Should i leave the house and go on my own, or stay to work things out?
2007-08-08 03:18:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
baby girl, if you can afford it, then yes, absolutely move out. this is the only way to be independent. you always can stop by and have dinner with her. (i would to save some money).
2007-08-08 03:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is probably best to leave the nest and move out on your own or in with other friends, and then work on patching up your relationship with Mom.
Two adult females in any household are always going to clash and you are at an age where it is normal to seek independence, whereas it is normal for you Mom to rule the roost as she always has.
2007-08-08 10:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come to the conclusion that people are designed to flourish in their parent's homes up until a certain age and then after that, it's better that they leave if they want to continue maturing and developing. I think the age is different for different people but if you're starting to feel caged, it's probably time to think about moving out if you can afford it. I would leave on good terms with your mom though if I was you.
2007-08-08 10:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by sonfai81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! I moved out two weeks after I turned 20. Mum didn't take it well and didn't speak to me for 3 months. She got over it though. I found it a nice break really, and refused to feel guilty. My mum was very much into the idea of having an "adult relationship" with her kids, but is completely incapable of doing so when they live under her roof. Poor Mum, she's always been in denial over that :)
2007-08-08 10:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you better stay at home and try to work out things with your mother... After all you are her daughter and I'm sure she loves you soo much.. Besides, problems between parents and their children happen everywhere and in almost every house
I'm sure everything will be ok..
good luck
2007-08-08 10:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by miss_arabian_gulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant handle the situation and respect your moms rules then you need to leave her house and go out and live on your own.
2007-08-08 10:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! you are an adult now! you're supposed to go and spread your wings like a butterfly or whatever they tell you! dude, the second i hit 18, i'm out of here!
2007-08-08 10:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anachronism 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're in school and need a place to go, then stay and work it out.
If you're working full time, you need your own place full time.
2007-08-08 10:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 20 its time to get your own place you maybe also stressing your mom out as well.
2007-08-08 10:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay & work things but things will never change
sit down with her & talk to her, tell her if she don't change your going leave the house, see her reaction
2007-08-08 10:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋