I have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend. I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged to since I helped him get the ring for her. He only gets to go back there once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comin on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. I apologized to him but then he started ignoring me. He said I should focus on someone else and it's best that we no longer be friends since I was too weird.Yesterday, I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend, just a coworker. he told me not to email him or talk 2 him unless work relatd. thing is i can't let go.
2007-08-08 06:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he told you to let go and if you don't he could claim harassment. Well maybe not but the point is you need to respect his wishes. If the rolls were reversed he would be worse than a dog for continuing to talk to you after you told him not to.
2007-08-08 06:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work is no place for romance and if you sent him the e-mail to his job regarding sex talk then SEXUAL HARASSMENT ever heard of it? BEWARE. If the guy took you with him to help him pick out a ring for his fiance then he obviously felt close to you as a friend and trusted your opinion, you both crossed the line end of friendship! Is it possible that you took his gestures as flirting because you wanted to?
2007-08-08 06:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was that good of a friend he would never do this. I think he would respect you and be able to talk about it. If this is the way he wants to be. How sad for him!
2007-08-08 06:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...he is the one being weird, it seems to me that he is falling for you and is getting scared because he has a girlfriend. I think you should just let him know that you only think of him as a friend
2007-08-08 06:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, he's experiencing what's generally known as "denial"!
2007-08-08 07:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋