Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

2007-08-08 06:50:23 · 24 answers · asked by Taysha (TJ) 2 in Singles & Dating

instead you cheat on us..and then leave us for the women that treat you like crap and thats the ones that you marry and have kids with...the ones that nagg you..disrespect you...make you feel worthless...
explain that scenario to me

2007-08-08 06:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 06:48:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm very close to my mom and I always have been. I have been with my fiancee for 8 years and I love him very very much. But is it wrong that I love my mom more than my future husband? No matter who I would be with, I think I would always love her more than any one else. Is this normal,bad, strange?

2007-08-08 06:43:51 · 17 answers · asked by Susy_Q 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have seen families in trailors with like 12 children all from different unfit young mothers who do drugs and drain society's resources.

I am from a "red state" and this problem is more prevalent in the south.

It is very common for a 25 year old, unwed mother, having 4 kids, all living with their grandmother, who also takes care of more kids who aren't her own.

Has anyone else seen this? I am in juvenile rehabilition, and I see a lot of this in my outpatient counseling. Do these horrible breeding centers disgust anyone else?

DOES ANYONE EVEN KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT--HAVE YOU EVER SEEN ONE OF THESE FAMILIES I SPOKE OF, AND ARE YOU FAMALIAR WITH THE PROBLEMS THEY PRODUCE?

2007-08-08 06:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I have been together for 14 yrs. Sure, the last 5 years has been tough. Two kids, sports, school, both of us working & worst of all not communicating. I think we both forgot to be a couple. I even told him a few times that I felt like we were roomates.He said he didn't know what i was talking about, everything was fine.So there i was not happy then I got a transfer to another province (which he wanted by the way) and then 2 weeks later he told me he accepted a job where we were so he was not going.Then b/c we dont communicate, he thought I wanted to still go and I thought he wanted me to go so the emotional seperation & fighting started.I then went to him about a month later & said I changed my mind & didnt want to go but he said go anyways. Then I was told my co was moving here!I was so excited but he said he still wanted me out & he was confused & needed space. So I left. This is killing me.we still talk but i want him back so bad. What do I do?

2007-08-08 06:42:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning to buy a wooden chest as an aniversary present. I would love it to be older styled and I want to have it personally engraved on the inside lid. I have looked around a bit on the internet but I cannot seem to find exactly what I am looking for.

I want a chest that isnt huge but smaller, I want it to be able to hold the memories of our relationship and time together.

If you can help with some idea's that would be great!

thanks

2007-08-08 06:41:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I are going on a date and since I'm paying, is it okay if I'm the only one that eats? I am somewhat fat and I want her to watch me eat so she can see if I'm a keeper or not. But I don't like seeing other people eat in front of me. Is it okay if I ask her to eat at home and not at the restaurant?

2007-08-08 06:41:38 · 124 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see people posting on here that if you are looking on ways to cut down your budget, join the church b/c members are free.

Mine wasn't and none of my friends have ever been allowed the church for free. My mothers wasn't even free to members back in the 60s. So what I want to know--

who on here has actually used the church they were members of for free AND what church are you a member of?

2007-08-08 06:41:35 · 15 answers · asked by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 in Weddings

As we all know there is no such thing as perfect, but I wanted to know from different men what they would want out of a woman for them to consider that person "the one".

2007-08-08 06:39:32 · 6 answers · asked by Shelley 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it mean something will happen in the future?

2007-08-08 06:38:45 · 3 answers · asked by S.S. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend. I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged to since I helped him get the ring for her. He only gets to go back there once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comin on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. I apologized to him but then he started ignoring me. He said I should focus on someone else and it's best that we no longer be friends since I was too weird.Yesterday, I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend, just a coworker. he told me not to email him or talk 2 him unless work relatd. thing is i can't let go.

2007-08-08 06:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm hoping to get some answers...doesn't seem like anyone's on here today...

2007-08-08 06:34:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 26/F and plan on getting remarried in another year or so. My first marriage only lasted 6 weeks but we had dated/lived together for 5 year prior to the wedding.

My Fiancee has never been married before.

Since this is OUR first marriage and really his first time for this - Am I really obliged to follow "second wedding traditions"?

2007-08-08 06:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I own a business a customer, came like does most days . He was telling my how great I was etc. My husband said "Do you want take up payments on her?"

2007-08-08 06:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found cute wedding invitations at www.vistaprint.com for about one-fourth what other wedding invitations cost at other places. Do you think that it is cheap of me to go that route? I just cannot rationalize invitations that cost $5 a piece that people throw away in the end. I just want friends and family to know where and when it is. I also am having people RSVP by phone or a special email account I set up for our wedding. Your thoughts please...

2007-08-08 06:29:57 · 24 answers · asked by BellyRubz 3 in Weddings

just i wana be talketive cause i don't like it but m a good listener for fren

2007-08-08 06:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by mahen16_alone 1 in Friends

Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy living in california. There's a girl I like who lives down the street and I'm not sure if she likes me. She is 15 and has an 18 year old boyfriend. She also likes about 3 other guys. Yesterday I went over to her house and she said she wanted to have sex because she was in the mood. I kept telling her she was going to tease me and not do it. I said ok and she took me around her house. She started to take my belt off and rub my dick. She then kissed me and we went back to the front. She said she wanted it in her pussy and told me to pull it out when I ***. She then wanted to have a tit job. I finally said no after she showed me her ****.

I'd like to go over there again and do it with her. Do you think she likes me and how should I get her horny again?

2007-08-08 06:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like to pay for things for my boyfriend but it seems like it is getting to be that i pay way to often, in fact the past few months i think there was only 1 time he paid for our food, and that was on his birthday, keep in mind i also gave him $40.00 in his card which most likely paid for our meal and his gas money to get there, do you think its right that i have to pay all the time? should i start leaving my money at home and just tell him im broke, cuz i might start doing that..

2007-08-08 06:26:30 · 30 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You know . . . the game where the first person was given a card with a saying on it, and that person whispered in the ear of the person next to them, and so on and so on. And by the end of the circle, the last person told everyone what was whispered to them, and it wasn't even close to the original saying on the card?

If the Bible is the word of God, and several different men transcribed the word of God, and the message passed through different means before it was even transcribed, isn't it possible that the composers of the Bible got some of God's word wrong?

Note: I'm not saying the Bible is "wrong." I'm asking is it possible that the Bible lacks accuracy?

2007-08-08 06:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so last school year i liked a girl named grace. and she acted like she liked me. but i wasne't sure . and at the end of the year she said she may move. or she may stay its up to my parents is what she said. so now its the end of the summer almost time for school and i took a test to say if she liked me or not and it said she doeswhat do i do i still like her.

2007-08-08 06:25:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my wedding was a few weeks ago and everything was great with no major complaints...for this I am severly greatful and there were a lot of good people who supported us and showed up. But I was looking back at our guest list and comparing with our rsvp list and found that there are about 30 people (good friends and family even) who said they were coming and didn't show. Only about a handful have called with various reasons for their absence, but many have not called, sent a card or e-mail. What is up with that? I mean not to mention it will be ackward to see these people in the future w/o bringing up why they didn't show, but what about the $ we spent on the food that went to waste. I know these were gifts from us as the party-throwers, but don't these people care that we wasted about $600 on the no-shows? I am understanding that things come up but shouldn't these people and all of those who ditched out on weddings should be legally responsible for reinbursment; Judge Judy anyone?

2007-08-08 06:23:37 · 24 answers · asked by Rasta 3 in Weddings

My husband has cheated on me in the past and I suspect he is up to it again. He leaves the house about 9:30 every night and doesn't come back until 3 or 4 in the morning. He keeps coming up with excuses as to where he has been, but I don't believe him. I want to be able to follow him and know exactly where he is really going and what he is really doing, but I don't want him to catch me. Any ideas how to pull this off??

2007-08-08 06:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by two_minute_girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, well, i met him over an online gaming site (runescape), i`m 14 and he`s 16. he has a myspace, he has msn, he has pictures of himself and he`s gone onto webcam. he seems like a normal person, he doesn`t spend loads of time on the computer, and he gets new pictures of himself everyonce in a while. first, is there a way to fake a webcam ? second, how would i be able to tell if he`s an online predator or not ? he says he loves me, and i feel like i love him. he doesn`t live anywhere near me though, i live in canada and he says he lives in the UK. please, just give me tips on how to tell if he`s an online predator or not. i can give more details if you add questions in your answers. thanks a lot.

2007-08-08 06:20:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-08 06:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my ex and i got back together for a bit over the summer but we couldn't continue because i am going to school out of state. it wasn't until i was leaving did he say that he made a mistake in breaking up with me. we talk on the phone sometimes and we say i love you at the end of the convos...but i told him how much it hurts to say it and he agreed. and he keeps saying how much he misses me. but i have a feeling he's dating someone already...just a couple of weeks after i left. i know we have to move on but i wish he'd have the guts to tell me. he's supposed to call today and i'm just so angry at him. should i confront him about it?

2007-08-08 06:19:08 · 20 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

some men do but alot more women do!!!

and they talk about other people loud enough so that everybody can hear them!

i heard this lady telling her friend at lunch about how her man has e d problems, are you kidding i would never tell my friends that my girl had problems down there or say is so everybody i work with can hear it.

2007-08-08 06:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that i'm old enough to have a cell phone? i don't have one and all of my other friends do. i get jealous because i'm sitting next to them and they're always texting people when i'm sitting right there! any advice to help convince them i'm ready to have a cell phone?!?

2007-08-08 06:16:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The whole thing sounds a bit fishy to me.
Is it possible that he would really like her for her personality?

2007-08-08 06:16:46 · 53 answers · asked by leapardskinjacket 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have it yet, but I want to practice some new behaviors. can you please help? Thanks so much!

2007-08-08 06:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Singles & Dating