Family & Relationships - 8 August 2007

my STB Ex-Husb. & I have been separated for 3 months. he moved to another state to be with his gf whom is now pregnant. he comes here to visit his daughter every other weekend. a month ago, he called me talking about how much i still turn him on. we ended up sleeping together. AFTERWARDS, he literally cried to me telling me how much he regrets ruining his life, how much he regrets ever hurting me, how much he still loves me & misses me & thinks about me constantly. since then he's confided in me about everything ... including all the fights he & his gf get into, how controlling she is of him (& how controlling he is of her). he treats her 150% different (control-wise) than he EVER did me. he talks about how he is confused as to which of us he wants to be with. i think he believes he's stuck with her b/c she's pregnant. but it may not be his, he knows that & will get a paternity test. do you think he's trying to hint to me that he wants to come back?

2007-08-08 03:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for 7 months now. Everything is absolutly perfect. We get along great and have never gotten into a fight or even an arguement. He keeps making jokes about Ring Shopping (for a promise ring), and about how jewelry stores lie to you when they say their real diamonds because he knows I love diamonds but what girl doesn't. But my birthday is coming up shorty and that is really the only thing that I want from him. How do I let him know without specifically saying it?

2007-08-08 03:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i leave the house and go on my own, or stay to work things out?

2007-08-08 03:18:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my fiancee have been together for more than 7 years,but i ask him to wait till we are married.i knew it is hard for him to wait..and he respect my decision.so for this last 7 years,yes we never had sex.but some of my friends tellin me that its not a good idea to let your 7 years man to wait till that long.so,guys if you are my fiancee will you wait?or should i give my virginty for him on his bday next week?

2007-08-08 03:17:24 · 32 answers · asked by msdigitalism 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf Tyler (Ty) plays football. One day, I went to one of his games and not as a cheerleader which I am. He got knocked over hard and was torn up at his ancle. He wanted to play but I held him down. He was 2 hurt... I told the coach to make him sit. After a LONG fight he sat. I sat beside him. Being told what to do when he doesn't want to do it makes him mad. He got so mad that on the way home he crashed. I was sitting in the passenger seat and screamed when he crashed into a wall. I had put my hands up and was OK but the car was crushed. I looked over at Ty and saw him slumped in the seat out cold. I screaned his name over & over. He didn't wake up even when I shook him. I was hugged andmobed by friends and family as I was taken out of the car and checked out OK. Ty was in a coma. The paremedics wouldn't let me ride with him but I insisted. He's still in a coma and it's a week later. It's all my fault isn't it? I haven't ate slept or anything in a week and I've been by his side.

2007-08-08 03:17:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After some time, my parents remodeled the apartment until it became a three bedroom home. I was working but as a single mom with 2 kids I could only contribute so much money into the project but I worked every night and weekend with the remodeling. I paid all utilities, etc. It was told to me from the start that when they died, the house would go to me and my kids but I would not get anything else in the will. I have done all upkeep on the house through the years. Now my dad is telling me what I can and can not do here plus what he wants redone (including ceilings and floors). I have been told that there can be no pets and he tells me who can or can't visit. They are also wanting me to buy this house from them now to pay off a loan they co-signed for. If I talk about moving, they threaten to take me to court to get my son. They claim that since they buy things for him they raised him. How do I leave and still keep a relationship with them? I love them but they are controlling.

2007-08-08 03:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2 in Family

2007-08-08 03:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning our wedding for next spring. Our families are completely different. He comes from a very big Irish, Catholic family, and I come from a small Baptist family. He wants an open bar at our reception, which I am fine with except that my family probably wouldn't come because they don't drink and think that alcohol is a huge sin. so what are we suppose to do?

2007-08-08 03:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Weddings

is it wrong to begin a new relationship while your divorce isnt final..but will be in three months? should u get mad if the man that you want tells you to slow down..and wait..that maybe one day we will pursue a relationship..maybe? should i even get mad ? should i move on to someone else..who knows what he wants..in 1 year or two years? and should i stay with a maybe?

2007-08-08 03:08:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of three and a half years and I own a house have lived together for almost three years and now he drops a bomb shell. We have always said we wanted kids, but not while we were still young. So I have been taking the steps over the years to provide a home and finances for a child to come into our lives. But now that I am ready he says deep down he has wanted to wait because he really does not want to have kids. He would rather spend the money on trips and materialistic stuff. Where as I have always dreamed of being the stay at home wife and have created my business to be out of my home so that I could earn money and be at home for everyone. My question is he is now thinking we may just be to comfortable with each other and are really going separate ways. He is thinking of breaking up with me. Does anyone think that we can get over this and find a common ground or are we kidding ourselves and it was over awhile ago?

2007-08-08 03:07:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well we were holding hands on a swing chair thingy...i was sitting on the left he was sitting on the right
well i was talking to my friend on the left and he was talking to his mom on the right...say that he had to leave my birthday party.....then we both just looked at each other quick and kissed on only for like 3 seconds then he got up and left

is that a good kiss cuz thats the first kiss with that guy
i only kissed 1 other guy on the lips only a lil peck tho lol
idk really how to kiss so i just like put my lips on his lol
he was the one to hold my hand close to the end of my party and he was the one to lean in to kiss

2007-08-08 03:05:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 03:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ladies, I have an extreme desire to please my wife orally, but she is very hesitant about me doing that for her. She is embarrassed by it for some reason. What I tell her over and over again is how much I want to do that for her. It really does turn me on to please her that way, but she doesn't want to relax and enjoy it. Any suggestions? What can I do?

2007-08-08 03:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by salsax 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 02:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-08 02:56:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and he doesn't want to let you leave......does this mean he has feelings for you?

2007-08-08 02:50:12 · 21 answers · asked by howdy folks 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a fight wid my di in afternoon.she is not at home....but i want to talk to her!plzz..tel me how shud i start?????????

2007-08-08 02:49:03 · 23 answers · asked by rubina f 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so tired of trying to defend what I dont believe in to my "christian" husband. I was with him spiritually for a time but I guess I was a bad seed. (ha)
I have all the suggestions I can stand from the christian stand point so....how about something else any advice

2007-08-08 02:47:21 · 12 answers · asked by atak4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 02:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my b/f for almost a year now and we act like we are already married. I mean I'm over at his house every single night. I cook dinner for him and we have a sexual relationship. We talk about it sometimes but he won't ask. Is it me? I give him his space and everything. He's been married a couple of times before, but we have discussed that alot and I've totally told him i'm not like them. I just want to know.

2007-08-08 02:44:15 · 18 answers · asked by nana_14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I'm seeing my bf of 10+ months in 2 weeks, and I haven't seen him in 4 months since he's in another country. He sent me this lovely gift yesterday, but for some reason today I feel as though I'm almost doubting things. Nothing went wrong, and he has been perfect in every aspect of the word. I just don't know why I'm feeling this way...could it be nerves? Is this normal?

2007-08-08 02:43:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 4yrs old, he has a very short temper. if hes playing with other kids its also him that they fall out with and fight with. can anyone tell me what i can do. he also gets on really well with girls but not boys. help

2007-08-08 02:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-08 02:40:00 · 16 answers · asked by aznvegan 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf Tyler (Ty) plays football. One day, I went to one of his games and not as a cheerleader which I am. He got knocked over hard and was torn up at his ancle. He wanted to play but I held him down. He was 2 hurt... I told the coach to make him sit. After a LONG fight he sat. I sat beside him. Being told what to do when he doesn't want to do it makes him mad. He got so mad that on the way home he crashed. I was sitting in the passenger seat and screamed when he crashed into a wall. I had put my hands up and was OK but the car was crushed. I looked over at Ty and saw him slumped in the seat out cold. I screaned his name over & over. He didn't wake up even when I shook him. I was hugged andmobed by friends and family as I was taken out of the car and checked out OK. Ty was in a coma. The paremedics wouldn't let me ride with him but I insisted. He's still in a coma and it's a week later. It's all my fault isn't it? I haven't ate slept or anything in a week and I've been by his side.

2007-08-08 02:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are just appreciating beauty, that's all. It's not cheating, is it? As if, you girls won't do the same when a drop dead gorgeous stud walks by.

2007-08-08 02:37:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and the occasional grope. I am now mad on him, he has a new girlfriend i need advice on how to deal with this situation, i have to see him almost everyday as we live in a village. i know this is wrong but cant stop my feelings there is 15 years between us.

2007-08-08 02:36:17 · 17 answers · asked by flo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-08 02:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-08 02:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by alt 2 in Singles & Dating

I emailed a friend because i heard they got married. Congratulated them and wished them happiness. But the email i got back was strange. He mentioned he got married two months ago and he is just hanging in there. But that he may be a father next year. and he was happy about having another baby. Why would someone be happy about a baby but not be excitied about his marriage and just say he is hanging in there? No one even asked him how his marriage was going. strange

2007-08-08 02:34:49 · 9 answers · asked by monalisa79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is scared of commitment which is why he doesn't want to marry me yet. However, he proposed to me back on Christmas Day so did he not know that that's what that meant? He is also selfish in some ways. He has a problem with porn too. He just recently quit drinking and we don't see eye to eye on church. However, he's a great partner, a great father, and a great human being. He is trustworthy and a hardworker. He helps around the house all the time. We have been together over a year now. He loves me and i love him but he's never satisfied with what he has. MY family loves him and his family loves me and we all get along just fine except for his dad who doesn't agree with anything we do. Is there any other men out there like mine and what should i do about all of this?

2007-08-08 02:34:05 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce