There is this boy I met at camp and I like him alot!The problem is that he lives 4 hours away!Should I look for another boy or keep on trying with him?
2007-08-08 09:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by A writer waiting 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really like him distance doesn't matter and it shouldn't bother u. when I like something nothing matters, no matter what it costs my only target is get the thing that I like. so i don't know if ur desperate for him, bcoz love is very important in life! or if u r afraid that long distance relationship ain't gonna work then please don't waste ur time, look for someone else. hope this helps, good luck
2007-08-08 09:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lets look forward abit- say you get together with this guy. Everything is going well and you one day really want to see him, you have this urge to suprise him....are you going to jump in the car/grab a lift, to find he is not there and you have to come home again. suprises are out the question.
If you really again get the urge to see him and you phone and his in, and he wants to see you... are you going to want to take a journey for 4 hours.would he want to take that journey.??
some might say that the more your apart the longer lasting it is as your not together so much. i had a long distance and it did not work. It was not being able to just pop round that became a problem. But then we did not have msn and email then either.
after months of being girlfriend and boyfriend it is heart breaking to split up because of distance. The longer it goes on the worse it is. Do what your heart is telling you. good luck.
2007-08-08 16:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you keep trying only if you feel a long distance relationship will work out for the both of you...and if you both know you can handle it. But there should be some kind of time you two do have to see each other...or else it will be very hard to maintain.
2007-08-08 16:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by BLI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another boy, cause your mom&pop will not drive you 4 hours to see him.
2007-08-08 16:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem, i think u should just look 4 someone else!!! instead just be his friend!!! thats all that could happen anyway!! long distance relationships dont work!
2007-08-08 16:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jaquah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for another boy because long distance relationships are really hard........you dont get to see eachother enough......you can still talk to him and stuff but just keep yours eyes open for other options =) good luck
2007-08-08 16:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by jean jacket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is that long distance relationships are super hard to have. maybe you should keep him a friend to write to and maybe meet up with when you are down. find someone close. totally up to you.
2007-08-08 16:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by grunt's wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katy, find a local ! Long distance is not a good thing.
2007-08-08 16:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another guy unless you can drive and can endure the drive.
2007-08-08 16:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Star Eater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say look for another boy.
i doubt yalls parents will be willing to drive all that way, especially wiht gas prices so high.
srry.
2007-08-08 16:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋