Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

my friends came down to tell me today that they saw my ex with his new girlfriend. i told them it didn bother me but i realised i was upset when i got back in this evening from work and started hoovering (i'm not a fan of the hoover). i guessed he was seeing someone else when we broke up but i had no proof. i don't even want him but it hurts that hes with someone who isn't even all that. not saying i'm the hottest thing but i'm pretty hot (lol) and b4 u even go there i have a pleasant personality. i'm over him but why do i still feel a bit bruised?

2007-08-08 09:41:22 · 20 answers · asked by snowflakes 4 in Singles & Dating

my wife wants to swing with a guy i work with.
i'm willing to try swinging with her but i'd rather it be with someone we don't know, what should i do?
i have asked him and he likes the idea too so i know he will

2007-08-08 09:39:00 · 25 answers · asked by texas some somthin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most guy said I should be attracted to girls with blue eyes and blonde hair and I am, but something about red hair and green eyes just get to me and they said it was wierd. I also love freckles too and that is a big plus for me but they said that those where turn offs and I have bad taste in white women and women in general (Thus my last two questions)

Am I really THAT wierd/rare whatever?

2007-08-08 09:38:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u look 4 in a girl ? there r not a lot of GOOD guys at my school n i already know what they think . so i was wonderin bout yall . b/t/w , my schools not bad , just reall redneck !!

2007-08-08 09:35:42 · 19 answers · asked by Nanner*Bell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 09:35:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We were instantly attracted to each other's personality, and have huge fun whenever we get together. The problem is that he has a full head of pemature gray hair, and it's a turn off for me. I can't even let him kiss me because I hate his hair sooo much. He wore his head bald once, and it looked sooo sexy, but he says he won't bald it again and actually likes his gray hair. What can I do? I don't want to date someone who looks older than my dad; he doesn't want to change his hair for me; we REALLY like being together; but there's no hugging or kissing because the hair totally turns me off! Any suggestions on what to do? I REALLY like this guy otherwise, but I want to be able to be intimate too. Help!!!

2007-08-08 09:34:04 · 27 answers · asked by Foxy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be a senior this year and have never had a boyfriend...ONLY crushes. I have never been kissed and only have been on one date....and that was for prom. I am kinda a shy person but I thought that I would have a bf by now. All of the guys I like are preppy and popular and I am neither of that. Did anyone else not date much in high school but later on found some one?? I want to grow up and get married but based on high school...I will probably be an old maid. And I highly doubt I will get a bf my senior year. Someone....can you please give me advice? Thanks!

I am also very shy when it comes to expressing my feelings about hott guys around my parents. I have NEVER told my parents that I thought some guy was cute. I have told them that I don't feel comfortable talking to them about guys but I am interested in guys and I do have crushes at school. Do u think my parents will start to think that I am a lesbian even though I am not??

2007-08-08 09:33:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you saw a relatively attractive girl in a corset shirt? lol
I'm contemplating buying one. :D

2007-08-08 09:32:18 · 18 answers · asked by janedoe1 3 in Singles & Dating

How do i get my ex back?
We broke up because somoene told her im gay and she believed it .How do i get her back?

Additional Details


Her best friend[ which hates me because she has a crush on me]told her im gay and she believed her .How do i get her back,i would die for her.

2007-08-08 09:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by Alx 1 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for a serious relationship with someone and my boyfriend is awsome to me but is lacking on the seriouss part. should i end it or what?

2007-08-08 09:28:26 · 14 answers · asked by Molly M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 09:28:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married 17 years and honestly I am getting really bored. I posted a question a few days ago about how I was fantasizing about having a "big" man, like in the adult movies.

Well, I've been thinking about this and I wonder if I should propose a three way with my husband and another guy. He is a pretty cool guy, and I think he might be ok with this. I'm sure he would be better with this than with me doing somethign with a stranger one on one.

I know that if he agreed he would want to do one with another woman in return. I'm ok with that. like I said I'm bored! Even though the idea of being with a woman does nothign for me.

So, girls, seriously, have you actually done this? In my mind, it seems like it would be really fun, but I'm worried it will be a let down. If youve done it what was it like?

2007-08-08 09:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

bring your child, is that grounds for her to ask you were you and her relationship is going if that has not been established.

2007-08-08 09:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A lot of the time at wedding receptions, the whole reason for getting everyone together is overlooked! I want my wedding guests to know how my fiance and I met, and the story of our love! I'm trying to think of a unique way to tell everyone! I'm not into making speeches, but I was thinking of maybe typing up a cute story on stationary and leaving one at each place setting? I don't know! Does anyone else have any unique ideas to help our guests get to know us and our story a little better?! Thanks!!

2007-08-08 09:24:55 · 18 answers · asked by truelovernr1122 3 in Weddings

2007-08-08 09:23:43 · 37 answers · asked by wendywoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys insist on controlling me? It seems like every relationship I get in the "boyfriend" gets crazy and makes me feel like a cant have a life outside of them.

2007-08-08 09:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he really likes to decorate my room. (rearrange things) and he likes to pick out my outfits and shop with me. he also likes hannah montana? whats wrong with him?

2007-08-08 09:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by jessjess 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy I met at camp and I like him alot!The problem is that he lives 4 hours away!Should I look for another boy or keep on trying with him?

2007-08-08 09:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by A writer waiting 2 in Singles & Dating

Early in life there are Little Girls.
And there are Little Boys

Later on the Little Girls grow UP
And the Little Boys grow BIGGER

You now know everything that you need to know about Men.
Men,of course,have never learned to know any thing about Women.
Does anyone agree with me?

Just watch your Boss, or your Boyfriend and imagine all his actions as those of a little boy.
You won't go far wrong!!

2007-08-08 09:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can people be truly happy after they have been married for a long time? Does marriage really work nowadays?

2007-08-08 09:18:37 · 28 answers · asked by yomera 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well my friends are all going off to college this year. And I was out sick for a few years, so I decided to do an extra year at a prep school. And they're all saying I'm stupid for doing that and I should have just gotten a ged. And they never congratulated me on getting into a school or anything.. they make me feel like I dumb for not going to college this year. Am I just being to sensitive? Because I mean they're not saying it in a mean way, just sort of backhanded like.. we'll have to go hang out before I go to COLLEGE.

2007-08-08 09:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-08 09:17:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 09:14:16 · 12 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 09:13:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 09:13:06 · 43 answers · asked by jml2531 3 in Singles & Dating

I really love him and i cant be just friends with him because its not fair to me and it hurts too much so i quit texting/calling im trying to get over him. i feel like there's is a block between us.

2007-08-08 09:12:29 · 5 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to chang me i just want to know what kind of girl u guy like.

2007-08-08 09:12:17 · 5 answers · asked by i love black 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is extremely ticklish. His worst part is precisely the two "male"parts. Everytime I "play" with them he explodes in laughter uncontollably. I'm his first time so I don't know if this is normal for male newcomers. i want to satisfy him; not torture him. He begs me not to "play" with my mouth because he can't take it at all. If he feels my mouth close to "them" he starts to laugh like a maniac.
Is that area really that sensitive for the guys?

2007-08-08 09:10:01 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica L 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my closest male friend told me that he the way he felt about me had changed, and basically declared his undying love for me. I reacted awfully - I've never seen him as anything other than a great mate - and I kind of just pushed it aside and pretended everything was the same as before, which I know I shouldn't have done.

My friends think I'm mad for wanting to turn him down, because he's such a lovely guy, but the fact is that he's just too immature, however sweet he his, and I can't see him as anything more than a friend, especially when there are other guys I'm interested in.

How do I let him know that I don't feel the same way, without hurting his feelings? And will he still be a friend? Or will he want to distance himself from me?

I don't want to lose him!

Thanks for your help :)

2007-08-08 09:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who is prettier out of this pic

btw i aint either of them they are my best friends and every one says that one of them is prettiest but i think the other one is prettiest what do you think just say the one nearest the camera or the one futhest away

ty in advance
http://pic4.piczo.com/confused-93/?g=43849292&cr=4

2007-08-08 09:08:06 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating