Ladied, This is the scenario. I work in a high-volume warehouse type place. There are 25 people that I work with, I am the only American, all the other people are spanish. There is one lady there that I am interested in. In the 6 months that I have worked there we have said maybe 20 words to each other. She is in a bad relationship which is all but over. She does speak pretty good English and I often catch her staring at me and as soon as I look at her she turns away. I feel that there is definitely a connection between us. My question is I am planning a "safe" bus trip to Atlantic City for the day next week and I want to ask her. If you were in this situation would you go with a co-worker that was pretty much a stranger but you felt like you had a connection with that person. Dont forget we see each other every day sometimes 8 to 12 hours a day. Also, we are both late 30's. Thanks, I value the answers on this site.
2007-08-08 20:07:31 · 4 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldnt, ask her to do something smaller like go get a drink after work or something like that. a trip is a big step for someone you dont know very well. good luck :]
2007-08-08 20:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i dont think its a good idea to invite her just yet, if you asked me and i barely knew you, i might be alittle...hmm what is the word i am lookin 4, hmm creeped out? so just try talkin to her more and c how it goes from there
2007-08-08 20:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am in her position, even if I am secretly attracted to you, I'll find it bad if you will invite me to come with you for the reason that I barely knew you.
2007-08-08 20:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that would be nice....and if what you say is true, that there is a connection between you two...chances are she would say yes
2007-08-08 20:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by geisha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋