Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

Do you all think it's right if my husband let's me go with his friend to the beer store? The other day my husband had some buddies over after work. They were drinking so was i, but my husband ran out of beer but he didn't feel like driving to the store. So he told me to let his friend go for us. I told my husband i don't trust anyone with my car; but my husband kept insisting i finally said then if you don't want to go with him i will. And he said just hurry and come back. Now i feel that my husband don't love me that much to let me go with his buddy. Shouldn't he have been more protected of me to say it's late you don't need to be out there with a guy. He let me go! I feel so not special and not important. I feel if a guy truly loves his woman he will not let this happen. Am i over exaggerating or what?

2007-08-08 05:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by Rain 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not in the mood to go to volleyball practice and my mom will make me even if i dont want to... i need a really good excuse?? PLEASE!!!

2007-08-08 05:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by =] 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 05:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you happy for me?

2007-08-08 05:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's shy, timid. She acts self-conscious, and does not express herself very well...in other words, socially awkward.

First time I met her at a party she had just stood up some other guy. When I left, not expecting anything she started crying. She then found my phone number and latched on, convincing me to try a long distance "relationship."

A few months later she basically changed her personality towards me and acted like a ***** for no good reason, telling me she's now with someone else. She kinda warned me about this before because she said she broke up with her first real BF of 2 yrs for no real reason and didn't want to hurt me...but did so anyways.

She also has a poor relationship with her father (barely any communication)

Now, at first when she hurt me (yeah, she used to be sweet and nice...no more) I was feeling like it was my fault and I started to feel insecure myself...but now I'm starting to think that I tried my best and it was mainly her who doomed it. (i'm inexp)

2007-08-08 05:20:38 · 9 answers · asked by etudiant87 1 in Singles & Dating

indimidating ? like teen girls who are tall and very thin. are you a lover or hater? and y?

2007-08-08 05:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by cute_babe 1 in Singles & Dating

Bf released from prison 8 years ago. Moved in with ex in another city about 6 months after release. Says that it was because parole officer kept threatening to send him back to prison and he wanted a new one. That was the only way. We have been together entire time before and after prison, and throughout him living with ex. We have a 4 yr.old daughter. Still fight over the fact that he moved in w/ her and not me. He continues to say "its not what it seems" and that I should believe in him if I love him. Yet, our relationship has plummetted since I have been mentally abusive towards him for 1. still living w/ex 2. flaunting ex with family as his wife and disrespecting me 3. filing for child support My contribution has been I have 1. been uhfaithful 2 times since his release from prison. 2. cronic complain 3. don't clean house 4. have no motivation to do anything but waller in self pity He claims I have no valid reason.Our demise is because of me. What are your thoughts?

2007-08-08 05:18:11 · 20 answers · asked by Windy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm realizing my husband is watching porn. I'm sure he always has but I'm noticing it more now that I'm 7 months pregnant. I know positions are limited but we have sex everyday and if we are at home during the day sometimes more. We're 28 and have been together for 12 years so we're not old. Yes, I offered to watch with him but he won't! He gets irritated when I talk about porm which makes me afraid this means he wants sex with other people. I feel inadequate. I wonder if he is bored with me? What the hell is going to happen after I have the baby and have to heal for 6 weeks. I hate to think about it!

2007-08-08 05:12:08 · 53 answers · asked by Meichelle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i like the guy but dont like it when he drools down my blouse

2007-08-08 05:08:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although my mother in law and my brother in law have always been very loving with my daughters, since my sister in law, who used to live abroad, is back in town they have started to leave my daughters aside. They tell us how they invite our nieces out and take them to special places without inviting our girls. At fist I didn’t mind and thought it was just because they had recently arrived, but this situation has continued for more than six months. Now I find it rude and hurtful when we always invite everyone when doing something special and have all of them in our house very, very frequently. I am really upset with this and my husband says I am overreacting; am I?

2007-08-08 05:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pepa2000 1 in Family

2007-08-08 05:06:09 · 7 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 05:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by mingosaysss 2 in Singles & Dating

im currently single and finding it hard to meet new people
im 20 im a rugby player im a mortgage broker i drive a nice benz and ride a sexy bike but it doesnt seem to be drawin in the ladies any help or maybe offers

2007-08-08 05:04:09 · 18 answers · asked by hudson07623 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend but sometimes i think the only reason i stay with him is so another girl doesnt come along and take him from under my feet, the thing is he is very overprotective, i mean when we talk on the phone..he asks where are you, who are you with, where are you going, is anyone else gonna show up, any guys there, and sometimes it makes me feel as if he doesnt trust me, and he always has to make a point to tell me not to do anything stupid...and him not trusting me is making me rethink the whole love thing, so what should i do?

2007-08-08 05:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting so nervous. i backed out last night. i know he wont pressure me or make me do anything i don't want. he's a really good guy. but i always back out, with every guy i've came closer to doing anything sexually with. how can i get over this?

2007-08-08 05:01:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has now been gone for almost nine months. He was extended from 4 months to an "undertimined" amount of time. He reacently got to to come home for mid tour leave and it was wonderful. But now he and i both are going through this REALLY bad horriable depression. I have little sleep and horrid nightmares when i do. I am physically ill because he is gone and the FRG is of no help at all. They hate me. I am oppionated and that just isnt Army correct. I am supposed to be silent and not care. But I cant do that.
I hurt beyond belief and everyone just keeps telling me that i will settle into this. But what is their to settle into?
I'm seeing a therapist and i have for years but..... no meds i have ever been on ever have helped and no amount of talking helps either. I try all kinds of crafts and things. But nothing gets my mind off of the pain. He went to his CO and he told him that " all women are crazy" and then accused him of violating opsec. He didnt by the way. HELP!

2007-08-08 05:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs. Helton 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well this weekend, my husband has been working side jobs and he had some girl in his truck and out of all people it was my mom, and sisters they seen them sitting in the truck together.. anyways he jumped out as soon as he seen my family and he acted like he was doing something else. He never once acknowledged my family he ignored them like they were strangers to him.. well later that weekend he would not answer his phone for nothing and then he finally answered the house phone and he was out of breath. I asked him what he was doing and he said that he was sleeping, I did not believe him, he kept asking how long it would take to get home, and he has never done that. Then the next day he tried to tell me that he wasn't sleeping he was hooking something else up. so I don't know what to believe. His answers just do not add up. Never in a million years did I think that he would ever cheat on me.. I just can not look at him the same. I have 2 kids 17months and a 5 month old.. ANY IDEAS?

2007-08-08 04:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well this is really getting to me. One of my better friends swears he doesnt like my gf. i trust my gf 100%, but my friend, idk.

you see here is some of the stuff he has said.
'Bailey I swear i dont like ur gf, if i do i give u permission to kick me in the nads.'
ok now thats a little convincing
but then he also says stuff like this (actual quotes from AIM convo)

him: i should just stick to the ppl i originally liked
him: lol
me: lol
him: sry bailey
me: for wat
him: (ur gf) was one of the original ppl i liked
him: lol
me: lol
him: this sucks now tho
him: both the original ppl r taken

ok? weird much?
and then while i was on vacation ppl (who i dont really trust) said that at the carnival they were holding hands

so i mean idk wat to think anymore. i think he still likes her.
and the worst part is, it kinda seems sometimes like she likes him too
wat should i do? talk to him? talk to my gf? HELP!!

2007-08-08 04:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by random bailey 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 04:58:28 · 12 answers · asked by Ayo A 1 in Friends

I know a lot of girls want their guy to shave his back. I am not married. If I did get married, how likely would it be that my wife would help me keep that area hair-free? I tried it on my own and that is a tough area to apply Nair or even use the trimmers!!!!!!

2007-08-08 04:57:47 · 35 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 04:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family

We have problems. We have been married almost 4 years. She has been distant and depressed for the last two. She hasn’t been the same since the birth of my wonderful daughter. She is having what I believe is an emotional affair with her ex-husband. I used some spy ware on our home computer to see what all it is that she does on there. I was shocked. I am a very open and honest person so I couldn’t keep what I did from her and sleep at night. She had some bad content on there about me and us and she was sending it to her ex and his sisters, heck, even to one of the neighbors. A lot of she had never even told me about before. She has become very secretive about everything so is what I did wrong? I came clean with her after seeing with my on two eyes and she was defiantly lying to me all along when I asked here what all the fuss was with myspace. This all happen like 6 months ago but it is still a major divide between us.

2007-08-08 04:55:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This friend is a man, aged 34, divorced, he is a white american and I am a black african aged 30 and single. And we have been together in the office for six months

2007-08-08 04:55:04 · 3 answers · asked by kamoza 1 in Friends

My wife is doing strange things. I let her ex girlfriend move in with us for about a year and then I had to force her to move out Aug. 1. Now my wife wants to work where she works, she went to get her hair done at her house today by her exs mom and she has an excuse to be with her everyday. She is telling me they are just best friends but I just can not believe that. I have a trusting problem b/c of our past. I offered to get her hair done but she said no, I do not want her to work b/c she is ill and the dr. even told her not to. When her ex was living there she would stay up late all the time and now she comes to bed when I do. We fight a lot b/c I tell her all this and she tells me if you can not trust me you need to leave me. Please someone help me.

2007-08-08 04:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by luckyarborlane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs now. We always did not get along, but always managed to make it work. Recently we had a very large argument which caused me to re-think our relationship and come to the idea of finally leaving him. During this period, I meet this person on a marriage service. We have clicked and share the same morals, values and ideas. He is currently divorced and is looking to marry someone and I decided to just separate from my husband physically and emotionally. This significant other and I are planning on meeting in Miami, my hometown to see if what we have between one another is real. If it is, I believe I have enough courage to leave my current husband. I have never cheated on him during our marriage, and I truly feel because of our relationship I was driven to this point.

IS IT WRONG OF ME TO LEAVE HIM FOR THIS OTHER PERSON IF I DO FIND UNDERSTANDING AND LOVE?

2007-08-08 04:52:56 · 15 answers · asked by Miami_Babe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister called off for me and told my boss she thinks i went to the hospital but i didnt go to the hospital and they will want documentation what should i do?

2007-08-08 04:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sometimes I feel bad about it. Last year I had two ( both in the 8 grade , I was in 7th grade ) And they didn't know about it.
Is that okay? or should I try to work with something else? Boys can be soooo rude sometimes and cheat on their Girlfreinds. so thats why I have more than one...just incase one acts up. Also sometimes I do it to be cool , and because 2 ( or more ) Is better than 1. Lol , I know I wrong for this but..can i get some help? I mean look. My User Name is Gemini Pimpette. I need some help.

2007-08-08 04:50:53 · 20 answers · asked by GeminiPimpette 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 04:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she had an affair at 45 with a 25 yr. old friend of you brothers hwo worked for your father. this man smokes pot and she claimed to have left you father b/c he drank too much - even though you never sae that growing up. she convinced you to blame you father and moved you in at high school with this man. she never claims to be in a relationship-just business partners that live together. She used to be religious then had ana ffair stopped attending church and got breast implants. can you respect her?

2007-08-08 04:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family

My name is Aidan, and I'm a 24 year old guy. I come from a partially Scottish-American family, so, Aidan being a classic Scottish name, that is what my parents decided to name me.

I have always had trouble with my name. For as long as I can remember, people have been spelling my name wrong (Aiden, Aden, Ayden, Adin...). You'd be surprised how many different ways people have managed to spell my name.

Recently, it's gotten MUCH worse. Since, for the past five years or so, parents have been naming their kids variations of Aidan, I've been getting more and more trouble with my name. The misspellings have got even more frequent and outlandish (A co-worker wrote 'Aediyn' on a note directed to me last week).

Let me get to the point here: I am fed up with my name. I want to be called Dan, an abbreviation of my name, but I don't want to upset my proud family. Does anyone have any advice to help me break the news to them?

2007-08-08 04:49:16 · 28 answers · asked by Aidan L. 2 in Family