is it wrong to begin a new relationship while your divorce isnt final..but will be in three months? should u get mad if the man that you want tells you to slow down..and wait..that maybe one day we will pursue a relationship..maybe? should i even get mad ? should i move on to someone else..who knows what he wants..in 1 year or two years? and should i stay with a maybe?
2007-08-08 03:08:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I started a relationship a few months before my divorce, and even though I initiated the divorce, I wasn't ready at all for another relationship. It was more of a hurt/rebound thing--finally wanting someone who wanted me. I realized I still had so much to learn about myself and it wasn't fair to bring someone else into the equation. Don't be mad at the guy for telling you to slow down. He's being realistic.
Please note this is only my personal experience.
2007-08-08 03:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy gave you some good advice...slow down. If you are just getting divorced then maybe you should slow down and get your head on straight before jumping into a committed relationship. You sound confused and unsure of what you want. Take a deep breath, get through with your divorce and find yourself first before you try to find another man. Best of luck to you.
2007-08-08 10:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by CINDY J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? You're divorce isn't even final but your considering leaving a guy who just wants to take it slow. Slow down. Take your time. Enjoy being single. Be sure.
2007-08-08 10:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe isnt good enough if he doesnt want you now forget him its not worth it life is to short for maybe find someone else, no i dont think its wrong to have a relationship when your divorce is not final yet as ;long as the new partner knows nothing wrong you still sighned the papers
2007-08-08 10:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by QT PIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋