2007-08-08 04:25:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not ready or simply don't want to do it...don't. It's that simple. You are in control of your body and your life. Nobody else has any influence over that. Don't let someone pressure you into doing something you're not ready or don't feel comfortable doing. Stand your ground and respect yourself. You will find as you get older...alot of guys want to have sex with you!! You can't say yes to everyone that wants something!! Good luck!!
2007-08-08 04:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the best answer is if you don't want to, tell him that and don't compromise yourself and who you are by giving in. If he respects and loves you he will wait until you are ready. If he does respect you and says okay lets wait, might i suggest and have you suggest to him maybe until the time comes just persist with deep kissing and heavy petting. And if you are willing maybe alternatives to actually having sex perhaps you can both trade off pleasing each other with just your hands. It's a safe alternative that produce the same results. But whatever happens you wait until you are ready and don't do anything otherwise, until you know it's the right time for you. If he persists dump the jerk and find a real man.
2007-08-08 12:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Holloway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Tell him straight up that you don't want to have sex. If he doesn't like it, that's too bad. Don't be rude about it, though. Tell him nicely that you don't want to have sex and then explain to him why you don't want to have sex.
Best of luck.
2007-08-08 18:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by tranquilpsycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly?
The best thing you can do is tell him that if it's that important to him, then he needs to date girls that are sexually active. Break it off. Seriously. I'm not saying he's a scumbag, maybe he is or maybe he isn't. But if sex is that important to him, then he needs to be with a girl that puts out. He shouldn't be pressuring you to do things that you'd rather save for your husband.
2007-08-08 11:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this opportunity to test him out. If you tell him you dont want to but he keeps trying to change your mind, get rid of him. You know he's just using you then.
If he agrees to wait or you guys talk about it, you know you have a good guy on your hands.
2007-08-08 11:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by just me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u dont want sex, if he keeps on pressuring u, break it off. He is probably only after one thing and one thing only if he pressure's u
2007-08-08 11:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Meh. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to wait until you are ready. This is a life decision, not something to be taken lightly. If he respects you, then he will wait.
2007-08-08 11:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to put pressure on you. you are not his sex toy that he can have everytime he wants to... if he gets to persistent get another boyfriend who'll not only love you but will respect you as well....
2007-08-08 11:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to have sex and you don't then don't do it. tell him you're not ready and if he's a good genuine guy, he'll respect your wishes
2007-08-08 11:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should think enough about you to respect your wishes. If he doesn't then he has no respect at all for you, and needs to hit the road
2007-08-08 11:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋