Ok, so I'm seeing my bf of 10+ months in 2 weeks, and I haven't seen him in 4 months since he's in another country. He sent me this lovely gift yesterday, but for some reason today I feel as though I'm almost doubting things. Nothing went wrong, and he has been perfect in every aspect of the word. I just don't know why I'm feeling this way...could it be nerves? Is this normal?
2007-08-08 02:43:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to see him personally first and try to weigh your feelings about him before coming up with a conclusion (like falling out of love etc.)
2007-08-08 02:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably just wanting to see him. Some people when they don't see someone for ages then get a gift they can doubt if the relationship is true.
Good luck for two weeks
2007-08-08 09:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sallymander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal. you think, that since he sent you a gift, he feels guilty or something, or it may be that he just saw something and thought of you. you really have to talk to him about it. i think that a lot of women feel that way---i mean,they feel doubtful---because he IS in another country and yes, you may be scared that you guys aren't as close as before. BUT DON'T take this as your bf cheating, im sure he isn't. just talk to him as soon as you can. be honest with him. tell him how you feel.
2007-08-08 09:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Summer ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably have fallen out of "like/love" with him.. being away from someone for 4 months can do that to you. Don't worry. once you see him and you get to spend some time together, your love for him will come back.
2007-08-08 09:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mami 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
The same thing happened to me recently, and once I saw him again, I just fell on him and never wanted to let him go.
2007-08-08 09:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is probably just nerves . I would be happy to see him if I were you .Just be glad that he is coming to see you after be away for so long . good luck.
2007-08-08 09:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal...just let it go...
but start planning things when he gets back...and let him know about all the things you want to do with him....he will be anticipating this then....then get married soon after that..........dont' live together........
2007-08-08 09:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by lodger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋