i am looking for a serious relationship with someone and my boyfriend is awsome to me but is lacking on the seriouss part. should i end it or what?
2007-08-08 09:28:26 · 14 answers · asked by Molly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel.
if he doesnt agree
then there's no point in
wasting time on something
you're not completely happy with
2007-08-08 09:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleyfoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is lacking on the serious part because he doesn't know how you feel. Most men, myself included, feel that relationships are on a casual level until you have "that talk" as a couple.
Try sitting down with him and discussing your future as a couple before deciding if you want to break it off. If he would like to be a little more serious, then awesome. If not, well then you know where you stand. Good Luck!
2007-08-08 16:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Paladinic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is enough reason to just end a relationship. Number one thing is communication, let him know what you are feeling and let him know you are at that next level in your life where you want to have that special long lasting relationship and you just happen to want to spend it with him, tell him what he thinks, maybe he is not ready yet, and if you really want to get into a serious relationship and you cant wait then I guess you move on.
2007-08-08 16:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by spring 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are looking for different things then it may be in your best interest to go your separate ways. I would talk to him about it first. Maybe he wants the same thing but doesn't know how to tell you. Do you like him enough to be casual if that's all he's looking for? Be a little selfish in this because you shouldn't sacrifice your happiness for someone else's preference. Good luck!
2007-08-08 16:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by luckygurl284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your boyfriend is Mr. Right, then don't end it. Just be patient and wait for him to be ready. Sometimes it takes guys longer to be ready to commit. They see commitment as a lot more responsibility. If you and your boyfriend get married: he as the husband is responsible to provide for you and whatever kids you have. Is he financially ready to support you? Is he to a point where he is responsible enough to be a Dad? Is he ready to give up his indepedance for married life? Are you in love so much to wait for your boyfriend to be ready or do you just want commitment? If you would give up a great relationship because you are not patient enough to wait for him to be ready, then I would say maybe you should re-think what is really important in life.
2007-08-08 16:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This totally depends on how quickly you want this "serious" relationship. Does your boyfriend even know what you mean when you say "SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP" ? (Monogamous? Engagement? Marriage? Children??) And if he's unable to fulfill those needs with you - then you need to find someone else.
2007-08-08 16:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Eric C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are..
I'd say you're not old enough to worry about it yet.
If you're older than 25 and the clock is ticking, then you need to discuss the clock with boyfriend.
2007-08-08 16:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been dating. if it has only been a few months then keep on trying it. but if it has been over a year and he still isnt serious then I would break up with them
2007-08-08 16:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to u.....may be some day he will want a serious relationship but i guess right now its not the time for him to look for one...
2007-08-08 16:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it and find sum body more serious to be with
2007-08-08 16:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Karon C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋