my friends came down to tell me today that they saw my ex with his new girlfriend. i told them it didn bother me but i realised i was upset when i got back in this evening from work and started hoovering (i'm not a fan of the hoover). i guessed he was seeing someone else when we broke up but i had no proof. i don't even want him but it hurts that hes with someone who isn't even all that. not saying i'm the hottest thing but i'm pretty hot (lol) and b4 u even go there i have a pleasant personality. i'm over him but why do i still feel a bit bruised?
2007-08-08 09:41:22 · 20 answers · asked by snowflakes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for permissive_ society. huh? i don't understand ur answer and i am not full of it but hey feel free to hate
2007-08-08 10:01:41 · update #1
i think you are still into him
2007-08-08 09:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think those feelings are pretty natural. Just because you no longer like someone doesn't necessarily mean you are no longer in love with that person. Give yourself a break! After time those feelings will start to fade. I promise! In addition, what an ego boost he could have at least upgraded a bit haha! (Had to throw some real chick backing in there for you!) And remember, when YOU are ready and the right man comes along YOU will upgrade. That's your solace ;) GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-08 09:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called life hunni and thats how our hearts were made. Thats why Gods original idea of one partner each for life was such a good one- and how wonderful if we could have all stuck to it- there would so much more happiness in the world if all relationships worked out. Love does hurt and we have to learn to cope with it. I will send you some love, light and peace then you can give the poor old hoover a rest.
2007-08-08 09:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this. I still remember the time I went into the supermarket and saw my ex with his new girlfriend. It felt like a knife through the heart. She was fat and ugly to be honest, and that made it even worse for me. I frequently see them around town. Time is a great healer - it honestly is. You'll meet someone else and soon forget about him. That maybe sounds hard to believe, but in time you'll realise that i'm right. Good luck x
2007-08-08 09:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if you still wanted him you wouldn't have broken up so it's not that! - it's because when we break up with people they are still remembered as having been a part of our lives and you are probably still thinking of times when ye were together - him being with another girl possibly makes you feel a little worthless - that it makes the relationship you guys had less important and you ask yourself lots of questions about her - "is she better than me, sexier, prettier, funnier etc... why her, not me.....". It's not that you want him, it's that you want confirmation that you're great... well you are great, but you and he weren't great together.... let her have him - your man - who is better, more handsome and more perfect for you will come along and this ex will be nothing but a distant memory... Trust me!
2007-08-08 10:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by ainealainn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always feels bad when you find out that someone you cared about has not been honest with you, and might indeed have been cheating on you.
You're over him, he's got someone else, time for you to get out there ... enjoy the looking for now, anyway!
2007-08-08 09:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel like that for years. Maybe find someone take have to take your mind off him. I was with my ex for two years and even after we broke up 3 years later i seen him with a chick and it was like my stomach dropped. I dont want to be with him . I broke up with him. thats just the way it is chicka
2007-08-08 09:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by pualla walla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have u been going out with this guy? the longer you have, the longer it will take for you to get on with life. theres always other guys out there, better guys! and always remember that you deserve the best! sometimes i see MY ex with one of my best friends.whenever my friend brings out his fone for a text, i always think its my ex talking to him. everything takes time. just dont think about it! ignore the fact that your ex has a new gf! yeah its hard, its tough etc. but face reality =D theres always more! stick by your friends, they are the most important next to your family!
2007-08-08 11:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel -L- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it you still like him and you know it so STOP YOUR HOOVERING AND SPEAK UP. He'll never know what is going on if you don't say anything
2007-08-08 09:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tia J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya girl. you are used to recieving his attention which let you know that you are hot and now that he is giving that attention to someone else, you are jealous because you arent getting it anymore.
it will take time for you to get over him but once you find a new person who gives you that same attention, you will forget all about whats his name.
2007-08-08 09:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a girl thing...because it is still too soon after the break-up. Because he is still your territory. The feeling will go away and you will adjust.
2007-08-08 09:47:08 · answer #11 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋