Does my friend still like my gf? Riddle me this?

Question

Ok well this is really getting to me. One of my better friends swears he doesnt like my gf. i trust my gf 100%, but my friend, idk.

you see here is some of the stuff he has said.
'Bailey I swear i dont like ur gf, if i do i give u permission to kick me in the nads.'
ok now thats a little convincing
but then he also says stuff like this (actual quotes from AIM convo)

him: i should just stick to the ppl i originally liked
him: lol
me: lol
him: sry bailey
me: for wat
him: (ur gf) was one of the original ppl i liked
him: lol
me: lol
him: this sucks now tho
him: both the original ppl r taken

ok? weird much?
and then while i was on vacation ppl (who i dont really trust) said that at the carnival they were holding hands

so i mean idk wat to think anymore. i think he still likes her.
and the worst part is, it kinda seems sometimes like she likes him too
wat should i do? talk to him? talk to my gf? HELP!!

Answer 1

First- Im sorry to hear.

Second- you have his permission to kick him in the junk.

Third- I think he still likes her. Im sure at times your g/f thinks she may be better off with him- but that is stricktly because it would be something different.

Worst case scenario- she goes out with him for a while, he blows her trust on something lame, she comes crying back to you, and is very sorry for leaving you in the first place.

But-- lets hope that doesnt happen.

I would definately talk to your g/f about this. otherwise, if you are like me (when this happened to me) you will just blow up on her and run her off. (at least, thats what i did. I dont recemmend that route.)

Best of luck, buddy.

Answer 2

talk to both of them. see points of view and follow your heart and see what it is telling you!

Answer 3

i think u should confront them