Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

the person who was telling you?

2007-08-08 08:34:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all my girlfrends have boyfrends and i have no.
all my man want sex only and want not mary.

2007-08-08 08:32:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 3 years and during that time I have encounted so much grief and agony over a evil stepchild and my husband's exwife. They are horrible people. We have been in and out of court for restraining orders, fighting over this and that and it is miserable. She is now on her 3rd marriage in 3 years, so you get the picture. She expects everything to go her way all the time. Her child (husband's with her) is downright horrible. He is disrepectful and rude. He has even threatened to shoot me and he is only 7. Now she is on her 3rd marriage and doesn't want to deal with him anymore, so now he wants to come live with us. My answer is no way. He is not even allowed to visit. My husband goes other places with him and doesn't bring him around. Will this ever stop and am I wrong to hate them both.

2007-08-08 08:31:24 · 25 answers · asked by squaw 1 in Family

I am not very physically attracted to skinny guys or overly tall guys meaning 6 ft 1 + and rarley date them am i shallow? I am thin at 5ft5-6 and 106 pounds(female runner) so i guess i am a bit of a hypocrite for not liking skinny guys.I prefer more guys of a more average weight or a little on the stout/sturdy about 5ft9-10-11 range .In particular big boned(thicker bone structure),broard shoulders,big back,bit of a booty to pinch or grab lol, athletic type of build like a ex.footbally player or baseball player ect.,and who maintains his body by working out.I like feeling protected and having a bit of a teddy bear in comparason to my body with the guys i date.Shallow or paticular?

2007-08-08 08:30:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been calling me names ALOT lately and just really treating me like crap and i want to leave and go out on my own but....I still love him I just dont fee IN LOVE with him. we have not been married that long but right after we got married everything started to change....he called me a fat as$ yesterday and got mad and said "suck my D#$% B#$%ch" and I got SOOO mad I told him to pack his stuff and go but he didnt and he slept on the couch....he called this morning apologizing and I was like "yeah ok" and he was saying he loved me and all but he ahs to apologize so much it feels like he doesnt mean it. But when I think about me leaving or him for that matter I feel sick to my stomach....and I feel a lump in my throat and feel like crying.....why? He makes me so mad and I want to go out on my own.....please help me.....give me some kind of advice....please....I am at a loss for words.....what do I do?!

2007-08-08 08:29:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 08:29:20 · 14 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

in other words, what is going through his mind when he tells the mistress that he's going back to his wife? what makes him want to go back to the wife? why do they have the fling in the first place if they aren't even going to leave their wives?

2007-08-08 08:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...heart?
Please tell that my hopes are not invain?

2007-08-08 08:27:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-08 08:26:59 · 4 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

He has 4 children, but he's divorced.. im 19 and hes 47, his eldest is older then me! I love him so much, bin together for 1 year, he gives great sex, words cant describe how much i love this man. He said to me he wants to get married and have children with me..
he has his own business and hes loaded, we have our own apartment, so i dont need to work, i have my own car that i havent needed to pay a penny for, lifes sweet.
His kids hate me, but he said he would choose me over them!

my mom has gone real cold with me, if my dad was still alive he would of beaten him up by now!

I thought it was normal because age doesnt matter..

what do you guys think?

2007-08-08 08:26:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think one of the sweetest things I've seen is an old couple hand in hand walking throught he park.... I just love to hold hands with the one I love.....I love the feeling of safety it brings when my small hands are entwined with his powerful hands. .Are you a hand holder?????

2007-08-08 08:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

He told me he wanted to separate and then the next day called me and asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him. ???

One day he will call and tell me he can't stand me and the next it's "I just wanted to call and see how you're doing".

Any ideas?

2007-08-08 08:23:50 · 18 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

About a year and a half ago, I beat my wife. Another man came onto my property to defend her, I had my gun holstered on my side unbeknownst to the man. When I saw him, I drew my firearm and hit him in the head so hard that it fractured his skull. I pointed my weapon at the man when he was on the ground; and it was at that moment I realized that I was about to change many people's lives forever. It was if I had seen my future, and it was bleak; I knew that I had one chance to change it. I lowered my weapon, went inside and called the cops and told them what I had done. I cried when I had realized the mayhem I caused and what could have happened. No other injuries except for the ones described above. I served a year and a half in jail and had to sell my home to pay to the man I injured. I've been out of prison for over a year now. My wife stayed with me, but I told her I do not deserve her. I no longer feel any anger in my life. Can I truly be rehabilitated? Thank you all.

2007-08-08 08:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 08:22:59 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf wants to travel to the UK with her ex bf and travel with him, sleep in his bed (she says with a big T shirt on) and they will only occasionally hug, no sex she says. Do i trust her? How would you feel?

2007-08-08 08:21:54 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl at work and I'm 100% sure she likes me. I'm too shy to talk to her, but I do know a way to find out her last name. Would it be stalkerish if I found her on myspace and messaged her or would it be a welcome message for her? I know she likes me, I just don't know if doing that would turn her off. Oh also I only have a few more days until this summer job is over and then I may never see her again. Would like girls answers to this.

2007-08-08 08:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by thapharoah7 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents don't get along and I don't remember the last time they did.
They're always fighting and I'm always stuck in the middle.
They somehow back stab each other using me (eg: dad asks me to book him a flight somewhere, mom has the credit card and won't give it up but tells me to tell dad that there is no money...etc..many examples from both sides).
I'm sick of it but can't really confront them. I want them to divorce but they have been living like this for over 10 years.
I'm trying to move out.

2007-08-08 08:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jmyooooh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I like is in 9th grade and is turning 15 in November.I turned 13 this year and am in 8th.would be okay to date..If I ever get that far..T_T

2007-08-08 08:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by chisechan82 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems so absurd! One or both is bound to get hurt...is that better than being alone??

2007-08-08 08:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by K Girl 6 in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone that liked you and you liked, but now you are married and have a baby.......
The guy is a little famous in my community.....a singer......so How do get over him?

2007-08-08 08:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dads girlfriend is so mean to me and my friends and my moms boyfriend hits me and threatens to kill and abuse me. What Should I Do Please Help Me Before It Is Too Late!!!

2007-08-08 08:15:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had an young exchange student who was a classical pianist, many years ago. At that time her address was on Roosevelt Rd. I saw her name in the Taipei Times ( the June 2006 issue) mentioning her as performing the piano. Her name is Li-chun Wang. I would love to contact her again- can anyone help? Email, street address, even phone number? I would really appreciate it. Thank you in advance.

2007-08-08 08:05:08 · 2 answers · asked by rexcat 2 in Friends

2007-08-08 08:01:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kay, well there are these 2 girls which are pretty good friends and ive both met like 5 times. one of them says she likes me but isnt to enthused about it, the other is always like <3 i love you etc. and i say it back, but the other one is getting jealous, what should i do? and im more likeing the one that is more loving but i unno what to do i still like the other one? H E L P

2007-08-08 08:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question for the wives.

On a scale of 1-5 (one being the worst, five being the best) how would you currently rate your sex life??

I've been married for six years, and I'm in my mid-thirties. In the beginning, I would have given my sex life a "4" (it was very good, but not great - honestly, i've only had sex with 1 guy in my life where the sex was truly GREAT!!,but still, my husband was very good). But now, it's probably dropped down to a "3", and sometimes a "2".

Anyway, how would you rate your sex life with your husband(1-5)??
If it isn't a "5" what could he do to make it better?? Best answer goes to the one who shares the most info about why they chose the number they did.

2007-08-08 07:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its my father his name is Orlando Charriez .............plz help

2007-08-08 07:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by ladii koof lgi 1 in Family

don't get me wrong, this is not my opinion. I was talking with this just married couple about a married guy that made an offer to me (while his wife just had their 1st baby, no less). and then the husband of my friend said to me 'oh, if he made it clear, it's just sex, he's honest, and it's ok'. Huh?
It's 'ok'? So, i suppose if it was the other way around, and his wife was 'casually' having sex that's 'ok' because she's 'honest' that 'it's just sex'. Are we talking double standards here? Or am I too uptight?
Honest to me is 'I just married you, I want you for my sex partner' or 'I married you but the thing is dead and I want casual sex to keep me going, so to be honest , let's split, because it's not working'. what do you say?

2007-08-08 07:53:30 · 20 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Select one of these wonderful destinations in the homeland:

Biltmore Estate in North Carolina
Disney World
Hawaii
Las Vegas

Why?

2007-08-08 07:50:30 · 25 answers · asked by Thursday 1 in Weddings

My wife and I are currently looking to get divorced. We are civil, but not really speaking.

We have agreed to get a mediator to divide assets rather than have attorneys involved on both sides.

Does it really matter who serves who with the divorce papers? Will it impact anything if I wait to be served, or should I proactive in serving her?

2007-08-08 07:47:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i used to work with her. a couple times a week she comes to my apartment early before work and we have crazy sex. no one knows about this. if you met her, you would never guess she does this. she says she is happily married and her family seems like the perfect family. she says she just needs more.
my question is, how common are women like this that maintain a perfect outside persona to the world and have this other side where they spend a few mornings a week b a n g i n g the living you know what out of a guy 10 years younger than her that no one knows about?
how common is this?

2007-08-08 07:43:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce