much he sacrificed for his sister
How his dad wants nothing to do with him
How his professor pissed him off in college
etc
I didn't ask any questions to prompt him to talk about the above subjects. This was said shortly after a sexaul act I will not disclose on yahoo answers. But I benefitted:)
Anywho what do you think motivated him to babble like this when we were so far from a "relationship"?
2007-08-08 17:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To all you brainwashed "I still believe in true love" (barf) WOMEN dogging me for "using" him.
He's is the one who put such urgency in us being together sexually because he was allegedly visisting friends and only in town for one/two nights.
Although I went along with it because he was HOT. He's lucky I went with him at all because I had safety concerns but like I said he was HOT.
If he was really interested in me he could have taken the proper steps before I left in the AM
2007-08-08 18:05:51 · update #1
Because many people think sex and intimacy involve caring. It's kinda hormonal. Poor guy - to run into a user like you.
2007-08-08 17:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by SC 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
based on your last two questions; it appears that you cannot control your sexual desires and urges. Your sexual desires control you! You have told me in the past that a woman does not need a man and that you do not believe In Romantic Love; if that is true then why do you enjoy getting in and out of the bed with men? If you do not believe in Romantic Love then, Why have you in past or even now have a boyfriend? you have the same problem I do; You are looking for ANSWERS that Yahoo Answers cannot provide for you! Yahoo Answers was not designed to be used the way you want to use it! Yahoo Answers is not a Psychologist that can provide you with Psychotherapy.
2007-08-09 20:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang that poor guy must really dig you - and you don't care?
I don't know (sorry) what has happened with people these days but everyone thinks its ok to use others.. its kind of sad.. and why cheapen yourself to have sex with just anyone in the first place.. it used to be a sacred thing - now its a free-for-all and who cares who's doing who?
Its like we're becoming animals.
Poor guy trusted you with his feelings - he is possibly yearning for someone to care for him (judging by what he told you) and he's gonna get stung again :( Sorry to be blunt.. but a guy won't disclose unless he feels you are the right person..
or another scenario... unless he is a genuine emo.. in which case, he may think that if you feel sorry for him you might hang around more than one night?
2007-08-09 00:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Aussiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being naked or engaging in a sexual act is when a man is the most vulnerable. It's natural for him to be in a mindset where he reveals vulnerable things about himself. He's revealing his body and passion - it's natural for him to reveal his entire self - even his vulneralbe personality. He's sharing his entire self with you. Take it as a compliment.
There's a difference between making love and plain old f*ucking. It sounds like he was making love to you.
2007-08-13 07:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe that you are really good in bed and he feels comfortable with telling you that. But if you are not looking for some one and you just want to do your thing let him kno because if you dont when you do some thing like start talking to a different guy it can turn out bad. but if you do want to be with him take adventage and listen.
2007-08-09 00:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lurch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that in the euphoric state following a sexual act that he felt comfortable talking to you. I know once, before I was dating my boyfriend, I fell into that euphoric state and confessed my true feelings for him and told him alot of what went on in my life before I met him. Sometimes the hormone rush goes to your head and you speak without thinking it through all the way.
2007-08-09 00:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably assumed that because you had been intimate that it was OK to share some of his personal information. If you "benefitted" from "the act" (I can guess what that might be - lucky you!), then he probably just thought sharing some intimate knowledge of his life was acceptable.
2007-08-09 00:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that the good loving made him start confessing! it'll make ya do that sometimes. i would take it as a compliment because most men don't open up like that. later on down the line ur going to want to be with a man who can tell u how he feels!
2007-08-09 04:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by malaika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was something that was weighing on his mind and that act made him feel connected enough to you to tell you his problems.
2007-08-09 00:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awkward...
very weird, indeed. I honestly do not know...Maybe because he wants you to love him and feel sorry for him...but then I don't understand the sister part.
That's weird. I don't know.
2007-08-09 00:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋